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Manic Monday: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Manic Monday is today!
I bet if you had to work it out we have more Manic Mondays than we’ve have good Fridays or great Saturdays or fun Sundays.
But all is not lost, life is always an event that moves forward if it’s exciting. And when it’s not moving forward, maybe sideways, or even seems to be moving backwards it’s a good sign that there’s movement.
When there’s no longer movement you’re dead.
We learn by going backwards and we experience by going forwards. I want you to consider this as you go over your “manic Monday”.
At the very least, we can celebrate Monday because it brings to us the beginning of a new week in the opportunity of the weekend ahead. We’ll have to learn only from our own mistakes we can learn from the mistakes of others. Guys I got to tell you there’s a friend of mine, his name is David Wygant, and he knows all about pathetic weekends. And if you want to get started with them, he’ll teach you how to avoid them all in this free newsletter here.
Ladies you’re not to be left out either; I have a special announcement coming out later this week that is going to change your life! A way to start thinking along these lines: truth, honesty and being able to put yourself first in a relationship without feeling guilty or taken advantage of the other person.
Yes, people, life can be this good!
For your dating profile headline today I’d like you to try this to meet some new people with:
“The weekend has passed can we start making plans together?”
Have a great day!
Friday’s Conversation Topics
It’s been a hard year, hasn’t it?
What? we’re still in the first month? Dammit. I need a vacation already….
Let’s gather together and create some interesting steam to power through the usual ugly breaks of silence that kill any type of connection you may have (almost) had. Here are some news articles from the past week to get you through the conversation with something fun to say:
- Apple’s Siri is going to take over your life. Yup, you’re going to rely on her to keep your home warm, or cold, appropriately, as well as write your emails and help you buy things. If you don’t have an iphone 4s now you’re going to be sorry. If you do score extra success points as you retell this story with real-time examples.
- Porn producers offer easy cash is just a variation of the Nigerian Email Scam with the added benefit of physical threats and no overdraft protection.
- “Ass-man has a new definition”. So there’s this guy that happens to have in his possession a part of Saddam Hussein’s bronze ass and he can’t sell it off at auction, not for lack of bids (supposedly) but for a lack of “high enough” bids. Then the Iraqi Consulate hears of this and they want the piece of ass back – because it’s a piece of “cultural history”. One can only guess what they’ll do with it but you can bet it won’t be the first guy’s idea of “art”!
- Do you remember the flag with the snake on it “Don’t tread on me” it said? Well, the game maker Saga has gone it one better with games that say “Pee on me”. Seriously. “Toylets” are urinal game consoles pitting one man’s strength 9of stream) against another. Ugh. I hope they aren’t planning on any “mixed couples” games…. LOL. The curiously named “The Northern Wind, the Sun and Me” is designed to stimulate a player’s interest in the opposite sex. The aim is to blow a girl’s skirt up and reveal her underwear, with the harder the player urinating, the harder the wind blowing.
Meet someone special.
Have a great weekend!
Do You Have Love Potential? Or Have You Never Found Your Tongue?
I was taking a drive to get a couple of packs of cigarettes when I ended up on the highway. I felt a moment of freedom and stood on that gas pedal until I realized that I could lose my license for the pleasure of passing other cars at close to the speed of light.
I did get my smokes and I did make it home.
And I came upon a realization:
The only enjoyment in life is when you’re actually enjoying life.
We are slaves to the “routine”, chained to the “life” that we think is the right path. What if we are wrong?
Do you remember your first love? Of course you do. We all have those memories of innocence, youth and love.
The memory persists but the love was lost and if you think back to that episode of your life you’ll find the reason why you lost on love.
And it’s not for me to tell you why, you already know.
Inexperience and the inability to communicate intelligently without losing your voice to the emotional feelings of love is the big wall that your love could not develop around. It sure was mine, way back then.
As we get older, and gain experience and understand the world around us and our place in it, love becomes harder to find but no less than our assured ability to communicate to others can remain to be that big wall that still obstructs us from finding and managing love.
There is help.
When life gives you lemons…
My Happy Face Eye
… Make lemonade!
(And I have a happy face eye now)
~ Robert Lee, editor of aLoveLinksPlus.com
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The Latitiude of Your Attitude: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Do you share your kindness?
I like to say that “It’s the latitude of your attitude” that get’s you noticed in your life.
If you have a rigid, stone cold personality then it’s going to take real effort on other people’s part to get you to warm up. What you do about such a personality, if you want to be successful with dating, is attempt small changes rather than one big one.
You know what I mean, baby steps such as greeting people with a smile rather than a blank look. Buying a small treat for your secretary or work-mate, it could be a lottery ticket or their favorite chocolate bar, something small that says “I acknowledge your existence and understand that you’re a part of my life”, even if it’s just a moment or two throughout your work day.
Your attitude is the one that has to change, not the attitudes of those around you.
For your personal ad headline today post this:
“I am strong like gorilla and lovable like puppy.”
Have a great day!
Smile Today: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
A world of wonderful things.
Isn’t this what we all say aloud when the genie asks you to use one of your three wishes?
But privately it’s going to be money or sex and if you only have one wish choose money because with money you’ll be able to get sex somewhere for sure.
That being said a world of wonderful things is what we wake to every day. It’s the perception of our surroundings, and the people within them, that do make up our world and it can be warm and fuzzy or cold and callous depending on your outlook on life.
Buy yourself an itunes song and raise your spirits (even the preview is pretty funny for a country song).
Smile and no matter what, at the very least pretend to be happy and your body will get used to the good feeling and soon you’ll infect all of those around you with a sunny and friendly disposition.
For your headline today use this on your personal ad:
“I’m the person that created the smiley and the 
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Have a great day!
Are You Hip Enough to Date? Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Are you hip enough to date?
It’s a simple enough question that allows for no-border-crossing-here gaps in societal status and experience.
You know what I mean: if you’re the rocker from the 70′s you can’t date the girl from the MTV generation.
Unless you convert.
And there aren’t too many women doctors dating dishwashers these days but there are mid-level management types dating women sales clerks.
It’s all about expectation and realization.
When you can figure out your expectations versus the reality of where and who you are, you’ll begin to date successfully.
For today’s personal ad headline post this:
“My type is A+, what’s yours?”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day: Could You Do Without?
You don’t really need it.
How many times in your life have you heard that phrase?
One too many, I’m sure.
In this consumer world of ours it’s hard to separate the things we need to be happy from the things we’re told we need to be happy. Now, I’m not saying that we should all become minimalists or “free-gans” by any means, but maybe, just maybe, there’s one thing we could take out of our lives that wouldn’t cause total chaos when it’s gone.
Think about this today and see if you can identify that one thing.
For your personal ad headline today give this a go:
“I’m open to new possibilities, just not anything weird.”
Have a great day!
Personal Ad Headline of the Day: Positive Thinking
Positive Thinking
Don’t you just love people that say to you “If you think positively then you’ll feel better,” or some such related nonsense?
I’d answer them that if you always think positively how would you know it? Without a negative thought to counter all that positivity how would you know it?
And a change in mood can be a good thing. It can relieve stress as well as help you to find true happiness, even true love. And sadness is a part of that, don’t you think?
For your personal ad headline today try this:
“I am a positive thinker, I think.”
And let them figure it out.
Have a great day!
Online Dating Personal Ad Profile Headline of the Day: The Real Deal
The real deal.
This is what everyone wants to find at the other end of the personal ad.
It’s hard when you yourself are full of doubt, at a low point in your confidence cycle (we all have lows and highs). You might want to take our “Self-Esteem Inventory” test.
Don’t let the blues get control of your life. Everyone has something to offer and this is your time to shine.
For your personal ad headline today use this:
“There’s only one way to find out if I’m the real deal.”
Have a great day!
Welcome to 2012!
Welcome to 2012
There were obstacles and you worked your way over them. There were detours and you made it back on course.
You may not be exactly where you want to be at this moment but rest assured that you will get there soon if you do not surrender your will to continue.
The change of the calendar is not the only change you’ll need to make in 2012. You’ve learned a lot about yourself over the past year. New friends have been made and you’ve reconnected with old friends. Your family is still there, wishing nothing but the best for you.
Life is nothing if not a continuing learning experience, and if you learn your the past you will be successful in your future.
Good luck and Happy New Year!
~ Robert Lee
