Is it only women that have fun in clubs?
Nightclub
“Is it only women that have fun in clubs?” by a guy that hasn’t done well with women recently.
Now, this particular guy is having a hard time meeting women in night clubs. He says that he acts nice, that he buys a woman that he thinks is good looking or interesting but he doesn’t get farther than a couple of nice words and a dance or two.
After a lot of money spent he goes home alone.
Now let’s not get into his whole psychological frame of mind here and he needs to not only think differently of himself but also of his goals in going out to clubs because I don’t have that much strength in me to write the complete answer.
Never the less, we can make a simple suggestion:
Lessen the goal you have in mind and you’ll enjoy yourself a lot more.
If the guy is simply trying to get laid, well then he’s either going to the wrong places or he needs to dress better.
But seriously, if you change your goal from ending up with a girl in your bed (or you in her bed!) to simply getting some names and phone numbers or email addresses the success you have will be much greater.
The overall goal is now a lot lower, see that?
Since the guy thinks that “only women have fun in clubs” he has two choices:
1. stop going to clubs because you aren’t having fun there anyways, or
2. figure out to start having fun in the clubs you are going to.
Simple solutions for a wussy-type question.
Guys, if you set your goal for the moon you’d better have the right fuel mixture to get there (I’ll let you figure that one out on your own), but if you decide to just make it out alive you’ll survive the night, and surprisingly enough, you’ll find yourself having some fun too!
To wrap up, here’s a quote from David Deangelo taken from one of his newsletters:
“Here’s what I learned:
YOU DON’T HAVE TO HAVE A “CONVERSATION” AT ALL WHEN YOU FIRST MEET A WOMAN. ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS GET HER DIGITS!
“In my book, I teach you how to get a woman’s email and phone number in about 3 minutes. I know that it kind of sounds sensational… like I’m probably just using that as a marketing trick… but I’m actually very serious about it.
“Now, there’s a lot more to success with women than just getting numbers. But for the sake of this argument, let’s just say that all you really need to be concerned about when you’re first meeting a woman is getting her email and phone number.
“Yep, that’s it.”
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