Dark Days Indeed

Through the pain and suffering of being single we strive to make more out of our lives… to be connected, intimately and completey, with another.

I know, that’s a rather dark and sad picture of not having a partner in your life but the reality is that many people do feel this type of deep sadness and emptiness in their lives when they’re single.

Just be happy that this isn’t you. You’re doing something about your singleness, you’re working hard to meet people, to date and maybe even to find the love .

The first step in the ways of attraction is, of course, getting their attention. Today you’re going to do that by editing your personal ad headline to say this:
“I feel love”.

Have a great day!

** Also, did you remember to set your clocks ahead? WQe are now in Daylight Saving Time.**

My list of chores

Having a great day… all of my chores are done and now I can sit back, catch up with friends on Facebook and have a couple of nice, cold beers.

How does Homer Simpson put it? “Mmmm, beeer”.

LOL

Of course my work really is never done. There’s always another dating service vying for my attention, to bring it to your attention.

There’s always new dating advice being published, for me to sift through to bring to you the honest truth, the dating facts that matter most.

All that work culminates to this: today’s suggested dating ad headline for you to post. So, here you go, post this:
“I love cop shows on TV.”

Have a great day!

Congrats to all Olympians

The final day of the 2010 Vancouver Olympics… I will be watching the USA-Canada hockey medal finals, so this has to be quick.

All of their preparation comes down to this one moment. This can be said for all of our Olympians, no matter their country of origin or in who’s honor they were playing.

Today, being as it’s the day that leads us to all other days, I want you to post this as your successful personal ad headline today:
“You have to answer this call”.

Have a great day!

Girl on vacation

Today I give you permission to not do your list of chores.

You are allowed to do nothing all day except eat, pee and surf the internet.

These are the places your allowed to surf:
- LargeFriends.ca
- eWealthyMen.com
- Netbrides.info
- Perfectmatch.com
- Mate1
- Friendfinder

As you go through this list of dating web sites today, you are allowed to search and browse the personal ads there for an unlimited amount of time. You must, however, complete a profile for each site, and have a really nice headline posted for each.

You headline should be along the lines of this (feel free to tweak it):
“I have come along way to find you, please take the next step and introduce yourself”.

Have a great day!

Valentine Day Hearts

Today, otherwise known as Valentine’s Day, is truly your day to shine. I expect nothing less than your full effort in joining dating services and being open to all messages, checking profiles, adding voice messages and video when available.

Many people are their own worst enemies when it comes to online dating because they do not take advantage of all the features offered, they do not take a critical look at their own profile, they do not tell the truth about who they are searching for.

Whether you are looking for your soulmate or just a one-time hookup, be up front about your relationship expectations and you’ll do just fine with online dating.

I also suggest changing your profile headline regularly as a way of keeping your profile fresh and attracting more attention to it.

Today, Valentine’s Day, just for today mind you, post this as your headline:
“It’s true, cupid shot me and you with the same arrow!”

Have a great day!

Deep thinking

[Note: Today s the last day of the free communication weekend at Chemistry.com. There's still time for you to join and communicate for free with your matches!]

While I don’t really believe that our lives are foreshadowed by any certain events, or that we are “destined” to live a specific type of life, for good or bad, I do believe that every event that happens from this moment to the next is one more step into our future and a step away from our past.

We must have control over the events that happen in our lives and more importantly we must have control over the “reactions” that we make according to the events in our lives.

Deep thoughts, eh?

This line of thinking leads us to the headline that I suggest you post today:
“I have left my past behind me, will you share my future?”

Have a great day!

Celebrate winter!

Cold enough for you?

Did you know that, coincidentally, more people join dating services this time of the year (in North America and Europe) because of the colder weather and Valentine’s Day.

First, the cold weather: who wants to be outside all the time when it’s this cold. And do you really feel all that attractive when your dressed for the cold weather? Think hoods, scarves, big snow boots… yeah, not attractive at all, right?

Then the double whammy of Valentine’s Day: cultural conditioning that tells you if you’re single on February 14th, well, you’re just not like the other people, you know, the people that have someone.

Before I go into the Profile Headline of the Day suggestion for you, I’m going to give to you, here and now, my Top 5 Winter Dating Services to join for free so you can meet some really nice people and have a date for Valentine’s Day.

After all, you can explain the weather forecast for not being able to meet people (which is a blatant lie, in the cold weather dating services, the good ones at least, double or triple their new member signups through March) but when your parents call, a relative calls, or maybe a friend catches up with you, you don’t want to have to offer to them, again, that being single is a lifestyle choice all the while you’re secretly drooling over someone fantastic you’ve seen online but have yet to meet.

You’ve got the motivation, now join these 3 top winter dating services and meet someone nice, or wild, or both! Posted in no particular order (and more of our favorite top ten dating services will be shown over the next few days, stay tuned):

1. 5 Days Free with Match.com

2. Match Affinity – New for those yobs across the pond… just kidding, some of my best friends speak english…

3. Lavalife – all the great features and speed dating too!

So get busy and meet some people! And the headline suggested for you to post today? Try this:
“I’m planning a summer vacation. Interested?”

Have a great day!

Cleaning kitty

If you read Saturday’s post you’ll be happy to know that I totally caved and did not clean my office as planned. It’s a mess and I do plan on trying to like it more.

Ugh… such a sad defeat. LOL

This is how life goes… plans are made, and all good intentions become cast aside.

And life goes on, either planned or unplanned.

From this we need to understand that it’s important to be able to “roll with the punches” and “take things in stride”.

For today this is the headline I suggest you post to show off your great positive attitude:
“I can hang in with the best of them“.

Have a great day!

Going to the movies

So here I am, sick at home… still. And I’ve been struggling to think of something witty to use as your headline of the day.

But you know what? Sometimes, even when it’s something you have to do, self-motivation is hard to do.

Which is particularly difficult this time of year because with all the weight-loss, body-shapers and self-help motivators that abound in January we really are guilted into believing that if we aren’t doing something life changing then we are screwing up our lives in some fashion.

And then here we are, together, thinking of a witty, funny headline to post on our dating profile, to get the attention of someone that is fated to meet us.

It is fate, isn’t it? The belief that what is will be. And just as certainly that you’re reading this I have your back when it comes to a great headline.

Except for today, because I’m sick, damn cold….

Your headline for today is, finally, this:
“I like to watch scary movies” (or whatever genre of movie you like to watch).

Have a great day!

Check out the competition!

Rest, relax and re-write. That is your rule for today.

Take a critical look at your online profile and maybe search other profiles of a man or woman, in close likeness to you.

See what the competition is and improve your headline and profile accordingly.

Let’s get some dates!

Today’s headline suggestions is a funny little ditty that goes like this:
“You have the prettiest eyes I’ve never seen”.

Have a great day!

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