Serious Daters: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
The Final Day of The Month of Love
This is the last day of what I designated “The Month of Love” but that doesn’t mean love no longer needs to be celebrated. How many relationships have you had because they went stale? Broken into a day-to-day routine the love that was there seemed to have evaporated into a boring daily schedule.
When this happens it’s easy to blame your partner for not being more loving, for putting down the torch that was once held high for you. But what’s really going on isn’t you being taken for granted, it’s a breakdown of communication.
We’re not effectively taught communication skills, it’s just something that we’re just supposed to “pick up” in our teens and twenties. So if you see your relationship going sour, before you start an argument about why the relationship is now horrible and you’re sure you’re just being taken for granted, take some time to give a serious look to your complaints. Often the root problem is the lack of communication. (You can find some communication skills books here.)
You and your partner have fallen into a rut and, without discussing it this, blame eventually get’s laid on someone and a fight starts, which is not only the wrong thing to do, it’s pretty hard to take back as a complaint against your partner.
Communication skills can be learned at any phase of a relationship and are at the core of all marriage and relationship counselling sessions. When you can communicate effectively with your partner all of the small problems disappear and the big issues become small ones.
I say this because love needs to be celebrated every day. From a hug and a kiss first thing in the morning to a hug and a kiss at night time. Maybe some special acknowledgements throughout the day, now and again (which has been discussed in other posts and articles here).
Today’s personal ad headline is a serious one, for serious daters:
“Only the serious and qualified should apply.”
Have a great day!
Moving Forward: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
On the road others have traveled
“You’ll just now.”
When you find love you’ll know it. Your life will change, colors will be brighter, the days sunnier and other people just a little more pleasant. Really, that’s what happens.
No matter what “Today is a great day to be in love” and it always will be.
Your adventure starts and ends with love; the searching, the finding, and the living.
My word of advice to you is that when you find love hold onto it. Don’t let him/her, or yourself, drift away.
The next word of advice I have is this dating profile headline that you can use along with your dating profile, wherever that is. Post this:
“Forward is the only way we should move in life”.
Have a great day!
Opportunities and Obstacles: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Out the door, into real life.
I am buried under snow. Much less than the east saw last week, but still enough to reach my knees in places and require an hour or two of shoveling my rather short and thin driveway. Dammit.
Life does offer it’s challenges. I guess I’m lucky that shoveling is mine, for the time being. After all it is Monday and I’m sure something more will happen, like another dump of snow while I’m at work (thanks weatherman!).
Despite it all I can admit to not being second many times in my life, right Steelers fans?
Sorry, it’s not really in my nature to show my sarcastic side to people not in front of my face, or behind me.
As I was saying, the weather hasn’t been all that kind to any of us lately, and I do mean the world population. It’s hard to pick any time zone (and geographic area) that hasn’t had a flood, fire or blizzard to bring chaos and harm upon it within recent memory.
And yet using “How about this weather?” still ranks as a top ten worst pickup line. (I think the rankings need to be updated.)
Life brings to us opportunities and some of these opportunities are disguised as obstacles. It’s your decision what will stand in your way and what you will get through.
For today’s dating profile headline I offer you this suggestion:
“I have never raced towards second place.”
Have a great day!
What’s Important: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Life can take you on a different road.
I’m back!
I had the weekend off of work (you’ll notice the lack of posts), I visited my mom (who’s getting on in years) and drove across the mountains and rivers area that I live to get there.
And it is great to be back home.
I now know why holidays have to end though. It’s so intense catching up on the events of relative’s lives, paying attention to the information so you can ask informed questions later on. Then it’s over and you can catch your breath. And you go home back to the life you have.
It’s what you have that no one can take from you that counts in your life. You can always lose property and money but what’s really important cannot be taken from you, you can only lose it for yourself.
On this note it’s what we are always seeking and often don’t realize we have until it’s gone, the thing that’s most important to us (and that may be different for each one of us but…) that is much harder to find the second time around.
Online dating helps a lot for this part of the second part of life with meeting people because you do get to know a few more details about someone that might otherwise take a few dinner dates (and maybe more) before you can decide on your own personal compatibility with them.
To get started this week I suggest this headline for you to post with your profile:
“The song does not have to remain the same.”
Have a great day!
How Dates Happen: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
It is your turn to wink!
Start the week off right, get a date for Friday!!! Here.
Honestly, if you can’t find a date here, then you’re either:
1) not trying very hard, or;
2) waiting for a date to find you.
Let me put you in on a little secret: you have to want to get a date to get the date. Dates don’t just happen, they take work, determination, and most of all, communication.
Communication, in this case, means saying “Hello” and sending someone a “Wink” to let them know you’re interested.
You can do this!
If you haven’t joined here yet then today is a good day to do it. You can get your profile posted and have it approved by tomorrow morning and be sending out all the free winks you can by lunchtime. Just remember in advance the “wink rules”:
- you can only send out one wink to a member once within 30 days
- you can wink back to someone that has sent you a wink
- you can send a reply of “Not interested” to someone that has sent you a wink
- you can send a maximum of 50 winks a day
- you can not turn off the ability to receive winks from other members except for “hiding” your account which makes you inactive and invisible to all other members, even those you have exchanged messages with
Are you ready yet? yes, of course you are.
Now, you’ve joined, you’ve started your profile and uploaded a photo (or many photos) of yourself and the finishing touch is your headline. Let me suggest this one for you:
“It’s a race to see how will wink first and it’s your turn!”
Have a great day!
Jaunty: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Monday
Today we’re going to have some fun with words.
It’s easy to be misunderstood, even when you’re writing plainly. Different areas can have cultural and societal slang words that, although innocent in one place, has an entirely different meaning somewhere else.
This includes online dating personals too, because your ad is shown to many people in many different places.
If you’re worried about the possibility of offending someone with the words you choose to write, then you really need to have www.thesaurus.com bookmarked so you can check.
Otherwise, just trust me and post this headline today:
“Not trollop slogging, just eying someone jaunty.”
Have a great day!
Weekday Warrior: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Monday
Today is going to be one of those Mondays. It’s -12C outside, cold enough to freeze the smoke as it passes my lips, and I just don’t feel like working today.
I will struggle through the day, much as you might, putting a happy face on all of it.
There is redemption after 8 hours, so instead of grumbling under my breath I will sing a song of freedom for when the clock strikes 5:00.
When you’re home again, inside the safety and warmth of your abode, log into your chosen online dating service and consider this as your headline:
“A weekday warrior seeking for someone to protect.”
Have a great day!
The One: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Finding The One for you
I hope you have this day off of work and can spend it cleaning up all of your Christmas decorations. (Unless you’re Ukrainian, then Christmas is still a couple of days away.)
For sure I will be pulling down and packing away my decorations and planning my Valentine’s Day dinner with the one I call so special to my heart, Sheila.
Did you know that the next few weeks is one that has the highest stress for single people? Having spent Christmas without a boyfriend or girlfriend, and being asked The Question (“Why don’t you have somebody?”), and having no one special to kiss on New Year’s Eve, and now with Valentine’s Day only weeks away… wow, yes, the stress is on.
But have no fear, online dating offers at the very least the opportunity to find a few dates from now to then. And I’m on your side too.
Today, join a dating service from our Top Ten List, and as you post your profile please consider using my suggestion:
“Could you be The One?”
Have a great day!
Memories: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Monday
If there is ever a replacement word needed for hell it should be “Monday”.
Hung over, still stuffed with turkey… feels good though. I may not have to eat until the New Year.
This is yet another reason why online dating is great. You can touch yourself up, looking a bit presentable and then video chat with people and still look great. But in person you’re a physical wreck.
As I said, I’m there.
For my dating profile headline suggestion today I suggest this:
“I want to talk about the memories we will make.”
Have a great day!
Fresh: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Always looking forward
Mondays always give us the opportunity for a fresh start. A “new lease on life” if you will.
And now that we’re within days of starting a New Year with all of those silly resolutions that are supposed to bring us into a better life style (or at least fewer bad habits or pounds) it is time to consider changes to how we view ourselves and what is reality and what is fiction about what we say is our self.
The only fear I have for the future is that what is bad will be proven and what is good is only a dream. Have you seen this view of yourself?
I suppose that’s what we have New Year’s Eve parties, to allow us the opportunity to give others a new view in the immediate New Year of our changed selves.
It is with these thoughts that I offer to you today’s personal ad headline suggestion:
“Make it, take it, but please don’t break it”.
Have a great day!
People at play: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
People at play
Sign up or Log in… more and more websites are asking you to sign up or log in to see personalized content, even so much as sharing your information across many web sites. (We don’t do that here, too much!)
The big giant is, of course, Facebook which has it’s fingers in hundreds of other websites for friend recommendations and such. It’s a nice feature, without a doubt, because it does keep you connected with your social circle. But unless you know how much sharing of your information you are really doing, you might want to logout or turn off the sharing features until you’re more comfortable with all of this.
We are constantly being barraged with messages to buy things and having these sales pitches customized without your complete consent may not be the best thing in the world (online), don’t you agree? And here’s a tip if you’re searching for a job: do a search for yourself and see what comes up. A future employer will likely do the same thing so you want to see what they’ll find.
You might also want to do a “Super logout” at Facebook, if your page is very personal or has content you particularily wouldn’t want an employer reading about you. The “Super logout” is simply deactivating your account. This does not delete your account and you can re-activate it at a later time, but this technique stops people from seeing anything about you on Facebook which is what you’d want. Click on “Account” and “Account settings” and choose “Deactivate account” and you’re done.
Many online dating services also allow you to put your dating profile into a “hidden” state, which is great if you’ve found a few dates and don’t want to be seen as still looking for more, so one click to hide your profile and another click to be available again.
As far as your online dating profile the amount of information about you made available depends on the service and how they are set up as far as the required information and the optional information is displayed. But just because the question is asked don’t think you absolutely have to provide an answer. Many dating services have an “Ask me later” option for some questions, so feel free to use it as you will.
My headline suggestion for you today is this:
“Please ask me anything, this could be the start of something great!”
Have a great day!
High Intellect: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
It's a regular winter Monday
Have you ever had one of those days where you’re not feeling particularly witty or funny?
My horoscope says that today I have high intellect (80%) and my intuition is below 20%, which is definitely not a good mix to pick any stocks or maybe even decipher if the car ahead of me will turn left, right or go straight despite all of the conflicting signals.
I have almost complete my Christmas gift shopping. You can hold the applause. I’m almost done because there are still a few people that I haven’t yet told not to expect anything from me this year. It’s hard to say no, but I have donated over $200.00 to local Christmas charities in the last couple of days. It’s not that we have so much but that others have so little.
Sure, I expect people to take charge of their responsibilities and to be the master of their own future, but when there are children involved I feel a little differently. A little help to make Christmas morning a little brighter with a barbie doll or hot cars set isn’t that much to ask, so what the hell. It’s what “BeardCember” is all about anyways, right?
Whatever frame of mind you’re in on this wintry Monday, keep this thought in your heart: “I have choices and I have chosen this today!”
As for your online profile headline I think this will help to get people to decide it’s your profile they want to read, it’s you they want to meet:
“Can we talk?”
Have a great day!
