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Archive for July 2011

13
Jul

Hump Day’s Motivational Picture

Live chat with Peggy

Hump Day Live Chat with Peggy

Hey guys, I just missed the deadline yesterday but I didn’t forget about you. Meet Peggy, an art model from Met Art (NSFW). She likes walks on the beach, playing with puppies and parties for two. Hump Day should be very afraid when you share the energy that Peggy has to get through the most dreadful day of the week! Go now and have a live chat with Peggy and her friends (NSFW).

13
Jul

Where Are The Single Ladies?: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

One of the most often questions I get from men is “Where are the single ladies?”

The honest answer is “Not where you’re looking” because the guys are expecting the women to jump out, hit them on the head and jump into bed. It’s just not going to happen, is it ladies?

And so go the free dating sites, right again ladies? More guys waiting to lunge on you than “Ladies night” at the local caberet.

Guys, women are everywhere. Women are roughly 50% of the population, open your eyes and look. Waiting for a “ten”? Looks fade but love lasts forever, so stop using that mountaintop rating system and peer inside once in a while, maybe you’re not that great of a catch after all, except for someone that will love you for who you are, where you are.

My suggestion for your dating profile headline today is:
“Not a lifetime of memories but a lifetime!”

Have a great day!

12
Jul

Reality Check Tuesday: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Today is “Reality Check Tuesday”.

How often do you check your life’s plan, dust off your dating life and brace yourself for some drastic changes to upscale your love life?

Experts generally agree that your career should have a 5 year plan, setting goals, both long range and short.

I believe that your dating life should have a reality check every 6 months.

Are you dating the right types of people? Are you happy with the “involvement level” of your more intimate relationships?

“Yes” is your goal and the more yeses the better you’ll feel because your dating life infects the satisfaction of all other parts of your life, personal and professional.

For your personal ad upgrade today try using this headline:
“This is when life gets interesting.”

Have a great day!

11
Jul

Advice Chats: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

I have to ask “Do you use internet chats as a type of psychologist’s couch?”

That is, do you meet people online, through chat sites and self-help forums, and explain your life’s ills to them, offering excuses and looking for sympathy for how your life is turning out?

And the advice that is offered to you, do you take it to heart, or is this “in the moment” and in the next moment you feel much better, maybe your outlook has changed a bit but your situation hasn’t.

And in a day or two later you’re again in the same funk, surfing around looking for sympathy and offering excuses about your life once again.

It’s time to stop the cycle isn’t it.

I suggest you browse some of the ebooks I’ve read and see if there is something that will provide a grounding for your life’s next steps.

You have value, you are loved, you just might be reaching out the wrong way, so it’s time to change things around starting today.

My suggestion for your online personal ad headline today is this:
“I am happi, looking for ness = happiness.”

Have a great day!

10
Jul

Doomed Online Dating Experience: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

I have another online dating secret to give you and it’s a mistake that many online daters make:
When you join an online dating service it’s free. For many dating services to make contact with other members, or to use other premium features, you will pay a subscription fee.

So many people will choose the shortest subscription period, commonly one month, to try the dating service and “see how it goes”. While this is all and good, putting a time limit on your online dating experience is usually doomed. Too much is expected in too short a time.

How much browsing, messaging, favoriting and reading profiles can you do in 30 days? And how many real connections, never mind RL (Real Life) dates can you expect in your 30 day timeline? Six dates? Three? One?

What type of pressure do you put yourself under for the $30-50 dollars for the month? Can you make your own dealine to find love online?

You’re right, probably not.

If you’ll spend $100.00 on a date, then consider $100.00 on a dating service. It will do your self-esteem some good.

For your dating profile headline consider this offering:
“Please contact me, I think you’re the one.”

Have a great day!

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9
Jul

Game of Love: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

“It actually ends up being a very interesting game.”

I am speaking, of course, about the game of love.

The game either survives with mutual admiration or ends with mutual destruction.

And the “mutual admiration” part is simply amazing. That’s why so many people play, that’s why you want to play too.

And you have to have a partner to play this “game of love” and you’re here for some tips about how online dating joins your “game of love” playing. Good for you.

As far as the people going through a breakup we’re not going to be talking about your situation today, so you might want to go here instead.

Many online dating services will match you up and with a touch of “luckily in love” your compatibility match will work for you. To make your dates even more interesting change around the traits you want in a match and see how lucky you are in love with a match that is quite different from the expected.

You are the main player in this game, seeking a qualified partner. Use the tools available to meet as wide a range of matches as you can, nobody will keep score until the end, once the game has started, that is.

For your personal ad headline today, serve this one up:
“Are you my partner in this game called love?”

Have a great day!

8
Jul

Friday’s Best Conversation Topics

This week has outdone most of the weeks for 2011. The news stories and opinions that surfing around will bring to your attention could sustain you in conversations until 2012. Seriously. I’m not going to bore you with tales of the Casey Anthony trial (guilty on lesser charges) and the surprising release from jail, Facebook adds Skype video chat (small twirling of fingers in air), the fun conversations this weekend will center around these stories:

- Finding out you’re an asshole from an online dating service. OK Cupid member Sam Biddle finds a woman’s blog that has a personal review of himself and his interactions with another member of the site. Quite a terrible way to find out you’re a jerk. Time for some reputation repair, right?

- The Hobbit. Just in case it slipped your mind, the movies are scheduled for release December 2012. Yes, there will be a part one and two for Peter Jackson’s vision of J.R.R. Tolkein’s monolithic piece of fantasy. Bilbo, wait for me!

- Atlantis astronauts to recycle pee. Using a method called ‘forward osmosis’ brave space-persons will be able to pee in a bag and drink water later. Don’t be shocked, this recycling has been going on for a while, albeit using different methods. The international Space Station uses a system of recycling called the ‘Water Recovery System’ to reuse body fluid waste (pee). Well, you’d have to shoot me into space to want to drink any of that, I’m sure.

- Create a secure internet alongside the existing internet is the way to go. And I agree. if there was something like (dot secure) .secure and you had to prove that you were you, then safety online wouldn’t be such an issue. This idea would certainly change the things we do online and how we’d do them.

- Win A Baby. Now this is a lottery! Open to individuals and couples, straight, gay or elderly, anyone can win the top prize of $25,000.00 of fertility treatments. WTF?!?

Have a great weekend.

8
Jul

Secrets: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Send Documents for Signature Online

Send Documents for Signature Online

I have a question for you: what’s the biggest secret you’ve ever kept for a family member or friend? Oops… you almost told me!

I read once that “velcro” is an extra-terrestial technology that was allowed to be revealed to mankind in order to lessen the amount of carbon emissions over the next two centuries. Is this a badly kept secret or a secret to big to be true? Now remember, you almost told me a secret of yours only a second or two ago, (and I’ve already proven that I can’t keep a secret, even with those Russians still watching me from their cars), so maybe now you want to chnage your answer?

At any rate, I’m certain that I just proved that neither of us is very good at keeping a secret. For a free ebook on protecting yourself better by learning the tricks of deception so you will not (accidentally or intentionally) lay bare your personal computer secrets including online usernames, passwords and online credit card and banking information, just enter your email in the box below:
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Freebies aren’t always what they seem are they? In this case there is no freebie at all, just me and what I’m writing today and a box that says “Type Email Address Here:” If this fooled you then you need better protection than your own scruples.

But enough of me watching the History Channel and trying to make a blog post out of it, let’s get to the nut of the subject. Here’s today’s personal ad headline suggestion for you:
“I can give you an unique perspective on singleness and hopefully together we will find a way to put it at an end.”

Have a great day!



Make Him Addicted To You

7
Jul

Beautiful People: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

You are as beautiful as you think you are, the trouble is your measuring scale is a slippery slope that depends on how you rate yourself against the people you are with, watching or simply thinking of.

Your beauty scale also includes the self-image you have of yourself, either pretty or geeky, slender or stubby, from the time – that moment in time – when you were comfortable with how others saw you or you simply accepted the criticism and moved on but kept that image alive in your mind’s eye for all these years.

So be easier on yourself, you’re better looking than you give yourself credit for.

And for my suggestion for your personal ad headline, try this:
“The best part of my life is starting now.”

Have a great day!

6
Jul

Hump Day’s Motivational Picture

Vamisia, art model, Hump Day Pic

Vamisia, art model, Hump Day Pic

Welcome to Hump Day my most favorite day of the week!

Hopefully you have a job to and then you will hate this day as much as I do; but to be totally honest I hated this day even when I wasn’t working because it was on this day that all of my working friends were goofing off and getting paid to not be at work and dragging me along as a possible alibi for their bosses. But at least they bought me beer.

Vimasia, this week’s Hump Day model, might just be waiting for you with a pair of cold beers waiting to hear all about your day.

Of course, I could be wrong but only time will tell.

6
Jul

Keys to the Mansion: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

So you’ve been dating for a while now, how’s it been going for you?

Not good? So sorry to hear that.

Do you think there’s anything you could do differently to make dating a more enjoyable event in your life? And I mean in the real world of dating, whether you meet potential dating partners online or offline, not in some fantasy world where you’ve been handed a million dollars and the keys to the mansion. And I mean one thing, not dozens of things. LOL.

Consider your last date, if you can remember back that far, versus your last online chat. Why is there success in one place and not the other?

Simple… when you’re chatting online you’ve got time to think about your reply, when the date is in the RW (Real World) it’s the real you without a backstop or wingman, or almost unlimited time. Imagine how bad your chats would be if you used Skype video instead of just a simple instant messenger service. U-g-l-y!

Now, except for a couple of you I do know, I don’t know you well enough to give you a deeply personal suggestion to date better but I can give you a general answer that applies well: think of your favorite movie character and how they would approach the date situations you’ve been in the past. The movie character is memorable to you because you find similarities in your own life. If you can think how that character would handle a dating situation then you can display a part of your own character to someone else along the same vein, using your own interpretation as a response.

And then you’ll date great!

For my dating headline suggestion for you, think of this:
“Life is all about taste and make, meet me in the kitchen?”

Have a great day!

5
Jul

Informed Choice: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Help Him Fall In Love With You

Help Him Fall In Love With You

I just saw a tv ad for “chocolate cheerios”. Luckily for them the ad doesn’t say something like “still heart smart” or some such garbage. Scratch that, it does say something like that, must be very “real” chocolate flavor. Ugh.

Cereal makers are just like any other product marketing business, reach for the stars but aim for the lowest denominator.

That’s why I review online dating services, to help you make an informed choice, not just the first website that pops up in a web search and certainly not just any site that shows you models as members.

Where am I going with this? Right to today’s dating profile headline suggestion for you, of course:
“Make an informed choice, read my profile!”

Have a great day!