You seem interesting...

After a few sick days I am back at work. No surprise, the bills want to get paid and it doesn’t matter if I am well or not… you’ve been there, right?

Dating is work too… like, it’s not a “job” unless you’re an “escort” but it is work. Deciphering all the people and the types they fit into. Pidgeon-holing people is an art.

Unfortunately most poeple get “typing people” wrong.

The first visual cues, body language, aren’t always read properly. Especially with online dating where, if the person has not posted a video, you have very little proper cues to make an opinion of a person but an opinion is made by you, none-the-less.

Today, stop making judgements against people based on little more than their online profile. Instead, send them a message “You seem interesting… what are you hiding in your profile that I should know?” Remember, the rule is that you don’t really know someone until you’ve been close enough to smell them.

And post this as your own headline:
“Let’s meet! Then I’ll tell you what I didn’t post in my profile!”

Have a great day!

Let's play catch!

Today is a great day to explore the magical words, the attraction words, you can use in your personal ad headline.

Sure, through this blog I’ve given you plenty of “Dating Profile Headline of the Day” suggestions and I am sure they’ve helped all those that have used my headline suggestions appropriately (don’t you hate qualified statements?).

You can be certain there are words that will help your headline stand out from the competition. Think about using these words, somehow, stuffed into your headline:
Sexy
Hunky
Freakishly Fun
Teen Idol
Friends First
Stable Worker
4 Seasons of Fun
Drug-free
Relearning Love

You can easily make your headline stand out, just find out your best feature by asking family or friends, then find at least 5 acronyms that you can use in place of that feature word.

Try this as your headline today (subject to your approval, of course):
“Nothing slows me down, let’s play catch!”

Have a great day!

One of these days

Ever had one of those days where you just go through the motions?

Those types of days… these types of days… it is so hard to concentrate on what’s important and so easy to just let things slide…

It’s easy to fall into a bad rut, a single-sided way to look at things and miss what is really happening around you.

Well, this stops here and now. You’re not allowed to let yourself slide, you have to grab life with both hands and fight the good fight.

One of the ways to be on the winning side is to get the attention of some great people, new friends that will be on your side and offer you the support you need. “Where do you find these people?”, you ask… you find the here. And here. And here.

And you will introduce yourself with a great headline like this:
“What ever you do is what shall be.”

(Of course this is a Betty White line from the movie ‘Old Dogs’ but I’m sure she won’t mind.)

Have a great day!

Today let’s forget all graces… let’s have some down and dirty fun with our headline today. After all, if these teachers can get away with this (see video below) with only a suspension without pay (read news story), then what the hell, right?

So I’ll keep it simple today, everyone understands simple, right?

Post this as your killer headline today:
“Hello, I seem to have fallen into your lap. Hello?”

Have a great day!

Joe Strummer

Yesterday I watched a movie about Joe Strummer, of ‘The Clash’, a documentary actually, with a lot of big names and interesting facts surrounding not only Joe Strummer and ‘the Clash’ but also how this music influenced other bands as they were starting out, or even before they grouped together, from 1977 and later.

I really like this type of entertainment, it gives you interesting viewpoints of the world, and how others see it, expressed by their actions and music. Do musicians have the responsibility of a pure and righteous viewpoint to offer their fans? Tough question.

Bono (of U2) has it right, maybe. Elvis always paid his taxes.

Best quote of this movie is: “I want some dignity left” when asked if they still want to play in their 40’s.

Entertainment offers a particular opening of doors, even if it’s a particularly bad movie, don’t you think? Horror movies are there to draw you into the dark side of man’s nature, a comedy into the unlikely. Horror offers a wider viewpoint too explore, don’t you think?

That leads us to a shocking headline for you to use today:
“Projectile vomiting is against my nature”.

Have a great day!

Everybody wins!

Today is “Bonus Day”!

Because you’ve played the “Dating Profile Headline of the Day” Game so well you have earned yourself a free bonus “Choose”.

That means that, as a winner, you get to choose any headline you want to post as your headline today and it’s OK by me.

Choose well!

Have a great day!

Start with yoga today

Thursday is a great day to initiate change.

Now, I know a lot of people say start on Monday, that way your week flows together with the chnages you have made, but Thursday is a great day, in my mond, because it’s an “action day”.

At work and home Thursday is when you can really get things done and “flow” with the chnages you make, whether this being a new diet, a new style of clothes, new exercise routine, whatever it might be, consider today being your starting day.

Tuurn that new leaf over today!

Today’s headline follows this theme a little bit, so for today post this as your dating ad headline:
“I am on the road to changing my life. Any hitchhikers?”

Have a great day!

Gathering up apples

Did I ever to you about how poor my family was when I was growing up?

We were so poor that we couldn’t afford to regularly buy milk… I had to pour apple juice on my cereal in the morning. Now, I know what you’re going to say, apple juice costs more than milk, but the truth of the matter is, I had to run over to a neighbor’s orchard, steal the apples and squeeze the hell out of them for something to put on my cereal. I’d have gotten milk but the cows were to heavy to get over the fence!

Now, common wisdom holds that you can’t believe everything you hear, but as far as reading goes… well, believe it when you hear it fro me, OK?

Hold truth close to your heart and lies will never penetrate.

Be honest and you will attract a like-minded person. Which leads us to today’s dating profile headline for you to post:
“I can be the person that understands you.”

Have a great day!

Feeling sick

Wednesday was very tiring. And I don’t feel well. I tell you, when I get sick it never seems to end. It’s been since just after Christmas and I’ve had returning bouts of the common cold and the flu. One after the other and I still feel very sick… and tired.

It’s very hard to be at your best when you’re not feeling well, that I do understand. Online dating has it’s advantages this way, no one will ever know you’re sick unless you tell them. You can hide all you want until you’re better… then it’s party time!

So, for today’s headline, post this on your dating profile:
“I am always at my best, go ahead, test me!”

Have a great day!

Hope and promise

Along with life and love we often also suffer loss and tragedy. So it was with Haiti and my heart goes out to the victims and their families. Many thousands never to again feel life and love.

We have life, we owe our future life and love to the past, to those that will not have life and will not love again.

For every step we have taken we have a debt to ourselves to improve our lot in life, and to bring love into the world in whatever capacity that we can.

So we look towards the future, with a smile and a raised heart. With hope and promise.

The dating profile headline for today, my suggestion for you is this:
“I do have hope and promise for the future”.

Have a great day!