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Archive for June 2011

20
Jun

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

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A lot of people tell me they want a girlfriend (or boyfriend), that they want to have love in their life.

They seem confused when I ask them what they’ll do when they find it.

Love is not only an emotion it’s a state of being too.

You live in love and that is so much more than simply being in love.

So as you continue your online dating adventure prepare yourself for finding what you seek or you may lose it just as quickly.

You can find some preparation materials here, browse at your leisure.

For your personal ad headline today try this:
“Have you ever met someone online and had the date be great?”

Have a great day!

19
Jun

Ground Control: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

You are “Ground Control”. Hell, you’re even “Major Tom” too.

Anything you do from this moment forward you solely bare the responsibility for what happens next.

You are not being abandoned by my vast resources of guidance, you are simply being reminded (and maybe being told this for the first time) that you are responsible for what happens next, always, in your life.

Playing the “blame game” is moving backward in your life and you always want to be moving forward, not backward, if you want to have success with dating and in your relationships.

Moving forward will also have the benefits of bringing more friends into your life, of financial rewards because you look forward and understand that your financial success (or mess) is also due to the choices you have made. You can become rich, you have all the tools and now is the time to put them to work, effectively, for yourself.

My suggestion for your dating profile headline is this:
“Now that our paths have crossed, will you take a moment to say hello to me?”

Have a great day!



14
Jun

Boundless Possibilities: Dating Profile Headline of the Day



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Is the sun setting or smiling on you today?

Is the sun setting or smiling on you today?

Tuesday

The feeling of being let down keeps many people from trying to date at all, whether online or by trying to meet people in the physical world.

This is wrong because we cannot control how other people will react to us and by trying to avoid disappointment we invite it all the more into our lives.

Life is full of disappointment. We can go to the “glass half full argument” but when you’re disappointed in a person the world becomes a very hurtful place, regardless if the “other half of the glass” is happiness waiting to shine on your face.

We live in the moment and it’s in the moment that we judge and will be judged, that we rejoice in happiness and cry in disappointment.

It’s only the strong that will survive these muddy waters and if you don’t have the strength now you’ll have to find it later or perish into an unknowable hell of your own creation.

If the responsibility of your disappointment was 100% due to someone else then wouldn’t you feel no disappopintment at all, just that other person would feel the disappointment that should be felt? Indeed, it’s only because of your unreachable expectations (reasonable or not) does unhappiness and disappointment enter the picture at all. And it’s your disappointment, not theirs, that is felt.

That being said, it is your disappointment and your responsibility to feel this emotion or not.

So if you can control whether or not you will allow yourself to feel disappointment then you should have no fear of it.

With no fear comes boundless possibilities.

So, then, you should date. Click on that person’s profile, send that email, make that call and say hello to that stranger. Everything is possible for you and nothing wil disappoint you, unless you let it.

This, naturally, brings us to today’s dating profile headline suggestion:
“Boundless possibilities start with a simple hello.”

Have a great day!

13
Jun

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Monday

Congrats, you made it to the beginning of another work week.

Obviously I’ve made it to this finish line with you. Or is this the starting line?

I really hate Mondays. Today all of the mistakes of last week catch up to you. Sucks, doesn’t it?

But let’s talk dating.

You know you’re successful with online dating when you get dates. You might not meet your destiny with any of the first few dates (but your batting average will greatly increase of you’re a member of this dating service).

Online dating has a few “set in stone” rules that you need to be fully aware of:
- Be honest (Not everybody lies on their dating profile, right?)
- Be available (that is, if you’ve found somebody you’re serious about, hide or delete your profile)
- Reply to messages (even if it’s to say “No thanks”)

And for your personal ad headline suggestion today, try nthis:
“I have never lied in an online personal ad!”

Have a great day!

8
Jun

Do You Belong?: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Wednesday

Are you a long way from home?

I mean, we are all somewhere but are you comfortably having a home to go to at the end of your day or are you in transition?

Do you belong?

Dating is all about enriching your life through the eyes of another, and hopefully finding that special connection that we call love.

My wish for you is to find someone to belong to, someone to cling to, someone that will love you honestly and without malice. For your online dating profile headline why not post this today:
“What will happen if you don’t message me?”

Have a great day!

7
Jun

Lady Gaga Bares Boobies

I’ll take you to te page that shows a Lady Gaga wardrobe malfuntion as she bows and bares her breasts here.

You will need to scroll down the page to see the “not safe for work” photos. But if you’re still a Doubting Thomas (or a curious Weiner) whether Lady Gaga is a he or a she, this should end all doubt.

7
Jun

Your Choice: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Tuesday

You can be anywhere and do anything. Is this really the choice you have made or is this only a stepping stone to bigger and better things?

That’s what I thought, good for you!

If we do not strive for a better life every day then we let decay take over. Not a very social or romantic image, is it?

Today I offer you this thought, this personal ad headline, to use as you see fit because, ultimately, it’s your choice:
“Ultimately, it’s your choice.”

Have a great day!



6
Jun

“Weinered”: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Monday

I told you so (but it wasn’t that much of a reach!).

My question to you is “How much punishment should he get?”

His one year marriage is certainly strained, if not over. His career is in tatters, if survivable at all.

And I’m almost certain the women he’s been “carrying on inappropriate relationships with … he’d met online” don’t want anything further to do with him.

Suddenly alone in the big bad world. Good on him.

I’d like to add to the popular axioms of our time “being weinered” to mean “being conned into an online inappropriate relationship”. This is one more of my great additions to the wealth of human knowledge.

For your online dating headline today I offer you this:
“I will not weiner you.”

Have a great day!

5
Jun

When Love Really Happens: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Sunday

If you love somebody, even if you love them with all your heart, you have to take care of yourself first because if you don’t you might not be around to take care of them at all.

Does that make sense to you?

I mean, don’t take care of yourself selfishly, that’s not love at all, but when you take care of somebody that you love you are sharing your life with them and it’s in this sharing that love really exists.

You are your own love machine and it’s up to you to love with your whole heart so long as you keep your own heart beating.

A deep subject for sure.

For my suggestion of our personal ad headline, try this today:
“I take care of us and you can be a part of us!”

Have a great day!



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4
Jun

Trust: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Saturday

Warm and sunny. Not only is this the weekend forecast it’s how I hope your life will progress from here, warm and sunny.

I understand that it’s not only the choices you make, but also the choices of others, that will affect your “warm and sunny” periods. Rain will fall and winds will blow.

You have to trust in your future that the sun will shine again.

Today’s personal ad headlie suggestion for you is this:
“Our future rests on the next thing you do.”

Have a great day!

3
Jun

Friday’s Best Conversation Topics

I am a firm believer that there can only be one truth. One truth for me is one truth for you, is the same truth for the both of us. Anything else has to be a lie spoken against you and me. Life really is that simple.

This week’s best news stories to talk about show the lie and how what is true for me can be a lie for you. Or at least for embattled Rep. Anthony Weiner. Let’s get started.

- “Weinergate” has quickly overtaken Representative’s Anthony Weiner’s job and it seems that’s all any political reporters are concentrating on. Was his twitter account hacked? Does his wife of 1 year worry? Will he ever answer the questions: “Are these your balls?” I could have fun all day with this, but I’ll spare you more details in this post because if you really want to follow this news (?) story, start clicking here. (June 6th follow-up news story.)

- James Arness, of ‘Gunsmoke’ fame died at 88. I find it interesting that he’s such a thoroughly searched term on Google when most people of the internet age have likely not even seen the show ‘Gunsmoke‘. Am I dating myself?

- It seems that Sony will never get security right. Should we be scared? Luckily (I hope) I only use my PS3 for games on disk, 1 player, not online and don’t have a paid subscriber account. Also for Netflix. seriously, should I be scared? Gizmodo offers a database check so you can see if your info has been stolen (compromised?), so why wait for Sony to tell you in a few weeks or so.

- Saggy pants? No ride in Texas. Yes, it’s true, if you wear saggy pants that expose your underwear or ass(crack) you cannot board a bus in Fort Worth, Texas. I’d like to say that I agree with the policy and will forward a copy of the story to my local city council. I believe that pants that hang so low that an ass(crack) is visible are a safety hazard in case of emergency. Just my opinion, now with a little legality behind it.

3
Jun

Weekend Fun: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Friday

My favorite time of the week is upon us: the weekend.

This weekend I will be watching my Vancouver Canucks beat up on the Boston Bruins again. And I will catch up on some work.

It’s what I call a well-balancved wekend: enough play to help me relax and enough work to remind me that I’m still in debt to my armpits. LOL.

Not that I owe my armpits anything, but you get the idea, I hope.

I hope your weekend is filled with meeting new and interesting people online and to get you started here’s a headline for you:
“I am ready to meet you, where did you want to go?”

Have a great day!