Isn’t Love Grand? Your Credit and Dating
Love and money
The days seem brighter, everyone sees you smiling and secretly you know that they know that you’re in love and that’s why they’re smiling back at you.
Love is great!
Have you ever heard the phrase “Love and money”?
Love and money go hand-in-hand to bring the brightest days. When you’re in love there can be little expense you would not encumber yourself with to make your loved one’s existence a little more perfect, a little less stressful.
And therein lies the crux of the matter. Love and money and the willingness to be a great provider/lover.
Throughout your life, including your online dating adventure, somone at sometime will ask you for money. It may not be a loan but a gift they ask for. Help with an outstanding bill (big or small), or maybe simply your signature on a piece of paper to allow your new love to get a mobile phone, or the electricity turned back on.
You are put on the spot to prove your love through a financial arrangement that helps your lover out of a bind or makes their life just a touch less stressful.
And we all want to help, to be the savior of this unfairness that we now see our partner suffering.
It may just be a few dollars, it may just be a signature on a line. But with these actions you put your credit on the line and even worse, these decisions will (not could) make or break your relationship.
If you are asked for money make sure you get a promissory note that your lover signs that acknowledges not only the loan but also the repayment plan. You can easily find a promissory note sample online and a free fax service, if needed, to use to have the note signed.
If your lover is bold enough to use your relationship for financial help then you need to step up and protect your interests by having a loan document signed by them.
If they are asking you to risk your credit by signing on the dotted line to get them a mobile phone account then you need to seriously consider if you can handle the payments on your own should the relationship terminate.
Because contracts only end at the time specified but love can end in a heartbeat.
If you don’t have a handle on what your current credit score is or what your credit report says about your financial health then I urge you to take the steps needed to know that your credit score is and what the financial companies you deal with are saying about your credit-worthiness. “Get Equifax 3 Bureau Credit Report and Scores Now!”
Here are a few horror stories to help you understand that this issue can arise with anyone at any time.
- Love May Be Blind, But MoneyGram Recommends Keeping Eyes Wide Open To Avoid Risk of Romance Scam
- Toronto man accused of defrauding online dates
- Woman who tricked two teenage girls into relationships by disguising herself as a boy faces jail
- Better Business Bureau Highlights Scams To Expect In 2012
Do You Like Candles? Dating Profile Headline of the Day
What are the three things that are the most important during a dinner date?
The man, the mood and the momentum.
Yes, the pressure is on you to be at your best.
The Man: You’ve got to be the man that sparks not only her curiosity to want to learn more about you but you have to be the man that she wants to be with because of your actions and positive attitude.
The Mood: Don’t bring troubles to the dinner table. The last thing anyone wants to hear, especially a dinner date, is about the awful day you’ve had or issues in your past. Stay upbeat and she will too.
The Momentum: Have a plan of conversation topics based on the interests she has first and what you share second. Be a great listener, ask good questions that do not require a simple yes or no answer and you’ll carry the dinner date to a successful conclusion that will leave her wanting more.
For your personal ad headline today give this a try:
“Can you hear the song in the air tonight?”
Have a great day!
Every Road Goes Somewhere: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Life is a journey
And every road eventually ends.
It’s the stops in between that make up the story of your life.
Are you happy with the places you’ve been (emotionally, romantically) and the lessons you’ve learned?
Your life is a journey only you can make, the roads you’ve been on are the ones only you can take.
As you continue on the dating adventure you are on, consider the intersections of your life and others and remember that only you have the ability to decide where to turn or merge.
For your dating profile headline today give this a try:
“Life is a journey, would you share it with me?”
Have a great day!
When life gives you lemons…
My Happy Face Eye
… Make lemonade!
(And I have a happy face eye now)
~ Robert Lee, editor of aLoveLinksPlus.com
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Stretch Out Your Hands: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
You’ll never know if you can reach the stars if you don’t reach for them.
Very often the only thing holding us back is our own self-doubt.
A continuing theme of dating advice is the fact that people don’t trust themselves to behave like others might want us to and we will then be frowned upon or put down. Standing up against our own cowardly self-interest is one of the hardest challenges of life, for those of us that have a conscience anyways.
We tend to believe that everyone else is so much more complex that we are and that is the downfall of even starting a relationship with someone we are attracted to.
If you believe then you have no need of trickery because confidence will push you to where you want to be and who you want to be with.
Believe.
For your personal ad headline today give this one a try:
“It’s you and me and we’ll never disagree!”
Have a great day!
Chemistry.com Free Communication Weekend is Back!
Friday (1/13/12), Saturday (1/14/12) and Sunday (1/15/12), ALL Chemistry.com users will be able to communicate for free with their matches once they have completed the profile questionnaire. Get started now!
The Smell Test: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
You can’t really know someone until you’re close enough to smell them.
That is my online dating motto. Too many times I’ve received emails from the broken-hearted about an online affair ruined when the moment of the face-to-face meeting happens.
Life doesn’t have just it’s ups and downs, it has it’s high-flying winning moments and it’s bottom-of-the-barrel-scrapings too.
Find your backbone and don’t settle… you’ll do fine.
For your online personal ad use this:
“I might take one step back but I always take two steps forward!”
Have a great day!
My Sweet Valentine: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
My Sweet Valentine
I’m giving you fair warning, it’s just over a month to surprise your “Sweet Valentine” with a gift from the heart.
What is that you say? You don’t have a Valentine yet picked out?
How will you reveal your love, I must ask.
Flowers, chocolate, a handwritten poem? Hanging out at your local bar waiting for cupid to strike?
How do you show your love when you don’t have a love target to start with?
Yup, life, and love, sucks sometimes.
It’s a good thing I’m here to help you out. This weekend a top ten online dating service will be hosting a free communication weekend and you’re invited. Free membership, free communication with your best, scientifically selected, opportunity for love.
But before we get there you need to get to a place where love can bloom inside all of those confusing and convoluted feelings you have.
Here is help:
- for women
- for men
And for today you should use this as your personal ad headline:
“I’m running out of time to find my Valentine, please message me now.”
Have a great day!
The Latitiude of Your Attitude: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Do you share your kindness?
I like to say that “It’s the latitude of your attitude” that get’s you noticed in your life.
If you have a rigid, stone cold personality then it’s going to take real effort on other people’s part to get you to warm up. What you do about such a personality, if you want to be successful with dating, is attempt small changes rather than one big one.
You know what I mean, baby steps such as greeting people with a smile rather than a blank look. Buying a small treat for your secretary or work-mate, it could be a lottery ticket or their favorite chocolate bar, something small that says “I acknowledge your existence and understand that you’re a part of my life”, even if it’s just a moment or two throughout your work day.
Your attitude is the one that has to change, not the attitudes of those around you.
For your personal ad headline today post this:
“I am strong like gorilla and lovable like puppy.”
Have a great day!
Smile Today: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
A world of wonderful things.
Isn’t this what we all say aloud when the genie asks you to use one of your three wishes?
But privately it’s going to be money or sex and if you only have one wish choose money because with money you’ll be able to get sex somewhere for sure.
That being said a world of wonderful things is what we wake to every day. It’s the perception of our surroundings, and the people within them, that do make up our world and it can be warm and fuzzy or cold and callous depending on your outlook on life.
Buy yourself an itunes song and raise your spirits (even the preview is pretty funny for a country song).
Smile and no matter what, at the very least pretend to be happy and your body will get used to the good feeling and soon you’ll infect all of those around you with a sunny and friendly disposition.
For your headline today use this on your personal ad:
“I’m the person that created the smiley and the 
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Have a great day!
Are You Hip Enough to Date? Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Are you hip enough to date?
It’s a simple enough question that allows for no-border-crossing-here gaps in societal status and experience.
You know what I mean: if you’re the rocker from the 70′s you can’t date the girl from the MTV generation.
Unless you convert.
And there aren’t too many women doctors dating dishwashers these days but there are mid-level management types dating women sales clerks.
It’s all about expectation and realization.
When you can figure out your expectations versus the reality of where and who you are, you’ll begin to date successfully.
For today’s personal ad headline post this:
“My type is A+, what’s yours?”
Have a great day!
About Your Life: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Your life is not an answer to a ‘yes or no’ question.
Life is full of maybes and needs and desires. Also rounded out with plenty of ‘shoulda, woulda, coulda’.
Don’t ever let anyone tell you that you can’t do something (legal and proper) because we all have the power to accomplish something, many great things, in our lives. And to greatly enhance the lives of others, especially those near and dear to us.
Do you want to make someone feel special?
Love them with all you have, with everything you have and in every way that you can. Because what you have might not last and the opportunity to make someone feel the love you have for them could be lost – forever – in a moment.
When you leave this place do so without regret because regret is the one wound that will never heal.
For the headline of your online personal ad try this to capture the heart of someone special:
“What could I share with you to make you feel loved?”
Have a great day!
