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7
May

Fantasy Lover: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

How sensual are you?

How sensual are you?

Saturday

Do you have a fantasy lover?

Having a fantasy lover can be very fulfilling, allowing yourself to get sensual and excited and if you take the extra time to understand what makes your fantasy lover so good at what they do you’ll find that you have those same deeply sensual feelings available to share with the lover you have, or will have, in real life.

Many people shut off the fantasy or don’t allow themselves to experience this sensual side of themselves because they repress these very same emotions.

This weekend you should take 10 or 30 minutes to meditate. Just relax with easy deep breathing… in… out… and free yourself of the thoughts of the day.

Allow yourself to wander into that sensual place where your fantasy lover can be found… in… out… easy deep breathing.

Feel their touch on your skin, their own emotions of love and sexuality that only a fantasy lover can share with you.

Keep breathing deeply… in… out.

When your meditation is done write down the emotions that you shared with your fantasy lover. If you can, include how and where you were touched. If there was a song playing in the background include that in your remembering of the experience.

By visiting your fantasy lover you can begin to understand the deep sensual side that is inside you, waiting to be experienced with a real person. Hold onto those memories as you date people.

When you understand what you deeply want in a relationship you begin to have the ability to make it happen.

For your new personal ad headline today I suggest this:
“Do you have a fantasy lover?”

Have a great day!

More about this meditation exercise can be found in the ebook “Have The Relationship You Want” by Rori Raye.

30
Apr

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Saturday

When you peer into your future what do you see?

Is there a picture that comes into view? Do you see a successful career and loving family? Do you see a sun rising over the horizon? Do you see chaos? Is there anything at all that comes into view?

This weekend is a good time to start putting your future into focus.

If you can’t make a target for the next five years, can you make a goal for the next Saturday at least?

We can all plan the small things and complete them successfully and occasionally we can make a large goal and achieve it but to have an overall goal that combines many aspects of our lives is usually not possible and we find ourselves floating in a boat in the sea of life, drifting along until we land at an island and struggle ashore and then try to integrate into the society we find there.

Life is strange this way.

What we plan doesn’t happen and the unexpected becomes our life.

So I guess my real question is “When you peer into the future do you expect what you see to really happen?”

My dating profile headline suggestion for you today is this:
“In your world do our futures merge?”

Have a great day!

23
Apr

Enough: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Saturday

My headline suggestion for you today is this to post as your headline:
“How do you know when you had enough?”

Have a great day!

16
Apr

Self-improvement Project: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Saturday

Making the most of life is what we need to be able to do best.

When we lose the ability to make lemonade out of the lemons life hands us we’re in deep trouble.

When you’re single to have the great opportunity to grow as an individual, because you don’t have to expend energy on keeping a relationship together, so you can work on yourself.

And when you work on yourself this positive attitude becomes infectious and a very attractive quality.

So consider an ebook to get your self-improvement project a valuable kick-start and you’ll be well on the way to the dating life you truly deserve.

For today’s personal ad headline I suggest this:
“An individual is always a work in progress. Ask me how I’m doing.”

Have a great day!

9
Apr

Fate and Love: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Does Fate find love for you?

Does Fate find love for you?

Saturday

Are you waiting for “Fate” to match you with someone?

Do you leave your love life in the hands of “The Man Upstairs” because you are not confident enough to find love on your own?

I find it amazing that some people don’t work on their own “singledom” to not be single anymore and introduce into their lives someone special.

The tools you need are easily found, just search here and you’ll be well on your way to finding that someone special. Consider this Fate nudging you or The Man Upstairs providing the tools for you.

You don’t have to be alone anymore!

Be warned, you might not find that very special person right away, but you will at least be doing something positive about your singleness and your own confidence levels will rise making you an even more attractive and interesting person to meet!

If you’re uncertain about dating online I have a primer for you, just a few words about starting to date online. Like I said, the online dating tools are here, and they’re just one click away.

Once you’ve chosen your online dating service you’ll need a headline to get your profile writing started. That’s where this blog comes in (make it a favorite so you don’t lose it!), suggesting a new dating profile headline for you every day. Today consider this as your headline:
“Tell me if your name also means L-O-V-E, because we should meet.”

Have a great day!



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2
Apr

Life Influence: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Saturday

This is the “Weekend of Dating” that will change your life forever.

This weekend you will edit your profile and then somewhere in it you will include a couple of paragraphs about the book or author that has most influenced your life.

This is a great conversation point and allows people reading your profile to connect at a level of understanding that usually doesn’t happen until well into the dating cycle.

Do it!

Your headline suggestion for today is:
“Atlas Shrugged changed how I see people and how to frame my life for personal excellence.”

Have a great day!

NOTE: Want to chat? Take a look at A Fun Friend and have some fun!

26
Mar

Communication: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Saturday

How many tries, how many relationships do you need to be in (live through) to find yourself someone that you’d spend the rest of your life with?

There have been numerous studies defining the moments that change lives when someone special enters your life. Your body chemistry changes and your mood becomes elated. The body makes drugs that add to your elation and infatuation.

Your world view narrows to just the two of you, nothing else gets in the way of your happiness.

Then it happens. That first fight, that first slight. Your relationship settles into the “familair zone” and as both of you relax around the other the “honeymoon stage” of the relationship ends and then somoene farts. You realize that this (the other person) now defines the rest of your life.

Do you stay or do you go?

This question has created it’s own massive self-help channel of books, dvds, seminars, plenty of ways to get the relationship help you feel you need. And what does this great offering tend to say? In a word “communicate”.

When you can effectively speak what’s on your mind and have a resolution that requires change only on your own part, of your own efforts, life and relationships will be great.

If you enter into a relationship in the hopes of changing the other person to become that “perfect partner” you’ve already lost. I bet you know what already though.

My dating headline suggestion for you today is this, which I trust you’ll use for it’s effectiveness, not for it’s charm that you don’t believe:
“Let’s communicate. I’m a great listener and past playing games.”

Have a great day!

Additional reading:
- 10 Secrets About Men
- Free Dating Tips For Men

12
Mar

Turmoil: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Who can you count on?

Who can you count on?

Saturday

“I never wanted to hurt you… I only wanted the best for you, for your future, for your life.

If any advice I have offered to you so far has not worked out, or been in error, I am deeply sorry.

This has always been your life to live, not for me to live it for you.”

Have you been given this speech by a parent when you were in your youth? Love is the hardest thing to understand and offer when you don’t understand; or when your understanding is not on level with the issue at hand.

We all have it tough, life offers no easy choices, no easy paths to take; and even worse there are no guarentees that anyone you know will grasp the turmoil in your life and be able to offer you relevant advice to get you through these tumultuous times you find yourself in.

This is when it’s hard to believe that love is enough.

Love, when mixed with understanding, offers the opportunity for us to be a safe haven for our friends in distress. And if this can be reciprocated when we find ourselves in distress then you truly have a friend.

I have written all of this because it’s important to rediscover our boundaries and see if they can stretch with the new obstacles of life that confront us.

It isn’t always ourselves that find us being caught up in turmoil but we can be enveloped within it nonetheless. That’s what family and friendship really means.

I offer you this testament as a friend, one you may never meet in person but can communicate with through the advice offered here, and the more than 1,700 other posts in this simple blog.

Communication is our only hope of a fair future, for ourselves and those that we care about. And with all of this in our minds I offer this thoughtful headline for your profile headline today:
“Could you count on me in a moment of distress? Are you willing to find out?”

Have a great day!

5
Mar

My Life: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Saturday

Are you ready for a helluva day? You should be.

We’re safe, warm and fed. This is cause for celebration and I think a good online chat somewhere spreading this cause (of being safe,warm and fed) will not only make you feel good but everyone you tell this too will also feel good too.

Try it! Visit some dating services with chat rooms (www.DoYouDate.me has fun chat rooms) and spread the feeling.

And for our headline today, well the suggestion is a natural:
“I am safe, warm and fed. You?”

Have a great day!

26
Feb

Get Real: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Saturday – In The Month of Love

As I suggested yesterday, the weekend is a great time to get caught up on your personal chores.

From where I am that means you need to update and edit your dating profile so you can get more second looks. If the dating service you use offers you a peek into who has stopped by your profile to take a look then send them a message.

You never know what type of packaging that special person will be in, so don’t pre-judge them.

And today, use this as your new personal ad headline:
“It gets much more real than this.”

Have a great day!

19
Feb

Changes: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

I scream, you scream, we all scream...

I scream, you scream, we all scream...

Saturday – In The Month of Love

If you’re not moving forward then you’re moving back. There is no such thing as “zero progress”.

Forward or back, that’s it.

Today we’re going to move forward, so do this with me.

Go for a walk, not a long one, 10 or 15 minutes. Clear your head.

When you get back inside I want you to login to your online dating profile and chnage the first sentence in the “About You” (About me?) section to say:
“I am not a health nut but just came in from a short walk.”

This will change how people see you, breaking the preconceived molds that many online daters have.

And for your headline today I suggest using this:
“My favorite ice cream flavour is not vanilla.”

Have a great day!

5
Feb

The Big Game: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

We should be on the same team

We should be on the same team

Saturday – In The Month of Love

The day before the big games is a game filled of ideas and food menus. I know that I’m going to be beer shopping and checking all of my ingredients for my traditional game-day chili.

Big game days usually offer two great opportunities:
1- go out, either to an establishment and meet people cheering on their team or go to a friends place and mingle during the game;
2- stay home and start up chats with other single people at home looking for a connection.

One of the best places to chat it up if you’re taking option two for the big game is www.DoYouDate.me but, of course, there’s plenty of chat sites, so don’t miss out.

If you are working on your profile, editing what you’ve written or adding more photos (which is always good to do) then you’ll want to new headline to post as well, I suggest this:
“My team can be your team too.”

Have a great day!