Hump Day’s Motivational Picture
A woman, a bikini, a nice rack (holding up the light). Sure, that’s what I mean. It is nice to know that there’s a place that is so warm right now…
A woman, a bikini, a nice rack
Actively Single: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Wednesday
When you wake and look forward to your day ahead do you let the little, possibly bad, things affect your mood for the entire day?
We all have challenges that present themselves and it’s how we handle the “bumps in the road” that form a part of our defining personality.
When you’re at work, managing through your day (even if unemployed) how different is your work personality, in front of your “work family”, from what your personality, and words/actions, than when at home, with your real family?
If you can see how differently we interact with people through our work day than at home, do you believe that if you reveresed these “personalities” your home life would be significantly imptroved?
As you continue your online dating adventure, now would your profile chnage if you exerted your work personality more into your profile? Would there be an improvement?
Today, for your headline, I’d like you to search for someone like you at your favorite online dating service. The same age, sex and general location.
What do these profile search results tell you about people that are your age, in your area, that are single and looking?
Carefully review those resultys and decide how that would change my killer/awesome headline suggestion for you today:
“Today is when all good people should meet.”
Power Over You: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Tuesday
Tell me, who has the power over you?
If someone was to walk into the room, who would it have to be to make you obey their every word, to do their bidding without question? (This is for civilians but military types can ‘take five’ to play along).
Yeah, love is kind of like that, good answer.
I really hope that you get the opportunity to experience love like that again.
Maybe today’s dating profile headline will kick-start your successes with online dating:
“If you only had one more chance for love…”
Have a great day!
Freedom: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Monday
“A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle.”
This was a favorite quote of Mohammed Nabbous, the Libyan techie that brought a live feed of what was really happening in Libya, from behind Gadhafi’s firewalls and mercenaries, on his radio “Voice of Free Libya” broadcasts. Mohammed is now counted among the hundreds that have died and the many hundreds that will die before this war is ended, many martyrs will be counted and many voices silenced. God save us all.
I add this to my usual “Dating Profile Headline of the Day” blog because life happens to us and we can only honor those that have fought for freedom by offering freedom to others. This is as much of dating as anything can be.
We have regular lives to live, people to love, families to start and yes, even sons and daughters to send to defend our freedoms.
If you remember one thing from my hundreds of blog posts remember this: dating and the freedom to date who we want and where we want is at the very basis of our freedom. Even the act of dating honors those that have paid the ultimate price for our freedom.
For your headline today please use my suggestion:
“Look around where you are right now, for this is freedom.”
Have a great day!
Should You Call Her The Next Day?
Should You Call Her The Next Day?
There are several rules for guys that are used when you meet a great women, have a fun night together, you really like her and then what do you do?
I prefer that you can call the next day, just to say that you had a great time last night, she looked awesome, can I call later this week so we can get together again? This approach generates more successful second dates that the other dating rules you might know.
Another rule is that you wait three days before calling her to set up another date. This delay tactic is supposed to generate a stronger attraction for you but can often backfire in frustration by your possible date because she has wondered too long about why you didn’t call her. A lot of potential negative reasons go through her mind at by the time you do call her she’s so frustarted by your lack of communication that she’s already given up on you, even if she did feel a strong attraction for you.
The last popular “should you call her rule” is to wait for her to call you. This is not good at all. Even if you preclude the possibilities that she lost your number and a hundred other negative concerns, if you leave the phone call up to her you may never know why she didn’t call you. And, of course, she might have been waiting for you to call her.
Another couple of things to remember:
- don’t text message her, she wants to hear your voice to re-experience the strong attraction she has for you;
- emails are equally bad, they don’t communicate the emotion you both may feel which becomes a negative feeling sooner;
- Don’t have along phone call, it’s too interrupting to the attraction she may feel, plus you may say something stupid or talk about things that she’s not interested about, and again you create a positive attraction into a neutral or negative feeling for you.
The first rule is the best, keep the call short, sweet, to the point, have a plan of a possible next date (but don’t mention it, this will be your next call to her in a daye or two) and know that you’ve done your best to make her attracted to you.
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Kissing Frogs: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
You must kiss a lot of frogs...
There are three types of people that come into and out of our lives:
- people that we have a lot in common with
- people that drift in and out of our lives
- people that are just plain freaks
The first two groups are people that are family, close friends, peers, mentors, etc. The last group add excitement and danger to our lives, appear unexpectedly in our lives and just as quickly pop out and are gone for good.
These three groups can also be identified as three stages of our lives as well. The first two groups are our adolescence and our settling down stages of life, the beginning and the end, so to speak.
The freaks, meanwhile, are the period of our life that we are a little, or a lot, wild. Teen years, early adulthood, when there are no consequences and we feel as if cannot die. Often remembered as god times but things we’d never do again. (I hope you have pictures.)
It’s out of these three groups that we find people to date. And you just might end up dating a few freaks before you find your match in life, so don’t feel frustrated. The frog you kiss that turns into a prince (or princess) is never under the first rock you turn over.
Your dating profile headline suggestion today is this:
“Tired of kissing frogs, say hello to me my princess (prince).”
Have a great day!
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Friday’s Conversational Stories
Another weekend is upon us and quite frankly I don’t know which news story to begin with: Lybia, Japan or Charlie Sheen. Well, certainly not a guy who’s main claim to fame is being unemployed (some may argue “under-employed”) and a bunch of crazy-person-sounding antics and slogans. No matter, read through the articles, remember my witty comments, and have fun speaking things up this weekend.
- Saturday night brings us the brightest moon in 18 years. The moon is at it’s closest point since 1993 so this full moon should be brighter than other moons. If the sky is clear this will be a great night for a walk, or even hanging out at an outdoor patio (as long as they have those big heaters going). “The best time to look is when the moon is near the horizon,” according to NASA Science News. “That is when illusion mixes with reality to produce a truly stunning view.”
- You need at least $7 million dollars to feel rich, says 4 out of 10 millionaires in recent survey. That certainly ups the ante for how hard I’m going to have to work. Please don’t tell my significant other, she’ll take away my xbox.
- The whoopie pie state fight. This is why politicians get a bad rap, generally they’re wasteful idiots. Besides a couple of food companies, maybe, who really cares what the hometown of the whoopie pie is located, Maine or Pennsylvania? Why can’t we dock the pay of politicians that forward such nonsense? Think of all the time and manpower that goes into this waste. Ugh.
- Mega Millions lottery is going to roll over to more than $240 million, certainly enough to make you feel rich. I treasure my friends and family instead of money and possessions. (Yup, I had to say that to get my xbox back.)
- iPhone app that impersonates police flashing lights leads to man getting charged. Note to self: don’t use flashing light iPhone app to scare off other motorists, they might call the real police.
Have a great weekend!
Interesting Times: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Friday
“You should live in interesting times.”
An ancient proverb or curse?
Every generation has it’s challenges, wartime and peacetime. It’s how we handle the consequences of our decisions that make us stronger or cause us to buckle under the weight of current events.
“It’s your life but only so far as the government allows.” This is a statement that breathes hard down our necks, whether we want it or not, we have Big Brother watching us and watching out for us.
And it’s beconing who’s big brother will win that battle that everything is going to be measured by from this day forward. I hope our elected officials are up to the task. It’s won’t be too much longer to find out what happens next.
My headline suggestion for you started this blog but I’ll write it again in case you missed it:
“You should live in interesting times.”
Have a great day!
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Are You There?: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
The Japan tsunami disaster
Are we soon to witness a nuclear meltdown in Japan? More than one?
In times of great distress, where everything you had is gone in a flash, as is being experienced by hundreds of thousands of Japanese people, that love is the only thing that wil carry you through the ordeal.
Knowing that the people you hold most dear are alive and safe is more important than possessions and money. It is love that gives our lives real meaning.
If you’re rich your money may have had made life more comfortable before the disaster and may make rescue of family and loved ones a higher priority after the disaster (because you’d have the financial resources to attempt a rescue more feasible), but Mother Nature doesn’t care about bank accounts or social status. We are all susceptible to the same level of destruction as our neighbor is in the moment of disaster. It is love that carries us from the worst that could happen to the joy of knowing the people we hold most dear are alive and safe.
We see this joy over and over replayed in the news.
If you are alone, if you have no one, who will you share the joy of living with? Who will look for you if disaster strikes?
Hell, what happens if you have the flu or a simple cold?
Family, friends and lovers, these are the people that get us through the tough moments that life (and Mother Nature) throws at us.
And when you’re actively looking for love it’s love that you expect to find. Now, I can’t tell you where you’ll find love. It could be at an online dating service, it could be when when you bump into a stranger at the grocery store.
But if you’re actively looking for love you will find it.
For a headstart maybe you want to change the headline of your online dating profile to this:
“Love means never having to ask ‘Are you there?’ “
Have a great day!
