Dating Profile Headline of the Day: The Love God
Has The God of Love been smiling on you lately?
(If not I have a special deal for you that I arranged with PerfectMatch.com)
When people find out you’re single, sometimes they seem to want an explanation from you, don’t they?
Or they offer to “fix you” with a variety of advice that they learned from their friends or something they read somewhere and they want to share it with you. But they very rarely offer any helpful personal advice from their own experiences.
Normally I’d say it’s rather odd, but that’s too obvious and the truth is much plainer anyways: they don’t have any good personal dating experiences to offer you!
Married people (and others is a committed relationship) might have a great “how me met” story but every story starts with a chance meeting and not much more.
Is the “Right place, Right time” story merely a coincidence that worked out well for someone or did the “God of Love” tweak fate a bit and put these two people together?
Personally I prefer the “God of Love” theory, that there is a greater force than our own stumbling around to find love but you may have your own theory.
Good luck anyways!
For your dating profile headline today give this a try:
“Do you believe in The God of Love?”
Have a great day!
You Made It! Dating Profile Headline of the Day
When you're ready toot your own horn!
Today, December 1st, marks the last few steps to the beginning of the “silly spending season” and beyond to 2012. I am pretty pleased to have made it this far with only losing 2 body parts (long story) and gaining a 2011 Red Dodge Challenger. No matter how tough a day is when I am sitting behind that steering wheel and punching that engine button, hearing those horses roar to life, it gives me satisfaction that I don’t get every day without it.
My writing career has stalled but my latest article (All I Want for Christmas is a New Girlfriend) has given me new life in my capabilities. I don’t generally go with the “New Year’s Resolution” gimmick. I believe that the force of change is within each of us and waiting for a specific time of year to start what should be a positive change in our lives is just silly. You know you should do it, so do it! By the end of the month you can then say “I made it!”
The biggest positive chnage you can make with your life is to share it with someone special. Make no doubt about it, without the love and support of someone special your life will never have the full meaning your life should have (past, future and present clergy excepted).
Wear that power tie, put on those sexy panties, slip into those plaid socks, you’re going to have a great day today and a tremendous life – just come back to read this blog daily for everything you need to know.
For your first headstart rewrite your headline into a power headline that will attract the type of person you want – no need – to have in your life:
“I do not back down from pressure but I will be the person that wants to be right for you!”
HAVE A GREAT DAY!
Personal Ad Headline of the Day: Meeting Safely Online
Date Safe, Do an Online Background Check
Many times an infatuation begins between people that meet online and they only know what the other person reveals about themselves and not much more.
No friends in common, no events shared, nothing but distance and kind words hold these two together. No tough questions are asked about personal histories, employment, education and other types of information that is generally known about someone when introduced by a friend.
Does this seem sane to you?
Now, don’t mistake my intention here, I’m not saying anything bad about meeting people online, I believe quite strongly that it’s easy to meet people online.
But meeting someone to fall in love with before being knowledgable about each other, to a high degree, puts you in a very risky position of not only a broken heart but also puts you into a dangerous position of personal risk.
As I said in my previous post, slow down! Love will wait if love is the intended path you and this other person is to take together.
When you’re meeting someone and are attracted to them don’t allow your infatuation to blind you to the realities of people in this world and that is that they are not always as they seem.
For your personal ad headline try this:
“Love might be blind but I have a guide dog.”
Have a great day!
Online Dating Profile Headline of the Day: The Wealth Monster
Until the playing field is leveled
The “Occupy Movement” is an offshoot of angst against the hidden masters that control the world through the movement of money and the increase of singular wealth. Governments seem to be not more than shields that protect the wealthiest 1% while oppressing the 99% using offers of health, security and wealthy equality that cannot be sustained and in many eyes has yet to be started to be achieved.
Taxation equality cannot be attained by the simple premise that reform is the government’s job and it is a job that is undo-able by the simple existence of government using taxation as a method of wealth management they cannot control.
Control of wealth by the government simply assures that those with the 1% of the wealth create the rules of the government of the day. And, unfortunately, the citizens of the region, the 99% oppressed population is forced to play along.
Until the playing field is leveled and made equal worldwide, until taxation equals true equality rather than representation by wealth we will remain at the wheel playing our life out by the rules of others.
For your personal ad headline today please consider sparking some interest in your posted profile with this:
“Do you consider yourself within the 99% of citizens that the Occupy Movement is trying to represent?”
Have a great day!
Clothes and Creating a Positive Impression: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
T-shirt coupon sale
I do agree that “clothes make the person” but people, come on, read it carefully, it is the clothes. Personal statements aside you do have to do your part and you can do that without breaking the bank if you carefully shop online and use the discount and coupons that are easily found online.
So if you’re reading this before you’re at work today, take a closer look at the options you have to wear and if you’re already at work then spend a few minutes checking your options online:
- Colors of Summer! Shop the 2011 Jewelry Collection at Forzieri.com. Save $15 USD on all orders of $145+ USD. Promo Code: 15OFF145FZ Visit the apparel section for more.
- 10% OFF All Products! Use code: Wear10. Shop Wickers for Outdoor Sportswear.
It is the clothes on your back that make up a great percentage of the (positive or negative) initial impression you’ll make on someone new you meet and we all also know that love (or even a nicer possible dating partner) can appear anywhere and at anytime.
For a fresh new headline for yout dating profile, post this:
“Dress nicely when we meet, because style isn’t really an option, don’t you aree?”
Have a great day!
Positivity: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
I usually start my Monday’s post by complaining about Mondays, truly the most hated day of the week (with Hump Day a distant second!) But today let’s embrace Monday.
Just look at all of the positives:
- a new week brings new opportunities
- the chance to start the week off right by not calling in sick for a three day weekend
- catch up with friends at work and what they did over the weekend
- earn one more day’s pay
- finish the work you dogged out on Friday
Mondays have all kind of positivity around them don’t they?
Ths week, start off with a fresh headline for your online personal ad too, try this:
“Open the door, let me in, let’s have some fun together!”
Have a great day!
How To Improve Your Profile: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
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Many dating services provide you with some feedback such as who has visited your profile and when. If you’re not getting messages from these visitors it’s because they’re not certain you’re a good match for them.
Read their profile and try to figure out why. Everyone has some commn traits, but do these visitors get put off by something these saw or read? Don’t immediately dismiss them as not compatible, you have work to do yet.
Put on your detective hat and read their profile carefully, then go back and read your own profile again. Measure the questions you both answered against the answers you both gave. What is it that stands out that would keep the two of you apart? (During this phase of your “investigation” don’t thnk of the other person’s physical appearance, we’re looking deeper than that.)
Read the other person’s “About Me” section carefully, are there any aspects that you like about them? What stands out as a direct conflict in what you wrote in your “About Me” answers?
This will give you a direction of writing style and information to post about yourself to improve your profile as you investigate carefully the people that stopped by to read your profile but didn’t contact you.
Do this with every person that didn’t contact you but stopped by for a look and soon you’ll have fixed up your profile and be a top receiver of messages and more.
For your headline to use in your personal ad, try this today:
“I am a lot deeper than my About Me answers, let’s chat!”
Have a great day!
Life Lessons: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
You cannot learn for someone else.
You can learn with others, think of a classroom. That is learning with someone.
You can learn by example, think of parables and historical stories. That is learning from someone.
But someone else cannot learn something and, through osmosis or some other mystical transformation system, have that knowledge passed to you without effort, without the benefit of doing something yourself you will always know what you know and nothing more. Star Trek’s Spock might, humans cannot.
Everybody has to learn the lessons of life on their own. Everybody is responsible for making their own mistakes and hopefully, by taking their life lessons to heart and realizing the new proper path as their new life lessons has shown them what to do next that is right and can now also safely and with confidence in their new found future they can move their life forward.
Whew! A real mouthful that was.
But really, what you learn is all on your own with a minimal amount of interference from well-meaning friends and family members.
Notice that I haven’t stated what the personal crisis is… because it doesn’t really matter. Life lessons come by without warning. They often take your life on a violent turn through experience or a lifting of the blinders on your eyes.
Life is like that, as long as you know that you are the only one that can learn something for yourself then you will.
For your personal ad headline today tempt the other attractive singles with this:
“There Is Love With A Few Simple Words Here.”
Have a great day!
Headlines: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Wednesday
I’ve been hanging out a lot at www.Perfectmatch.com to see what changes, if any, they’ve made since my last really good look at the service.
I have to admit, with one exception, I do like what I see there.
The drawback I find is that they actually don’t have a headline to lead off your dating profile. In the thousands of online dating services that I have visited (some removed, many just avoided speaking ill of) I can’t ever think of one that didn’t put your headline front and center.
At Perfectmatch.com your headline is hidden on a tab called “In my own words”, so if you’re looking for a place to write in one of my headline suggestions, then that’s the place.
My dating profile headline suggestion for you, in my own words, is this:
” I’ll be here, will you be joining me? “
Have a great day!
Forward Thinking: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Tuesday
Writing a dating profile is one of the harder things we will be asked to write.
Without formal training, writing an autobiography that is a pleasure to read without having a ring of narcissism to it, and including a personal history that does not answer the overall theme of anyone’s profile “Why are you still single?”, is a tough task.
The majority of online profile questionnaires you will encounter are structured in such a way to allow a computer program to distill the essential elements to be stacked against an algorithm of sorts to match you with other profiles (people).
The profile questionnaires are not written for people to actually use and this is a major fault with most of them.
If you write from a “forward thinking” point of view you will invite the reader to learn about your personal history in a way that allows them to consider not only what you’ve done but how you will react to similar circumstances in the future.
So it’s important to not only shine a light on your best personal moments but also only write of those moments that you’d not be worried about repeating, while keeping in mind that you are writing for a stranger and not a friend.
With this in mind, here is my personal ad headline suggestion for you:
“The future comes to those ready to live it.”
Have a great day!
Wiki Dating?
Julian Assange at OKCupid.com?
I bet he’s seeing a lot of hits now… even with the “false name” and very interesting profile he had posted…
Read the Village Voice interview with OKcupid.com here and there’s even a link to check out Julian Assange’s profile (a little stale with the last recorded login date of December 2009 at the time of this disclosure, but nonetheless).
Photo note: This photo, which appears on OKCupid, is credited to Martina Haris and was placed in the public domain on the instruction of Julian Assange.
Dating Profile Headline of the Day
A Saturday mellow.
Wow, the morning after a party is either a hung-over moment or a cleanup moment.
I’m going to play the hung-over card and clean up later.
Which struck me as a great headline, because when you’re versatile and dependable you have a set of skills that many people lack or quite simply, they misuse.
So, today, show off more of your good points with this headline:
“I can keep cleaning when I’m hung over and down(metaphorically).”
Have a great day!
