My Sweet Valentine: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
My Sweet Valentine
I’m giving you fair warning, it’s just over a month to surprise your “Sweet Valentine” with a gift from the heart.
What is that you say? You don’t have a Valentine yet picked out?
How will you reveal your love, I must ask.
Flowers, chocolate, a handwritten poem? Hanging out at your local bar waiting for cupid to strike?
How do you show your love when you don’t have a love target to start with?
Yup, life, and love, sucks sometimes.
It’s a good thing I’m here to help you out. This weekend a top ten online dating service will be hosting a free communication weekend and you’re invited. Free membership, free communication with your best, scientifically selected, opportunity for love.
But before we get there you need to get to a place where love can bloom inside all of those confusing and convoluted feelings you have.
Here is help:
- for women
- for men
And for today you should use this as your personal ad headline:
“I’m running out of time to find my Valentine, please message me now.”
Have a great day!
Personal Ad Headline of the Day: Market Your Love
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Will today be the day that not only you start looking but you also begin to make significant changes in your own well-being to be a more “marketable person”?
Anyone can say anything online but that doesn’t make it true.
When YOU say something and it’s a fact that is a deal-maker or a deal-breaker when you do get a first meeting/date the truth will be the only survivor of that time together.
The TRUTH has to be true and not just based on your lying eyes but also on what the person across the table sees as well.
Will they see the real you or the fantasy you that, because no one is looking over your shoulder, you feel that you can easily add a few little white lies as you write your profile hoping no one will catch you out.
And the excuse that everyone is adding a few white lies to their profile should NOT be the deciding factor for you to also lie to the person that you do hope to be sitting across the table from you in a few nights.
Truth will win out. And truth is a positive first step in any relationship. Ask anyone that has had or is currently in a long-term relationship and how honesty played a part in it.
For your online dating profile headline try this one:
“Honesty makes dating a real effort to find love online; and I’m honest.”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day: Magic
Well, if Justin Bieber can have a child out of wedlock the world really is going to hell in a hand-basket (my admiration of Lindsay Lohan notwithstanding).
What you roll out of bed for in the morning is to put your best foot forward and make a positive impact on the lives of the people you interact with during the day.
No one gets up in the morning planning to have a crappy day, right?
Today is your day and it all starts with using this as your dating profile headline:
“If you believe in love share with me some of your magic.”
Have a great day!
You’ll Love These!: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
“These are the ones you’ll love!”
I think I’ve heard this term about 30 times this past week and not once has it had anything to do with dating… not even swinger services have used this tagline.
But waffles, shoes, pants, etc., sure… all good. (*sob*) I guess.
I like to think that dating does offer you choice. Redhead or blonde. Big shoulders or more mature.
“Go big or go home because these are the ones you’re going to love!”
I hated to be told what to do and when it’s pushing what I consider to be a dime-store novelty or a hoax medicinal product, watch out for my retribution (or at least several harsh words to the person next in line).
For your personal ad headline today try this:
“Nothing freaky, just looking for true love.”
Have a great day!
No More Wednesday Dinner Dates For You: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Thursday: The unofficial “First Meeting Day/Date” for people that meet online. Really.
We all know that Wednesday is “Loser Date Night” and if you had a date last night that is less than date #4, sorry to be the guy that told you, but the relationship is over. If you aren’t aware, Wednesday is the night of no return. You’ve been on this date strictly for two reasons:
1. He/She wanted one more meal with you (paying) because it’s more civilized breaking up in person and less harrowing an experience when there are more people around. You’re less likely to make a scene and Thursday is now open for them to meet a person of more substance, more grounded in reality, someone that knows what a Wednesday dinner date means.
2. You should have seen it coming. What more needs to be said? Tip the waiter well (no point of ruining his night too), go home and start again reading dating advice manuals. You’ll find another suitable partner… just stay away from Wednesday date nights for the next 4 to 8 dates, just to be on the safe side. For additional points, change your cell phone and number a couple of times. She can’t text a break-up/make-up message to put you under her spell again if she’s dialing an old number, am I right?
For your dating profile headline today you should give this one a go:
“Today will only be seen as moving forward. Are you with me?”
Have a great day!
A Seinfeld Break Up
Fear of Moving Forward: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
The ring of fire and fear.
With the exclusion of the narcissist, everyone slides into the arena of fear when the future is at their feet and they are anxious about taking that first step into a new adventure (for lack of a better word).
Moving forward allows you to be the master of your destiny, to be the captain of your ship, to open a new chapter in your life.
The fear you experience is not a new phenomenon exclusively of your own, everyone feels that fear, it is as common as the flu in winter and must be conquered on an individual basis, but moving forward is also called “life” and we must move forward, the feeling of fear must be pushed aside and your life must be allowed to bring you to new territory.
Taking a tentative half-step testing the waters) will not do! You need to accomplish your goal by jumping through the ring of fire and of fear and strive to achieve the goal that is before you.
I know you can do it.
For your personal dating ad headline why don’t you give this one a shot:
“I am living life and am ready to meet you.”
Have a great day!
Judging Others: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Do you see “into” people? Or do you just see their outer “attitude”?
We all have two faces: the one we share with strangers and the one we share with close family and friends.
We all see only one face from the people around us and the people we meet. Then we judge them, pigeon-hole them so we can make sense of their personality.
It’s a hard world after all.
Today your challenge is to not judge others until you’ve spent more time getting to know them. Refuse to be mislead by the part of your brain that classifies everyone and everything so it can understand the people you’re with.
When you can control this instinctive (and often misleading) classification of others you will allow yourself to really get to know people whereas before you’d just as easily not bother with them at all.
Today your dating profile headline suggestion is:
“I can follow you if you get the party started.”
Have a great day!
When Followed: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
I know what to do. Really, I do.
At least, I know what to tell you to do. For me to know what I should do is a little harder, the window to view events in isn’t as large.
I know all the steps, I understand all the routines, I can tell anyone, any time, all the right things to do, and my explainations not only make sense but they work when followed.
When followed. A key phrase in this day and age: “Always read the label to determine if this dating service is right for you.” LOL
For your personal ad headline today, post this:
“Save some for me, I have some learning still to do.”
Have a great day!
Life Lessons: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
You cannot learn for someone else.
You can learn with others, think of a classroom. That is learning with someone.
You can learn by example, think of parables and historical stories. That is learning from someone.
But someone else cannot learn something and, through osmosis or some other mystical transformation system, have that knowledge passed to you without effort, without the benefit of doing something yourself you will always know what you know and nothing more. Star Trek’s Spock might, humans cannot.
Everybody has to learn the lessons of life on their own. Everybody is responsible for making their own mistakes and hopefully, by taking their life lessons to heart and realizing the new proper path as their new life lessons has shown them what to do next that is right and can now also safely and with confidence in their new found future they can move their life forward.
Whew! A real mouthful that was.
But really, what you learn is all on your own with a minimal amount of interference from well-meaning friends and family members.
Notice that I haven’t stated what the personal crisis is… because it doesn’t really matter. Life lessons come by without warning. They often take your life on a violent turn through experience or a lifting of the blinders on your eyes.
Life is like that, as long as you know that you are the only one that can learn something for yourself then you will.
For your personal ad headline today tempt the other attractive singles with this:
“There Is Love With A Few Simple Words Here.”
Have a great day!
