Hump Day’s Motivational Picture
This is a story about a cat, well, a couple of cats really.It was a hot summer day, so Sylvester says to Linus, “I wish we could just shed all of our fur and catch some rays” to which Linus replied “Man, you’re a cat, a cool cat, and so am I. Let’s just do it!!”
That’s why you have two cat’s sunbathing…
What the hell, eh? It’s Wednesday…
Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Anyone can have a house...
“Be it ever so humble there’s no place like home.”
Home is where you want to be, where we all want to be. A place that is familiar, safe and inviting is what we all want to have, is what we all want to be a part of, welcoming to friends and family.
I don’t know why I’m telling you this because you should know all about home and family and friends already…
But it is strange about how the most common of facts escape us. How we begin to expect people to behave differently just because, well, it’s what we think they should do.
Nobody just “does” something because it’s what we expect, or want.
But we can control someone’s initial perception of ourselves by what we write about ourselves in our online dating profile.
You can be funny, warm, serious… sensual, excited, somber.
You name it, someone else will read what you tell them about yourself.
You don’t have to be famous or writing an autobiography of your excellent life.
You just have to be you.
And you need a great headline for your personal profile to encourage someone to click once more and read what you’ve written.
They are, after all, looking for someone like you, right?
I suggest that you post this headline to begin meeting the people that want to meet you:
“Am I the downfall to your singleness?”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Interactive Online Dating
I am so friggin’ tired. Moving is so much hard work… If I have to do this again this decade I will not touch another box, the moving people will do the wrapping, boxing up and unpacking. I’ve had it.
But enough about me, this blog is actually about you. I bet you haven’t heard that one before, right?
I have your best interests at heart. I work hard thinking what words I can suggest for you to put into your dating profile headline.
And this isn’t easy… I hardly know you. But I think I’m close to the mark more often than not. What do you think?
Having an open dialogue is what a blog is all about. It’s not just about me it’s what we can both communicate about. A method of interaction that is involving.
When you’re using an online dating service you’re “putting yourself out there” in a way that is both intimate and interactive. You rely on showing the best of yourself as well as what is most desirable that you have to offer someone.
The best of your best. And that needs a a headline that will pique someone’s interest better than anyone else on the search results page. And the headline I have to offer you today to post is this:
“We can be great together!”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Be excited about your life!
Today is the day the movers come and a new life, a fresh start begins.
While my move is actually taking me back to where I was 4 years ago, I have the opportunity to be more focused on my life’s goals and closer to real achievement.
I am excited.
It’s great to be excited about your life, about your achievements and your dreams being realized.
Although the future is a certain mystery (we never know what the next moment will hold), there is joy in the unfolding of our life, if we accept the things that we cannot change and have power over the things we can change.
For your headline today, this being the first day of the week and the first opportunity to take control over your future, I offer you this suggestion:
“Come for a ride with me!”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day

How does your life unfold?
I’ve been thinking a lot about thinking.
Do we think enough about the events that unfold throughout our day or do we just let things happen?
Is it luck, karma or just … well, whatever…
To be in a place where something happens, at that time, in that place… is it an unplanned happening or a planned event that happened for us?
Today let your headline flow from the heavens and carry your future to you:
“I passed a wishing well, tossed in a coin… then I met you”.
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Yes, hot enough!
It is FREAKIN’ HOT… still.
You know, when you live at the top of a mountain you don’t have air conditioning. That’s because any really hot parts of the summer only happen for a couple of weeks. I’m talking about a steady 33C (about 90F) through the day/afternoon, then it cools down rapidly after 7:00pm.
But, if you read yesterday’s post you’ll know that I am moving. Yup, going from the top of the mountain to the base of the mountain.
Moving can be good, cathartic even.
As long as your progress is forward then you’re in a good place, right?
Yes, I know that you know what I mean, and that can only be good.
Goodness is a great virtue that can easily be expressed in just a few words, for instance in a headline for a dating profile… maybe an example like this headline:
“Thanking you, in advance, for your message to me.”
Have a great day!
New article posted

Missy, the Missing Cat
This is about Missy, the missing cat.
If you’re not a designer, not a secretary and not a cat hater, you’ll find humor here.
Hell, even if you are any of the above this should squeak a little laugh out of you.
That being said, I invite you to read about Missy, the Missing Cat.
Friday’s Conversation Topics

Let's play!
- Takeru “Tsunami” Kobayashi was arrested Sunday after attempting to hop on stage following a rival’s win in the 95th annual Nathan’s Hot Dog Eating Competition. File this is the “weird news” section. My question is, why did he show up if he couldn’t compete?
- The web is all washed up. Could the rocker Prince be right, is the web now so outdated that you’re not even reading this comment? Do bears shit in the woods? Does any of this make sense at all?
- Sometimes someone get’s burned. Yes, we’ve all heard of “fire walkers” and someone you know knows someone that walked on a hot bed of coals and lived to tell the tale. But in this story, nine people get treated for burns to their feet. Sad, really.
- NORAD computers show launched ballistic missiles aimed at the U.S. The movie “Countdown” will soon be in theaters this summer. You will find, according to the review that is linked to this post, unsettling realities of our nuclear heritage and future. Will you be ready to “Demand Zero” for our nuclear bomb armaments?
- LeBron James will play with the Miami heat next season. I’m not a basketball fan but wow, LeBron has been everywhere this week. News, blogs, Twitter, the man is taking over, or so it would seem. I just hope his paycheck matches expectations.
Have a great conversational weekend!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Funny droll or funny Ha Ha?
I am under the gun.
Moving day is fast approaching and I have about 80% of my stuff not in boxes… the stuff isn’t even aware there is a box with it’s name on it.
You’d think that, after having at least a dozen addresses under my belt I’d either be more organized or just still have my stuff in boxes from the last move.
Ahh well… let’s get back to the task at hand, your dating profile headline.
You know, you’ve got to be ready, kind of having your boxes marked, so that your headline goes properly along with your profile. if your headline does not match your profile, as in showing off a part of you that isn’t apparent when someone reads your headline you might confuse the reader and turn them off instead of turning them onto you.
Basically, if your headline is funny include some humor in your profile (there’s always the “About You” box where you can write about yourself creatively), if your headline is serious, write about your strength and fortitude.
For today, Friday, this is what I suggest your headline show read:
“Are you funny droll or funny Ha Ha?”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day

His name is Rob
I think we all take some secret joy in the follies of the wealthy and young stars.
Seriously… if you make so much money, need to present such a glaringly white persona (and haven’t yet learned the lessons of Tiger Woods) discretion is the better part of stardom. Rent a limo for the night. You’ve earned it, don’t drive and drink all you want. There’s enough chaos in the world and we need more stars that do shine whine, shine true.
Give us hope, right?
That being said, we can’t ever slam the bad ones enough, can we?
So post this as your headline today, get a laugh and a reply to your profile with:
“I never went to rehab – with or without Lindsay Lohan.”
Have a great day!
The Best First Date Gift
I’ve written about the “Best gift for a first date” before and have a couple of articles posted too… but it struck me just a couple of minutes ago that all these articles talk about gift “items” like flowers and candy.

First Date Gifts
Now, I know that common courtesy begins at home… but I also cut parents some slack here. There is school, friends, mentoring, role models and the whole nine yards that can make a difference here too.
There’s only so many battles parents want to fight and getting a “thank you” and a “you’re welcome” rate low on the list (unfortunately). Teachers have to deal with a multitude of kids and only the good ones get special attention, or the really bad ones. And at this point either the kid has common courtesy or he/she doesn’t.
It’s that simple.
So, what I’ve tried to say, and will make plain here, is that if you want to treat a girl (or a guy) special, be kind and be courteous. That’s the best gift of all.
Giving your date a “thank you” and being nice enough to open their car door, the restaurant door (hell – any door!) is a great start. But being courteous isn’t just when you’re with them either… this includes when you’re on the phone, texting, even when you’re just talking about them with someone else.
Great ways to say “Thank you”:
- I really like this
- this is fun
- how did you know I would like this?
- I’ve been craving this all week
- I’m glad we did this together
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