Watermelon baby ~ photo by simmbarb

I heard an interesting comment the other day and that is “we are always becoming”. Life is always about change and we are always changing, always moving from the person we are to the person we will become.

Of course, we can always be hopeful that we are changing for the good, growing in a more tolerant and understanding way.

The path of life has many turns, my friend, just remember to enjoy the walk.

And always try to get the biggest piece of watermelon, let it drip down your face in a total spastic enjoyment of life, because if you don’t someone else surely will.

Which leads us to todays dating personal ad headline suggestion:
“Are you ready to live life to its fullest?”

Have a great day!

It’s odd but I feel that I have something to say and yet I cannot find the words to express myself.

I am unsure of my feelings and am lost inside my head.

Have you ever been there?

Genesis, the band, explained this so well… (sorry to the 20 somethings but watch/listen anyways)

Lost inside my thoughts without the actual tools to express them to you. This is the life of an online person that has reached the proper realization that NOT everything has yet been recorded and is accessible within a couple of mouse clicks.

Because, despite my temporary inability to express myself, I do still know that I have something to say to you.

It’s important. It’s life changing. It’s a goal that CAN be realized, achieved, attained.

It’s your sharing of your life with someone that DOES want to share their life with you.

Attract that person at first glance of your profile with this headine:
“I know I’ll go crazy without you”.

Have a great day!

Beating the competition

Personally I like the stories of big corporations taking the gloves off and fighting things out. After all, beating the competition is the name of the game, in business and in life.

Isn’t dating all about beating out the other person for the more desirable mate anyways? If you can’t take the heat of competition then stay off the dance floor. (Dating tips for women.)

And this is where online dating really shows it’s brashness. At any time you have a limited circle of possible contacts multiplied by the number of dating services and social networks you are a part of, just like the number of friends you have can only lead to an increase in possible new friend connections you can make, when you put in the first step efforts of meeting your friends’ friends.

One way to beat the competition, naturally, is to be better at something than the other person, such as posting a great headline for your online personal ad. Because the better the headline the more people will make the next click and read through your profile. (Guys, don’t make these mistakes.)

Today, beat the dating competition with this headline:
“I will cross the finish line with you”.

Have a great day!

Fate's crystal ball

Today I will be getting a hair cut. Or actually, all of them cut (small joke).

Why is this significant? It isn’t.

But it does bring about an interesting question: Do you take pride in your appearance?

As far as guys go, I know a lot of them just kind of “wash & dry”, very little primping, unless it’s to perfectly prune the growth of hairs on their chin.

Men are not like women, not equals as far as interest in their own looks go, on average. It’s easy to get ready for special occasions, like dates and parties, but are you prepared on any given day, to be at your best?

You never know when fate will introduce you to someone special, or that could be special… if only you looked better at that moment. So do your best to look your best, always.

Hell, maybe even join me in a haircut today.

And to match this up with today’s dating personal headline suggestion, post thsi today:
“I look much better in person”.

Have a great day!

First let me say this: Wow! The opening ceremonies of the Vancouver Winter Olympics 2010 was great to watch. Many thanks to the hundreds of unnamed performers and to those we know so well.

I’m going to do not much more than surf, eat and watch the Olympics from every angle today. And what you’re going to do is continue the search for your Valentine, because there’s still time.

Some quick suggestions of places to visit/join:

- eharmony.com USA and eharmony.ca Canada: free communication weekend until Monday night. Join free, contact your matches free.

- Lavalife – It’s always free to reply to messages, there’s local speed dating events, three distinct dating communities to join and more.

- Match.com – Worldwide more than 20 million members, there’s a special someone closer than you think. Take advantage of Match.com’s free trial offer varies by region).

And to make that special person find you easily post a great headline with your new dating service membership profile, like this one:
“This could be my finest moment, getting a message from you!”

Have a great day!

Life is like a roller coaster

How is your day going? Had a lot of fun last night?

I hope so… because now the weekend is half over… sucks doesn’t it?

That’s OK though. If we’re lucky we’ll get lucky tonight, right?

Of course the odds of getting lucky are better for me than you, I’m married…LOL

So, as that goes then so life goes. And if life is a party them why are we always the ones in the coat-room, and not fooling around but actually putting the coats away?!

An d that thought leads us to this headline suggestion for today:
“My life has been a roller-coaster so far, help me get level!”

Have a great day!

“Is it possible to fall in love in one day?”

Yes, it’s possible for love to find you anywhere at all.

Post this as today’s Dating Profile Headline for your online personal ad:
“Maybe cupid sent me this way to find you”.

Have a great week!

Rob and a 12yo scotch

This day is not only your day off, it’s mine too.

I plan on eating a lot of junk food and watching all the Star Trek episodes I can find on TV, including the latest movie, which I’ve already seen twice (thank goodness for PVRs). And some 12 year old scotch to finish off the evening.

In between assorted snacks and the single malt scotch, I will consider the importance of life, but that’s later tody.

Now, this morning, I have a special dating headline profile for you to post today:
“I have found the secret to long lfe: count every year as a leap year!”

Have a great day!

PS. Heads up on the next ‘Dating Serrvice of the Week’: Matchmaker.com. Millions of members and a great setup that encourages plenty of local matches throughout America and Canada.

My chaotic office

Today I will not be working too hard, but I will be in my office.

Despite it being January, and the fact that I am surrounded by mounds of snow taller than myself, I am in the mood for some spring cleaning. Mainly because I am also surrounded by boxes, files and a lot of technology that needs to be updated and accounted for, as you can see in the picture.

So, while my thoughts will be with you, the heady dating person, I will be cleaning up. A clean office brings order to chaos.

I could use some order, chaos is only fun for so long. LOL.

So, for today, this is my suggestion for your funny headline:
“I can rhyme when I have time but space is small and I will….”

Have a great day!

Time is running

There are 168 hours in a week. In every week.

If you allow for 8 hours of sleep a day you then have 112 hours of waking time. Time to spend as you can, after your body has rested.

Let’s also give you a job, 40 hours a week and 1 hour traveling time a day, to and from work.

Your free time is now reduced to 67 hours a week. All the time you have, each and every week, to eat, practice hygiene, shop, do your chores, and, of course, meet up with friends and date.

So why isn’t your dating life more productive, more fun, more exciting?

Damn good question, isn’t it?

Maybe because no one has ever taken the time to explain dating to you. To really discuss what dating, friendships and relationships mean to people that aren’t you. After all, if your dating isn’t successful, if your friendships are fleeting and your relationships non-existent, then maybe it isn’t other people’s fault at all – maybe it is you.

Deep thoughts, right? If you see yourself above, read more about yourself in these advice articles.

And if you only came here for today’s dating profile headline of the day, then I suggest this is what you post today:
“I live in the light” and let them ask you what you mean (I love headlines with multi-meanings).