Bright Side of Life: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Tuesday
Do you play the part of “victim” in your life?
Now, I’m not talking about a victim of violence or crime.
I mean the type of “victim” that always has things happening to them that they can bitch and complain about to others.
I’ll give you an example: You arrive at work and along with your “good mornings” you offer to your co-workers you absolutely must ass that your parking space today was way in the back, that the barista made the worse cup of coffee ever and that you’ve got so much to do today that you might not finish for lunch on time.
Is this you, the “victim”? Honestly, I hate those people. Anything you say to them reminds them of what something bad happened to them.
When I am in the rain I think of the rainbow that will appear when the rain stops; these victims know that rain now means rain later, that it wasn’t a one-time deal and that no matter what, it does always “rain on their parade”.
Avoid them at all costs!
One way to be able to spot them in online personals is to carefully read through their profile. If there’s nothing good, then likely it’s all going to be bad. trust me.
And so you don’t end up being caught in this “rainbow denier” category, always write a nice personal experience along with your profile. People understand disaster but relate much better to happier recollections.
For your headline suggestion today, try this:
“If you were a Monty Python character, who would you be?”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Tuesday
You’re still here, that’s a good thing, I’m sure, because life is a continuous march towards happiness and you’ll only know you’re there after you’ve left it behind.
Don’t we learn things in odd ways sometimes?
I mean, we usually learn by example, that’s how it’s done as children, but as we get older the curve should get easier to understand the world around us but for some reason the reality of how people interact often eludes us. Do you follow what I mean?
Dating sometimes becomes a real mess because the “rules of dating” that we learned in our youth are often not what the “rules of dating” are later in life.
Just like people that wear sandals most of the time forget how to tie their shoelaces up, we miss opportunities to mingle because we’re not sure which foot to put forward anymore.
This is why dating services like “Meetup.com” work so well for a lot of people: they place you in a shared experience rather than under the microscope.
I’m often reminded of what I was told as a young shopper, that quality will be remembered long after the dollar spent is forgotten.
Today let’s share an experience with our dating headline, maybe a survey-type headline will do:
“Have you ever found a bug in your food?”
Have a great day!
Power Over You: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Tuesday
Tell me, who has the power over you?
If someone was to walk into the room, who would it have to be to make you obey their every word, to do their bidding without question? (This is for civilians but military types can ‘take five’ to play along).
Yeah, love is kind of like that, good answer.
I really hope that you get the opportunity to experience love like that again.
Maybe today’s dating profile headline will kick-start your successes with online dating:
“If you only had one more chance for love…”
Have a great day!
Change: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Change of life.
Do you remember how big computer monitors used to be? Or is your computer desk bowing over with that 24″ deep monitor still?
What about TV’s? Remember that they used to take up half the living room and that “book cases” that held a TV were way too deep to hold any books unless you hid 2 extra rows of books behind the row you actually saw?
So many things change in such a radical way. Maybe William Shatner has it right and “Star Trek” really did change the world. Someone has to be responsible, right?
My point is that we never know from one moment to the next where we’ll be. We can guess and many of these guesses are from well educated points of view. But sometimes we just don’t know what is next and we take a gamble with each next step into the future.
My idea for today’s headline suggestion for you is this:
“Life is full of change. I have two dimes and a nickle for your quarter!”
Have a great day!
Sunny Spring Days: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Sunny Spring Days
Welcome to another day. I hope yours is bright and sunny, as I am planning with the weathermen around the world to make this happen. It might be Wednesday or Thursday (I’m not sure) but our day of sunshine will be soon, trust me!
Will you be ready when it happens? When the call of the warmth of the sun is finally brought to us and the undeniable pull of needing to be outside, for a walk, wash the winter’s grime off the car, any of your ritualistic activities you do on the first “feeling it” day of spring.
I’m ready, I have a new car that just wants to be washed every day… I hope you will give this spring day a thought or two and b eprepared.
It’s happening soon.
And this brings us to today’s headline, I hope you like my suggestion:
“I am ready for the first spring-like day, will you be with me?”
Have a great day!
Match.com March Marathon: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Tuesday – The Match.com March Marathon
It’s official, aLoveLinksPlus.com has designated March as the “Month to Try Harder” with your online dating adventure.
And we’re going to work thoughout the days of March to better use Match.com as our dating service example.
This is similar to a marathon (exception that March has 31 days and a marathon has 26 miles) and every day we’ll recommend another “leg” of the marathon for you to complete. We will be using Match.com as our example site, because if we all run the same course we’ll all be able to make it to the finish line at roughly the same time.
Free membership at Match.com is good for now but, later, as this marathon continues, we will recommend that you become a paid member… but that will still be optional. Heaven help me if my help isn’t helping you and I suggest you spend your hard earned money on a dating service that isn’t helping you. This won’t happen, I don’t bully people. A lot of what you’ll learn here will still be valuable insights into being a member of online dating services, so no need to despair, my friend.
Of course I’ll expect to know your reasons why you don’t want to be a premium member, so that I can either work to make changes to this “Match.com Marathon” or help you better decide why a full membership is what you really need to have to cross the finish line of dating this March.
But join for free today and use the free trial offered. You’ll need a credit card to join and get the free trial and cancel the free membership and to not get charged for the full membership by the time your expiration date nears, but I’m sure by then you’ll be having too much fun to want to cancel your full access membership to Match.com.
Click here for a 7 day free trial membership.
You've got to join to play along.
Leg #1 – You need to be a member of Match.com (click the link above) to get properly started with this online exercise. This is the first half half of the first step.
The other half is completing parts of our membership profile. You can see that once you’ve created a user account you’ll have a lot of areas to completely to finish for your dating profile. Not to worry, we’ll have a few days to look at every area of Match Personals during the Match.com March Marathon.
Even though other sections might be completed by you before we meet up with you tomorrow, not to worry, you can always edit if you’re uncomfortable with what you wrote.
For today I have a headline for online dating newbies (the first timers) to post as their very first Match.com headline: (the maximum is 140 characters and spaces for profile headlines.)
“Joining me for a coffee-date is a great idea. Your cafe or mine?”
Have a great day!
Long Live The Revolution: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Love will bring you light
“Long live the revolution!” is the cry we’ve heard since January, even since the dawn of time.
The people are taking back their countries, taking control again of their lives.
No longer will someone else be demanding of them toil and taxes withour fair and equitable representation.
If you look hard enough it’s represenattuive of love and committment (marriage).
Finding love is a revolution of the soul and spirit, a renewing of the vow we have to the purpose of our lives, to realize our worth as individuals and as lovers and as friends.
I hope that you find your revolution … and live happily ever after.
For today’s dating profile headline this is my suggestion:
“Love is a revolution of the soul.”
Have a great day!
It Begins With You: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Tuesday – In The Month of Love
It’s time to get back to business, the business of dating, that is.
It’s no surprise that dating is big buisness and that a lot of people pin their financial hopes on creating and managing a busy and profiatable dating service. What happens though, is that they forget the most important part of the dating service: you.
The big dating service stend to have it right, they not only have the large membership enough to introduce you to plently of people in your area but they also give you access to tools that make you a good date and a better catch.
I’m not a counsellor or psycho-analyst so I can’t give you personally specific tips but I have been able to point many people in the right direction to get the dating help that they need.
It always begins with you.
Today’s headline draws from this theme, so I suggest you use this as your headline today:
“It all begins with you.”
Have a great day!
Being Happy: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Half full or half empty?
I’m generally a happy guy. I think it’s important to look at the “cup half full” in life, otherwise the dread and fear of the next day, the next step, even the next breath, would be suffocating.
“Don’t sweat the small stuff” is a very good motto, mostly because there’s always someone around willing to sweat the small stuff so you don’t have to. And if you think you’re supposed to be that guy, go ahead and email me, I’d love to hear your reasoning.
Online dating is great when you consider the “cup half full” because you get the opportunity to consider the answer you’ll give to the messages you receive. You’re not standing in front of the person trying to make a good impression, you just need to write a nice reply, to show your good stuff.
That’s why more and more people are meeting online first. And if you think that someone you meet, online or in the real world, isn’t going to google your name, well, guess again.
Today, for your headline, I suggest this:
“Happy enough to know the cup is half full.”
Have a great day!
Cupid: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Welcome to The Month of Love
This month being February, Valentine’s and all of the romantic mess that get’s boyfriends and husbands into trouble and singles of both (all?) sexes into a funk, has arrived.
Whoopee!
I’ll say this straight up then I won’t have to repeat myself for the next 27 days “Enjoy what you have because you won’t have it forever”.
Now, you can take that statement any way you’d like it, but it means what it means and it means something different for each of us.
As for you in particular, look forward and don’t turn back because this month could bring about the positive change that you’re looking for. And I know that you’re looking.
You can hit for the home run and communicate for free all month long (if you’re American) at eharmony.com.
Or you can take it a bit slower (or faster) with dating at Lavalife.com, also free all month long, and join one or all three of the dating communities there.
It’s all up to you and it’s your choice.
I suggest this headline to get you started, without being too corny:
“Has Cupid sent you my way?”
Have a great day!
Positive Experience: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
I can have a gift for you.
If you followed my advice yesterday then today you’re all ready to be sending out winks. Good for you.
If you didn’t read my advice yesterday you still can, so take a moment and do it.
Now that we’re all on the same page, metaphorically, then it’s time to find your date. Remember, you’re doing this to meet “people” not “person” so don’t be too picky or judgmental. One of my “Online Dating Rules” is that you never know if a communication will turn into a positive experience until you’re close enough to smell the person.
So ask to meet them somewhere, close and public, for a quick coffee or soda with you. What have you got to lose?
Another of my “Online Dating Rules” is that your dating profile is never going to be perfect. there’s always room for an edit, always a way to say something different that means the same thing. And that change can be the difference between sparking someone’s attraction and not.
Of course, a good headline makes all the difference too. Together with a decent photo of yourself your headline is going to draw people to look a little deeper and read your profile, and maybe, just maybe, even send you a wink or a message.
Today you might want to try this headline and see what type of attraction you can generate:
“I think you’ll be the last person I date.”
Have a great day!
We Can Have Today: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Tuesday
Well, it’s back to work.
Have you ever been caught in a trap with no way out? Some people call it a “career” and others know it’s just a very long step to retirement, the time you’re supposed to be scrimping and saving for so you can really enjoy yourself.
Yes, it’s the extended Monday Blues.
On the other hand, while we have the strength, we can date.
We can date online. Meet people, make dates with people. Have fun.
Before retirement.
It all starts with a membership here and a headline that reads:
“We can have today and hopefully tomorrow.”
Have a great day!
