I am speaking metaphorically, of course.

You know, you miss something that should have been quite obvious, it was so much in your face.

And, whether on purpose or accidentally, you’ve been taken as a fool. And it hurts.

I’ve spoken of dating scammers but there is also another important villain to consider: someone that is just plain evil and looking to disturb someone’s otherwise tranquil and safe life.

I speak of, of course, “The Imposter”.

One of my favorite comparisons is the online game “World of Warcraft”. It’s a fun way to waste some time and accomplish something in the ether of the internet. And if you’re a busty woman questing your way through Azeroth you can be certain to have a lot of other players willing to help you along. But you don’t have to be female to be a woman character, do you? And the guys will let their imaginations run wild if you let them. (Yup, just a bit icky!)

That’s right, anyone can be anyone (anything!).

Online is not your neighborhood bar, people are not sitting beside you. safety for you may not be what the person you’re chatting with.

Of course there are a number of online dating services that require payment, which does help with identity imposters, and if I were to steer you towards an online dating service that is relatively safe, it would be this one.

For your online personal ad headline today give this a try to attract a date:
“I have always been the person I am today.”

Have a great day!

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I like to say that “It’s the latitude of your attitude” that get’s you noticed in your life.

If you have a rigid, stone cold personality then it’s going to take real effort on other people’s part to get you to warm up. What you do about such a personality, if you want to be successful with dating, is attempt small changes rather than one big one.

You know what I mean, baby steps such as greeting people with a smile rather than a blank look. Buying a small treat for your secretary or work-mate, it could be a lottery ticket or their favorite chocolate bar, something small that says “I acknowledge your existence and understand that you’re a part of my life”, even if it’s just a moment or two throughout your work day.

Your attitude is the one that has to change, not the attitudes of those around you.

For your personal ad headline today post this:
“I am strong like gorilla and lovable like puppy.”

Have a great day!

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Positive Thinking

Don’t you just love people that say to you “If you think positively then you’ll feel better,” or some such related nonsense?

I’d answer them that if you always think positively how would you know it? Without a negative thought to counter all that positivity how would you know it?

And a change in mood can be a good thing. It can relieve stress as well as help you to find true happiness, even true love. And sadness is a part of that, don’t you think?

For your personal ad headline today try this:
“I am a positive thinker, I think.”

And let them figure it out.

Have a great day!

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Under 40 and men want sex the most, over 40 and men want to cuddle more. Honest, I’m not making this up.

But I’m not saying which side of the curve, if either, I’m on.

The “Mutually beneficial relationship” seems to be the key words of any description of people getting together.

And that’s a description you can’t argue against, whether it’s love, money, something else or a combination of the three that brings together what each partner of the relationship is needing from the other.

For your personal headline today try this:
“Let’s talk and see if we have what each other wants in life and love.”

Have a great day!

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A bicycle built for two.

This amount of people is either very good for you or very bad for you.

I’d like to be encouraging but let’s be serious about such huge numbers: they pale in contrast to the overall number of monthly internet users worldwide (estimated to be almost one third of the world’s population) and doesn’t mean conclusively that you will find your life-partner using an online dating service.

Match.com – View Singles in Your Area

If you want to be a shining example of the successfulness of online dating I suggest you start searching for your perfect match in your local area. You’re certain to not find a match if you’re looking in the wrong state or country, unless you’re looking for a foreign bride.

To be certain you’re best off to join a top ten dating service for the most exposure of your personal ad and profile and limit your searches to an area that you’d actually travel to for a first meeting or date.

You also might want to test out today’s personal ad headline suggestion:
“Just me and you and a bicycle built for two.”

Have a great day!

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Even women drivers hate women drivers. I mean, when you’re cut off, almost in an accident and raced alongside on a quiet stretch of road you’re going to see a female at the wheel of that other car.

So when a guy takes a woman on a date he should drive, that way they’re both safe.

Of course I’m leaving out some personal history of my own driving… Let’s just say I might be the exception to this dating and driving rule.

To enhance your online dating profile try this headline:
“I believe in equality except for… (add here something odd like “shoe sizes”)”.

Have a great day!

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