Dating in the News
I ding dang do! Paddy McGuiness’s dating show Take Me Out scores first engaged …. Daily Mail
By Jody Thompson Saturday night dating show Take Me Out is celebrating its first engagement – but the happy couple almost fell at the first hurdle when the prospective dater rejected his fiancée on the show. Teacher Fabian De Fabiani, 24, chose another …
Dating Guru Carlos Xuma Announces The Secret To Approach Women Successfully San Francisco Chronicle (press release)
Learning how to successfully approach women takes a little insight into human nature and psychology, but will pay off in a more satisfying and fulfilling dating life. “What almost all of our fears boil down to, in essence, is a fear of displeasing …
The Worlds Largest Free Christian Dating Site for Christian Singles Just Got … DigitalJournal.com (press release)
On August 5, 2011 ChristianDatingForFree.com (CDFF) achieved another significant milestone towards bolstering it’s position as the world’s largest free dating site dedicated to Christian singles all around the world. The site reached the milestone of …
He’s married and dating. Boston Globe (blog)
I am a married man in my early 30s. Been in Boston my whole life but moved to the West Coast two years ago with my wife in search of sun, beaches, and a job. I found the first two but the job is ever elusive. Found some temporary work here and there …
Introducing: Dates as Seen on TV. IcelandReview
Not much has been written about the dating scene in Iceland. Basically because it’s almost non-existent. Or at least the structure of it is so vague that when asked, Icelanders will find it so hard to define that they’ll probably shrug their shoulders …
SSHS: Im dating a daddys girl. Albany Times Union (blog)
Help, I’m dating a daddy’s girl. my girlfriend of a year has an overprotective father. I dealt with it in the beginning and he and I get along pretty good. For our anniversary, my girlfriend had been dropping hints like crazy that she wanted a new …
Online Dating Got You Anxious? Duodater Lets You Bring A Friend [INVITES]. Mashable (blog)
Well, new dating site DuoDater puts a new spin on that convention. It encourages pals to go on dates — together. DuoDater is a new, San Francisco-based dating site that launched Monday in order to facilitate less awkward meetups between romance …
Does dating a Transgender woman make a guy gay? Canadian National Newspaper
In the Transgender Dating world those terms don’t always match up to reality. Additonally, transgenderism has nothing related to sexual orientation. Lots of men will look for transsexuals for dating and love simply because they feel that transsexuals …
Most online daters over 50 love results. OCRegister
If the online dating service didn’t work he, a widower at that time, was going to use an expensive matchmaking service. They married in 2009. What are the “most productive” dating websites for the 50-plus crowd? According to survey respondents: …
The Post-Divorce Dating Club: A New Site For Divorced Singles. YourTango
By Essence If you’re divorced and ready to look for love again, there’s a hot new dating site waiting online for you. The newly launched site The Post Divorce Dating Club was designed with divorced singles in mind. It’s meant to be a safe space for …
Shagbook: Facebook is a generic term, should not be trademarked. ZDNet (blog)
Facebook is known for going after any company that uses the word “book” in its name, having already filed suit against TeachBook.com, FacebookOfSex.com, and most recently UK adult dating website Shagbook.com. The last one is fighting back; Shagbook has …
African-American singles change approach to dating. Waterbury Republican American
But the 35-year-old Alsip, Ill., woman has one thing hampering her dating search: she’s an African-American woman hoping to meet and marry an African-American man. And that puts her in the category of singles least likely to marry, according to US …
Some Great Dating Advice: Don’t Forget To Learn. The Frisky (blog)
With a history of choosing jerks—some who were even emotionally abusive—she went to therapy and worked on herself, sorted out her family history, and now finds herself dating a really good dude, who she is afraid may be too boring for her. …
Life Lessons: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
You cannot learn for someone else.
You can learn with others, think of a classroom. That is learning with someone.
You can learn by example, think of parables and historical stories. That is learning from someone.
But someone else cannot learn something and, through osmosis or some other mystical transformation system, have that knowledge passed to you without effort, without the benefit of doing something yourself you will always know what you know and nothing more. Star Trek’s Spock might, humans cannot.
Everybody has to learn the lessons of life on their own. Everybody is responsible for making their own mistakes and hopefully, by taking their life lessons to heart and realizing the new proper path as their new life lessons has shown them what to do next that is right and can now also safely and with confidence in their new found future they can move their life forward.
Whew! A real mouthful that was.
But really, what you learn is all on your own with a minimal amount of interference from well-meaning friends and family members.
Notice that I haven’t stated what the personal crisis is… because it doesn’t really matter. Life lessons come by without warning. They often take your life on a violent turn through experience or a lifting of the blinders on your eyes.
Life is like that, as long as you know that you are the only one that can learn something for yourself then you will.
For your personal ad headline today tempt the other attractive singles with this:
“There Is Love With A Few Simple Words Here.”
Have a great day!
Boundless Possibilities: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Is the sun setting or smiling on you today?
The feeling of being let down keeps many people from trying to date at all, whether online or by trying to meet people in the physical world.
This is wrong because we cannot control how other people will react to us and by trying to avoid disappointment we invite it all the more into our lives.
Life is full of disappointment. We can go to the “glass half full argument” but when you’re disappointed in a person the world becomes a very hurtful place, regardless if the “other half of the glass” is happiness waiting to shine on your face.
We live in the moment and it’s in the moment that we judge and will be judged, that we rejoice in happiness and cry in disappointment.
It’s only the strong that will survive these muddy waters and if you don’t have the strength now you’ll have to find it later or perish into an unknowable hell of your own creation.
If the responsibility of your disappointment was 100% due to someone else then wouldn’t you feel no disappopintment at all, just that other person would feel the disappointment that should be felt? Indeed, it’s only because of your unreachable expectations (reasonable or not) does unhappiness and disappointment enter the picture at all. And it’s your disappointment, not theirs, that is felt.
That being said, it is your disappointment and your responsibility to feel this emotion or not.
So if you can control whether or not you will allow yourself to feel disappointment then you should have no fear of it.
With no fear comes boundless possibilities.
So, then, you should date. Click on that person’s profile, send that email, make that call and say hello to that stranger. Everything is possible for you and nothing wil disappoint you, unless you let it.
This, naturally, brings us to today’s dating profile headline suggestion:
“Boundless possibilities start with a simple hello.”
Have a great day!
Friday’s Best Conversation Topics
I am a firm believer that there can only be one truth. One truth for me is one truth for you, is the same truth for the both of us. Anything else has to be a lie spoken against you and me. Life really is that simple.
This week’s best news stories to talk about show the lie and how what is true for me can be a lie for you. Or at least for embattled Rep. Anthony Weiner. Let’s get started.
- “Weinergate” has quickly overtaken Representative’s Anthony Weiner’s job and it seems that’s all any political reporters are concentrating on. Was his twitter account hacked? Does his wife of 1 year worry? Will he ever answer the questions: “Are these your balls?” I could have fun all day with this, but I’ll spare you more details in this post because if you really want to follow this news (?) story, start clicking here. (June 6th follow-up news story.)
- James Arness, of ‘Gunsmoke’ fame died at 88. I find it interesting that he’s such a thoroughly searched term on Google when most people of the internet age have likely not even seen the show ‘Gunsmoke‘. Am I dating myself?
- It seems that Sony will never get security right. Should we be scared? Luckily (I hope) I only use my PS3 for games on disk, 1 player, not online and don’t have a paid subscriber account. Also for Netflix. seriously, should I be scared? Gizmodo offers a database check so you can see if your info has been stolen (compromised?), so why wait for Sony to tell you in a few weeks or so.
- Saggy pants? No ride in Texas. Yes, it’s true, if you wear saggy pants that expose your underwear or ass(crack) you cannot board a bus in Fort Worth, Texas. I’d like to say that I agree with the policy and will forward a copy of the story to my local city council. I believe that pants that hang so low that an ass(crack) is visible are a safety hazard in case of emergency. Just my opinion, now with a little legality behind it.







