New Year’s Resolution: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Chaos Theory
Will you be making the world a better place today?
Now, I don’t plan on going weird on you, or beg for money for the starving and uneducated masses of children in the world.
But carry this thought with you today, even as you plan out your New Year’s resolutions; that is, if there is something about you that is broken and needs fixing.
Every one of us has the power to make a positive influence on someone else’s life and there are times when this is a better thing to do, and as a bonus, it carries with it points for self-improvement too.
So when someone asks you what your New Year’s resolution is, say to them “I’m going to make the world a better place”.
Examples of this would be:
- Holding a door open for a stranger
- Helping an elderly man or woman to cross the street, hold an elavator for them
- Being friendly and cordial in long lineups at the cashier when getting groceries or any other lineup
Small changes can bring big results, just as in “Chaos Theory”.
For your headline today stand out from the crowd and post as your healine:
“I hope to make the world a better place”.
Have a great day!
Creative Headline: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
We can share a sandwich!
It’s all here today, everything you need to know about online dating has been wrapped up in one place, www.aLoveLinksPlus.com.
I have worked very hard, for more than 10 years, to bring to you the best possible information on hundreds of dating services so you can find one (or more) to join that suits your personality and romantic needs/desires.
There will be more information coming because there are always new dating service scoming online, rady to help you find that special someone.
In this post I offer to you, daily, a new headline to use in your personal ad profile to help you get some attention and possibly meet more people by using a creative headline.
Today I offer you this:
“I would like to share a sandwich with you, what type do you like?”
Have a great day!
The Fart: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Friday
I don’t often discuss relationship issues. Not because I’m not a very good advice giver, more simply the reason is relationship advice is a very personal area and needs to be handled a little more delicately that just an open blog post or article that is written for general consumption.
That being said, there are topics that have mass appeal and can help a wider variety of people that if just shared with one. This is one of those articles.
Note: It used to be that hand holding was a big step in dating (sounds rather archaic these days), thren ti became when a couple had sex the relationship was cemented in exclusivity and direction.
These days, when traditional dating seems to have fallen by the way-side, the “hook-up” and the “hanging-out” have become the “dating scene” these days.
Hanging out with your friends is good but just hanging out and hooking up for sex is not a relationship builder. Although hooking up is not totally anonymous sex, it is an excercise in bodily pleasure without the issues of beginning or having a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.
So this takes having sex totally out of the equation for when a man and a woman declare that they are “dating”. Sex has already happened, at least once, and now the relationship starts ahead of the curve with the expectations that are common and mormal when two poeple form a relationship.
I mention all of this because, with sex out of the dating equation, it’s become harder to know when a dating relationship has started as well as when this relationship has begun to enter “exclusive” and “formal” stages.
So I offer to you the “fart” as the new line in the sand as to when a relationship has become serious and exclusivity is on the way.
When men and women spend a lot of time together it’s normal for someone, at sometime, have an “explosive release of gas” from their bottom. The key here is whether the fart is disguised, hidden out of earshot of the other partner, or is is just observed as a “natural thing” with no further comment.
I once read somewhere that a study was done and it became evident that humans “release gas” anally on an average of 400 times a day. Now, not all farts are loud and distinguishable from other sounds, but a few are.
It’s how they are handled by each partner that now determines the state of the relationship.
If you are trying to hide your farts by leaving the room or waiting for a covering louder noise then your dating is still in what would be called the “honeymoon stage”.
If, however, you do not hide your fart and it is of such force that the fart cannot be explained as some other noise, and your partner is present in the same room, you can safely assume that you’re relationship is “maturing” and exclusivity is on the way.
Remember this and you’ll have one more secret to measure current and future relationships with.
Our dating profile headline of the day is:
“It’s hard to believe that I’m here and so are you!”
Have a great day!
Black Friday: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Friday
I would say let the madness begin but for many holiday shoppers they’ve been in line for hours and shopped already and are now back at home, cosily in bed.
Yes, Black Friday has taken it’s first victims.
Now, whether you are at home, at work planning a later shopping trip to forage through the leftovers, I have one word of caution for you: sometimes the deals aren’t that good, so knoiw what you’re buying. Or just wait for the storm to pass and shop at home, online, on Cyber Monday.
Your choice.
Online dating does not have a sale, it’s the same people in different laces, so you have to have your “warrior helmut of love” on and storm the walls of several dating services from not to New Year’s Eve so youeither have a date or you’ve had a few dates and are preparing to ask someone out on another date for New Year’s Eve. That’s our goal now.
To help you on this task I offer this headline for you to use today:
“You like? Let’s chat and maybe we’ll date!”
Have a great day!
Better: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Friday
First things first:
Chemistry.com has begun their Free Communication Weekend that allows you to be a free member and communicate with your matches for free until Midnight Sunday November 21 2010. Join now!
Today is getting so much closer to the holidays. Thanksgiving is around the corner and Christmas is only now weeks away. Damn, this is why it’s so cold outside! Ugh.
Let’s start today’s online dating adventure with a great headline that will draw people to your profile like ants to honey, so post this:
“Life could be so much better!”
Have a great day!
Responses: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Sunday
“I got you into this and I’ll get you out!”
Famous last words if ever there were, right?
We all can identify problems and solutions for others, we only have so much invested to lose. But there are some problems that we are too close to and can’t really be able to handle the problem as detached as would be best.
Whenever you can take a step back, consider the issue at hand. Maybe a short cooling off period is needed, maybe come back to this problem tomorrow, with a fresh body and mind after a good nights sleep.
In the online dating world all you need to do is not reply right away and blame your lack of immediate response on a bad internet connection, your computer froze up, the power went off, something to buy you more time to consider all the angles and approaches to the problem at hand.
Today, use your best and brightest line for ho you conquer troubles in your oen life, for me I’d post this:
“Always willing to talk things out and find equal ground.”
Maybe not the most romantic personal ad headline but certainly an attention-getter!
Have a great day!
Happiness: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Happiness is infectious
Normally I’d TGIF all over this post, you know that if you’ve been here on any previous Friday.
But today I am back at work after the past 4 days of being sick. You’d think that any sickness that kept you off work Monday to Thursday would be nice enough to hang around for a few extra hours and maintain the status quo of one more day off… but no, I’m not that lucky.
I did have some fun, maybe a little too much, at a website called IAmHappyForYou.com, the rudest magic 8 ball game ever online, maybe. If you ask I’d have to say I was there just to see the answers.
Otherwise I am happy and well, thank you. I hope you are too.
This weekend brings us within 7 weeks or so of Christmas. This means your plans have to start being made and any travel arrangements researched so you get the best price. if you’re shopping early for gifts I’d like a new Dodge 1500 truck, but I’m not really hoping too much. Maybe just a new frying pan will suffice.
I’d like to think that the coming season brings us happiness and wealth but the reality is that unless you work hard for happiness and wealth they just won’t happen.
Happiness is not only a state of mind it’s also a matter of health. And of your personal outlook on life. When you look towards nirvana you have hope for a better life and you reach towards it not only as a goal but as a roadmap for your life.
And wealth? You can buy all the lottery tickets you want, and leave wealth to chance, or you can build your own stack of one dollar bills one week or month at a time, and celebrate having some money when you really do have some money.
What does all of this have to do with dating? Everything. When you are happy you will infect others with happiness. When you have a few extra dollars your stress levels will decline and you’ll have even more happiness.
When you take that step to join an online dating service you are showing that you are ready for happiness and that you have wealth, even if it’s the wealth of spirit.
With your online dating profile you’ll want to catch that special someone’s eye with a happy headline too. Sharing is caring and caring is knowing that your future is bright. Let your personal ad headline shine brightly too, with this headline suggestion:
“This is how we’ll tell friends everything got started.”
Have a great day!
Life is Scary: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Looking back in your time
Isn’t life just Super-Awesome?
Life always takes place in front of a live audience and, very often, the audience is unforgiving.
So much for Super-Awesome right? A little more scary life becomes, doesn’t it?
Sometimes when you look back at your life you manage to concentrate on just the good, or just the bad, not both.
Being a part of the Dating Scene requires that you work the good that has happened to you in your life into the conversations that occur when someone asks you “What did you do earlier in life?” or some other similar question.
Seriously, avoid the bad stuff like you wish you could have the first time back then.
By remembering our successes, and being able to talk about them in a non-glory-hound way, makes us just that much more interesting and attractive.
Try to keep this in mind as your online dating email messages turn into real world dates. Because they will, unless you screw up somewhere along the line. Guys, don’t screw this up.
For your dating profile headline of the day, post this:
“I’ve been looking back and don’t recall you there. Can we meet now?”
Have a great day!
Love Changes: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Cupid's ammunition
Why do you believe the things that you do? Is it more physical/visual proof or more inferred/expert testimony that supports the things you believe?
Life is easily understood as an act of passion. This passion drives us to discover our world and make sense of our existence. But passion is more emotion than intellect and often when these two drives intersect we have “unexplained but reliable” evidence of something being true.
Love is true. Love is a reliable part of life and mostly, we know when love is absent.
Poets have rhymed, writers have described and scientists have tested and all have come to the same conclusions: love changes us.
If you want to love often you have to be the one looking, not the one being found, when love brings two people together.
There are, of course, many stories of people finding love when neither was active in the search “it just happened” they say, or “our eyes locked and it was love at first sight”. These are great stories but they are not what happens normally, at least what does usually happen is that you are in the love market, that is to say you are open for love to make a connection for you, and after many false starts love springs upon you and often expectantly.
I trust that you are here because you are actively looking for love. And I can help by offering you a headline for your dating profile that will get some attention, a few words that will allow that special someone (or at least the person destined to be your next date) to be drawn to you. So today post this as your headline:
“Cupid will do better this time!”
Have a great day!
Pot of Chili: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Big pot of chili.
I think my favorite food would have to be a lasagna rich with fresh sauce, ricotta cheese and a mixture of mozzarella, parmesan and cheddar cheeses, applied in a logical order and with a little bit of spice, maybe dried chili peppers added to the mix.
I do make this treat myself once every few months. Although I could easily eat lasagna several times a week, when made to please my palate, my waist wouldn’t appreciate it and I’d never want to overdue it and then hate eating lasagna, like what happened with chili.
I used to make a big pot of chili a couple of times a month. This would leave me with five or six meals worth of chili to spread over the next couple of work weeks (a few bowls frozen, of course) but after a couple years of this menu I tired of having chili and now haven’t made or eaten chili for several years.
I think that your favorite meal helps to define you as a person. Think about it, when your favorite meal is available at a restaurant it’s usually what’s ordered, at least for me anyways. And if it’s not made in a satisfactory way then the restaurant loses a lot of it’s “cache” for being a place to go and eat.
And when you start to withdraw from going to certain places to eat you define not only the direction of your own tastes but the options of menu choices that your dining companion has as well.
I usually get to choose where we go out to eat and it’s not only what is available on the menu but how dependable the meal is from visit to visit. The restaurant is great as long as the meal is great but if the cook has an off moment, and I suffer a not-great-meal, then my return visit will be far in the future.
I tell you all of this because I want to remind you that not only do our choices affect ourselves but they can have far reaching implications as well.
Maybe the cook loses his job, maybe the restaurant closes. Maybe my dining companion tires of my restaurant choices and I end up dining alone.
The implications of choice are mind-boggling, to say the least.
Life offers a lot more than lasagna and chili choices. For my part of it, and yours, online dating offers an entire buffet of choices and options.
I encourage you to try more than any single dating service at a time. Having an active profile on two or three dating services at a time is quite normal, even encouraged. This will help you to not only get used to how online dating works but increase your chances of finding great dates too.
Just don’t use the same user/member name and password combination, and try to use different photos in your profile too. Keep your profile headlines original too, maybe variations of this headline theme will work well for you:
“My favorite food is lasagna, what is yours?”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Go ahead - say it...
Go ahead, post this:
“My headline is better than your headline, Phhhttt!!”
Might as well be a challenge right from the get-go, eh?
Have a great day!
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Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Friday
No one can tell you how your first date will go just as no one can tell you how many first dates it will take for you to get a second date or to find the person that will change your life forever.
But I can tell you that if you don’t show your best all the time people will certainly see your worst.
And the best place to show your best is in a great, well written profile, adding a few personal details that aren’t too personal but help people to understand who you are.
A good example of this would be the time you rescued that kitty in a tree or some other selfless act.
Don’t forget the power of a great headline too, that’s what will get the attention of someone to click one more time and read your profile. Today I suggest you post this:
“You’ll love me when you get to know me!”
Have a great day!
