Hump Day’s Motivational Picture
It’s that time of the week again, I feel so sorry for all of us. But there is a bright side to Hump Day and it’s called Adry A., a photography model and soon to be actress that loves what she does. And she shares too.
Adry A.
See more of Adry’s photo gallery at Met Art.
Headlines: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Wednesday
I’ve been hanging out a lot at www.Perfectmatch.com to see what changes, if any, they’ve made since my last really good look at the service.
I have to admit, with one exception, I do like what I see there.
The drawback I find is that they actually don’t have a headline to lead off your dating profile. In the thousands of online dating services that I have visited (some removed, many just avoided speaking ill of) I can’t ever think of one that didn’t put your headline front and center.
At Perfectmatch.com your headline is hidden on a tab called “In my own words”, so if you’re looking for a place to write in one of my headline suggestions, then that’s the place.
My dating profile headline suggestion for you, in my own words, is this:
” I’ll be here, will you be joining me? “
Have a great day!
Garden of Dating: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Choking off the dream?
This is the week that spring really starts. For some with gardens and with the obvious “green thumb” they’ve been busy buying and planting their flowers, shrubs and other pollen creators to add color to their “humble abodes” and can now start to appreciate their work.
Then the are others, like me, that do have a humble abode, with a front and back yard, that simply wait for the boss’s teen to come and earn some money by mowing and clipping until my heart is content – and as far as the yard goes it doesn’t take much – and his job is done. And I can stay inside knowing that my neighbors no longer hate me as much for an unkempt yard.
Yes, spring is hard. I would like to say it’s even harder for condo and apartment dwellers but never having been on that side of the road I just don’t have any experience to decide if it’s a good thing or a bad thing, living in a big building with little green-space and possibly the desire to still grow green and colorful things.
Online dating, believe me, is the green-space of your life.
Either you take control and allow only the beautiful plants to inhabit your space, or you give up and let the weeds run rampant, crowding out the beauty, choking off the dream of a pure green-space of your own, that used to be under your control.
Online dating is the only place where you are in complete control of the messages you send, of understanding, generally in-depth, the person you’re going to email by reading all they wanted to share on their own profiles before you even commit to a single alphabet character being sent their way.
Online dating is your green garden, waiting for the right mix of color and durability for what you pant there. Waiting for the mix of light and darkness to be right to provide the correct growing conditions.
It’s all up to you.
For your headline today I suggest this:
“What is your mix of sun and shade?”
Have a great day!
Doing: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Monday
“What do you do?”
This simple question can be interpreted many different ways and has many right and different answers.
Psychologists and psychiatrists love this question because the first answer is usually the defensive one, which helps to define the boundaries of achievement and loss, friendships and broken hearts. Think about it.
Within the confines of online dating “What do you do?” is answered with a short paragraph about your career/job. Not about how you bring excitement to the bedroom and not what you do when you find a quarter on the sidewalk.
For your dating profile headline today let’s go for it and post this:
“What do you do?” ; and see what type of answer you get.
Have a great day!
The Good Person Inside: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Give in to meditation today.
We all have a very good person inside of us. Some call it a “sub-conscious referee”, that little voice in our head that tells us right from wrong.
That little voice is what tells us how to properly act and react to the events that swirl around us. Listening to that voice is what keeps us sane.
But do you still hear that little voice? Or is it buried under the everyday lies we tell ourselves?
It’s easy to become uninvolved with our own life, to just let whatever happens happen and blame some universal force for the wrongs in our lives.
But that isn’t healthy and it isn’t real. Taking responsibility for what happens in our lives allows that little voice to speak louder and with greater concern for our well-being.
Today give yourself some time to meditate and listen to that voice of reason, give time to let yourself find harmony with the truth and the right in your world. You’ll have a great week ahead if you allow yourself to listen.
For your dating profile headline today I suggest this:
“Can I find you on the straight and narrow?”
Have a great day!
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Fantasy Lover: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
How sensual are you?
Do you have a fantasy lover?
Having a fantasy lover can be very fulfilling, allowing yourself to get sensual and excited and if you take the extra time to understand what makes your fantasy lover so good at what they do you’ll find that you have those same deeply sensual feelings available to share with the lover you have, or will have, in real life.
Many people shut off the fantasy or don’t allow themselves to experience this sensual side of themselves because they repress these very same emotions.
This weekend you should take 10 or 30 minutes to meditate. Just relax with easy deep breathing… in… out… and free yourself of the thoughts of the day.
Allow yourself to wander into that sensual place where your fantasy lover can be found… in… out… easy deep breathing.
Feel their touch on your skin, their own emotions of love and sexuality that only a fantasy lover can share with you.
Keep breathing deeply… in… out.
When your meditation is done write down the emotions that you shared with your fantasy lover. If you can, include how and where you were touched. If there was a song playing in the background include that in your remembering of the experience.
By visiting your fantasy lover you can begin to understand the deep sensual side that is inside you, waiting to be experienced with a real person. Hold onto those memories as you date people.
When you understand what you deeply want in a relationship you begin to have the ability to make it happen.
For your new personal ad headline today I suggest this:
“Do you have a fantasy lover?”
Have a great day!
More about this meditation exercise can be found in the ebook “Have The Relationship You Want” by Rori Raye.
Friday’s Best “Pick-up” Conversation Topics
It’s been a wild ride of a week. On a personal note I had a very big health scare with being diagnosed with a suspected liver cancer. Fortunately the results of an MRI scan came back and showed no cancer there. I have been living on cloud nine since then and really want this feeling to continue. Let’s let the good news continue! Read on.
- So there’s this lab in Japan that invents a kissing machine that allows two people to simulate kissing each other over the internet. I’m not really surprised by this, not really, because I remember a news story from years ago how the porn industry was reported to have created a usb vagina, and I’ll leave it’s use to your imagination.
- If you’re still not completely out of your winter den then you’ve likely change channels to check out “The Voice” which is quite lame, I think, and Randy Jackson agrees with me. And could there have been a bigger disappointment in the season finale of “Fringe”. Seriously, what is going on with this show? Have they given up on a storyline and just decided to give the writers tons of beers to come up with lines for the actors to say?
- Sony and the PlayStation Network totally screwed more that the 77 million people that have used the system and we’re still waiting for all the details to come out. Despite the hack attack what exactly is being done now to protect users? I know that I’m trembling every time I check my credit card balances online and because of the network outage I’ve had kids suffering video game withdrawal that no amount of money can possibly repay me for.
- Some day’s it’s gratifying to see people in worse situations that yourself, so here’s a bunch of losers you can laugh at, 15 booking photos courtesy of The Smoking Gun.
- We all know that some teens are incredibly stupid, but having sex at a party in front of 15 other teens and having the act video recorded and shared among other students at a high school? The charges haven’t been announced yet but I’m sure they will do more that going to bed without dessert.
Hump Day’s Motivational Picture
Divina A. is our featured Hump Day Motivational Picture and if she can’t help you get your game into gear not much will. have a great day and start planning an awesome weekend.
Divina A. Met-Art Model
You can see more photos of Divina A. (NSFW) here.
Do You Believe In Magic?: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Wednesday
Do you believe in magic?
Not the witches and warlocks type, but the very entertaining stage type of music?
I think that when we can enjoy something that seems unbelievable, when we can suspend logic for a few moments and be enjoyed with a man walking through walls, a woman being cut in half and all the other astonishing magic tricks, that we have truly comfortable moments inside our ow skins.
Magic gives us pause from the ordinary and introduces us to the extraordinary, where we are a part of the magic but not it’s center of attention.
We can turn to the people around us and wonder how the trick was done, we can share something within our seatmates and not be subject to personal appearance or personality rules because those have been suspended along with our logic, at least temporarily.
It’s this state of freedom you need to have when talking with new people you meet. Freedom from what would normally hold you back from speaking, freedom from your usual inhibitions and self-consciousness.
When you introduce yourself to new people today, ask them what their favorite magic trick is and find that common ground to be a part of within the small group you find yourself within.
For your headline today I suggest:
“Do you believe in magic?”
Have a great day!
Completing Your Mission: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Tuesday
On Sunday it was revealed that the terror leader Osama bin Laden was killed by US Military. The head has been cut off the snake, let’s hope the snake dies a quick death as well.
On to the business at hand:
Dating at it’s most primal level is a matter of conquer and submission. Man conquers and women submit.
Yes, I know, it’s chauvinistic and out of date. Surprisingly enough though, it’s only been “chauvinistic” for about 30 years and out of date since only the later half of the 19th century.
For the majority of human history the fact of male/female interactions has simply been arranged marriages, or conquering.
Is it any wonder that dating advice for guys is so randomized (with one exception in my humble opinion) and for women, only exerting their uniqueness for about 50 years now, are now discovering how to go beyond manipulation to actually understanding the male mind and finding the guys they really like and that are good for them too.
Yes, it’s an upside-down world where we really are just finding out about men and women being together in a somewhat equal relationship.
Yes, I know, it’s tough. But this mission can be completed if you put the time into it. Time and effort solves most problems, trust me.
Have I ever lied to you before? No, of course not.
For your dating profile headline today I suggest this:
“I need a partner to complete my mission, are you up to it?”
Have a great day!
