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Archive for April 2011

13
Apr

Something Important: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Wednesday

Your helpful dating tip for today is:
- Listen as much as you can, when you’re talking you’re more likely to say something wrong.

Yes, it’s an oldie but it’s worth remembering, as long as you’re listening you’re not talking so you won’t be putting yourself into trouble.

It’s a lesson I learned a long time ago, so I only talk when I have something important or informative to say, anything else is just so much bullshit. Or will end up being remembered as such.

I will also offer you this headline so you can have an original beginning to your dating profile:
“There is only one reason we’ve met this way…”

Have a great day!

12
Apr

Your Future: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Your future is coming.

Your future is coming.

Tuesday

I’m back in the saddle, after a trip that will change my life forever.

How often do you reach the crossroads of a decision or choice you must make that will determine the future you will have?

I’d wager that there might be two or three of such choices that will “pre-determine” your future, I can only think of two such decisions I’ve made over my years that have had far-reaching implications for my future. Needless to say I will leave those portions of my life private.

In your online dating adventure will the choice to use online dating be one such decision of yours, or will it be the person you meet?

Only by looking in the rear view mirror of our lives can we know for certain the importance of the decisions we have made. The importance is that we do make the decision for ourselves and not leave our lives up to “fate” or that our future is determined by not making a decision for ourselves and leaving that up to others.

If nothing more you have the opportunity to choose. And I hope that you do.

For today I offer you this headline suggestion for your online dating profile:
“Consider this the first love note I am sending you.”

Have a great day!

9
Apr

Fate and Love: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Does Fate find love for you?

Does Fate find love for you?

Saturday

Are you waiting for “Fate” to match you with someone?

Do you leave your love life in the hands of “The Man Upstairs” because you are not confident enough to find love on your own?

I find it amazing that some people don’t work on their own “singledom” to not be single anymore and introduce into their lives someone special.

The tools you need are easily found, just search here and you’ll be well on your way to finding that someone special. Consider this Fate nudging you or The Man Upstairs providing the tools for you.

You don’t have to be alone anymore!

Be warned, you might not find that very special person right away, but you will at least be doing something positive about your singleness and your own confidence levels will rise making you an even more attractive and interesting person to meet!

If you’re uncertain about dating online I have a primer for you, just a few words about starting to date online. Like I said, the online dating tools are here, and they’re just one click away.

Once you’ve chosen your online dating service you’ll need a headline to get your profile writing started. That’s where this blog comes in (make it a favorite so you don’t lose it!), suggesting a new dating profile headline for you every day. Today consider this as your headline:
“Tell me if your name also means L-O-V-E, because we should meet.”

Have a great day!



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8
Apr

Friday’s Conversation Topics

This Friday, not quite the same as past Fridays, offers all new ways to connect to people. because that’s what gives us our humanity, being able to connect to others on many different levels. So consider how to connect, how to meet and interact with new people and use the best news stories of the past week as a guide on what to talk about. Conversation is King!

- Armed robber tries to rob the wrong place. As the robber demands cash customers grab him, despite the gun, pummel him and tie him up with duct tape until police arrive. The robber was beaten up pretty good too. Maybe he’ll be safer in jail.

- Reporting a business that doesn’t pay their taxes properly nets a $4.5 million “Whistleblower” award for small town accountant. The government wants their due and will now share up to 30% of what the IRS recovers in unpaid taxes. despite the “small-town” accountant’s anonymity in this case I think his neighbors will figure it out with that big new house and Lamborghini in the driveway.

- Hottie on a bike. Guys, if you need some inspiration, she’s single.

- FCC “net neutrality” rules forecast to be in limbo. If the Internet is capable of tearing down walls and giving individuals and companies an even playing field, who will eventually be the master of this freedom in America? This is the great question of our time.

8
Apr

Party Person: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Do you party with people?

Do you party with people?

Friday

How do you do amongst a group of people?

Myself, I am a little uneasy. I’m never quite sure what I should be doing, that is until the interesting conversations start. Until that time I stand around and look for a nice quiet place to sit.

Occasionally I’ll search out someone I know and make small talk, but that’s about the extent of my personable abilities. I’m comfortable introducing myself to others and I am a good listener, which makes me a good conversationalist, I’m told.

But this is about you. Are you a wallflower? Or do you seek the spotlight?

Are you invited to parties because you’re the life of the party or because you’re a warm body that doesn’t make trouble?

These answers lead us to surprising conclusions about ourselves and how we interact with others.

This leads us to today’s insightful dating profile headline:
“What type of party person are you?”

Have a great day!

7
Apr

A Happy Duck: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Have you met my duck?

Have you met my duck?

Thursday

You have to be amazed that government can do anything it deems to be “The Law” yet when they can’t get their act together hundreds of thousands of ordinary people will be out of work, not getting a paycheck, being kicked out of parks and public spaces, those same that are the Government still get paid. Maybe they should be forfeiting their pay to a charitable cause. That should be a law. Either the Government is an essential service or it isn’t. Why do politicians always get things both ways?

Special treatment for “special people”, am I right?

We shouldn’t really be surprised, the world is full of special people, those that believe that the normal rules of life don’t apply to them.

We can see them at red lights in any traffic stop, in lineups waiting for something, in restaurants demanding special treatment. I could go on but we all know of those I am talking about.

When you’re dating you walk a fine line of being a special person for someone you like and a normal person for everyone else. tripping up in the distinction of the two usually ends in disaster.

My dating profile headline suggestion for you today is a funny headline that’s sure to get you noticed:
“Have you ever met a duck you didn’t like?”

Have a great day!

6
Apr

Hump Day’s Motivational Picture

Meet Cindy… usually shy but likes her beach bikini’s.

Meet Cindy

Meet Cindy

6
Apr

For Something Good: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

I love writing love notes

I love writing love notes

Wednesday

We’re all looking to have a few extra dollars in our pockets.
There are two real ways to make more money appear in your pocket:
- get another job
- spend less

Of course the moment you tell someone you’d like to make more money all the weasels appear touting the latest and greatest money making schemes. Avoid those people like a tsunami.

You need to plan your own future, no one is going to make you richer or more successful (unless they’re called ‘mommy or ‘daddy’), this is your life to live and no one else’s.

It’s also your life to fail at, and you know what they say, “Those that fail to plan, plan to fail”.

We will all make our mark on this world and on those around us, your singular aim is to be remembered (today, tomorrow, in 25 years) and to be worthy of being remembered.

For something good.

If you need a push in the right direction feel free to ask me.

What I’d really like to do though, is to help you find someone that will want to be more involved in your life than I ever will be. Your online dating profile is a step in the right direction. Using today’s recommended headline is another step, so post this:
“I love writing love notes, will you love receiving them?”

Have a great day!

5
Apr

Bright Side of Life: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Tuesday

Do you play the part of “victim” in your life?

Now, I’m not talking about a victim of violence or crime.

I mean the type of “victim” that always has things happening to them that they can bitch and complain about to others.

I’ll give you an example: You arrive at work and along with your “good mornings” you offer to your co-workers you absolutely must ass that your parking space today was way in the back, that the barista made the worse cup of coffee ever and that you’ve got so much to do today that you might not finish for lunch on time.

Is this you, the “victim”? Honestly, I hate those people. Anything you say to them reminds them of what something bad happened to them.

When I am in the rain I think of the rainbow that will appear when the rain stops; these victims know that rain now means rain later, that it wasn’t a one-time deal and that no matter what, it does always “rain on their parade”.

Avoid them at all costs!

One way to be able to spot them in online personals is to carefully read through their profile. If there’s nothing good, then likely it’s all going to be bad. trust me.

And so you don’t end up being caught in this “rainbow denier” category, always write a nice personal experience along with your profile. People understand disaster but relate much better to happier recollections.

For your headline suggestion today, try this:
“If you were a Monty Python character, who would you be?”

Have a great day!

Monty Python’s Life Of Brian “Always look on the bright side of life!”


4
Apr

Achieve the Impossible: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Achieve the Impossible

Achieve the Impossible

Monday

This week offers us one more chance to make the changes that will allow us to reach our goals, however small or lofty.

We are not animals guided solely by instinct, people have the capacity of change, to alter our behavior to achieve what previously was impossible.

I ask you to write down your long-term goals and aspirations and set in motion the steps needed to achieve these goals.

Today’s headline follows this topic:
“With you the potential is unlimited.”

Have a great day!

3
Apr

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2
Apr

A Woman’s Honor: Dating Profile Headline of the Day


Sunday

Have you ever found yourself in a fight for a woman’s honor.

At some point in life this is a challenge that every man will face. Whether it’s a big asshole a few bar stools away or simply a loud-mouthed jerk, her honor will be valued on your reaction and by making the right response you’ll either end the evening with sex, a trip to the “emergency room” or returning to the never ending line of men that are “single and looking”.

I had such a thing happen to me. My date and I were in a club and a bunch of loud-mouth knuckle draggers were seated in the booth across from us. Eventually the ignoramuses had upset my date and it was time to take matters into my own hands.

I sized them up (all 140lbs on my 5’10″ frame), calmly walked over and said “please keep your smart-aleck remarks to yourselves and maybe one day you’ll meet a girl that will like you for who you are and not how you talk. They really didn’t know how to respond and rather soon after they left.

It’s only a fight if two people throw punches. It’s only an insult if you accept it as that. Life is too short for these types of drama, don’t you think?

For today’s headline, following on your favorite book yesterday, maybe your favorite character in that book will make a good headline:
“Lev Kovalensky loved Kira, it just wasn’t enough considering the times. Things are better now, right?”

Have a great day!