When the Honeymoon Ends: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Wednesday
So I was watching TMZ the other day and the subject of honeymoons came up, more specifically, when is the honeymoon period over.
One of the guys in the staff said it was when the first year has passed, that’s when the honeymoon is over.
I know that isn’t true, because it’sa 10 years later and I still feel giddy when my wife snuggles up to me. But, of course, there have been signs that the honeymoon could be over and I’ll share some of them with you now:
- When she farts in the same room as you. Seriously, love on one hand, fart on the other, it just doesn’t work.
- When sharing food ends. It’s all cute and lovey-dovey to eat off of each other’s plate but when it’s the last slice of yesterday’s pizza, look out.
- When you start finishing each other’s sentences with “I told you so”.
- When the question “Are you coming to bed?” is no longer an invitation for sex.
- When she sits down and watches sports with you but always picks the opposing team.
Well, I’m likely in enough trouble now as ever, so I’ll finish up with my suggestion for your dating profile headline:
“Dating is only fun when you find the right one!”
Have a great day!
Superhero: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Remember when you were super...
Wasn’t it greaty when you were young and you just knew that you had a superhero power waiting to be revealed?
Then you got older and the dreams of youth faded, in time, to the realities of life.
But, I offer to you, aren’t the realities of life imposed by society and popular culture? Do we really lose our innocence, our superhero powers, to time?
I give you this day to again believe in your personal dream of having a superhero power. For today you can call me “Time King”, a superhero that can stop time and change the outcome of any event for the better.
It’s only adream if we keep it there.
For your dating profile headline today I suggest this:
“My dreams have not outlived me.”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Do you seek the future?
The world is at your feet so where do you want to be?
You have complete power over your future, what will you choose?
If I give you immense riches who will you help?
We all seek control over our destiny but refuse to move forward with the right choices for a better life.
You want more money then get a better job. Nothing in your career track, then get more education.
Want a girlfriend or boyfriend? What are you willing to do to improve yourself?
You carry your life on your shulders, is it a blessing or a curse?
Today’s headline should give anyone pause when they read it, making you stand out above the crowd, good luck!
“If I could be anyone who would I be?”
Have a great day!
Headlines: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Wednesday
I’ve been hanging out a lot at www.Perfectmatch.com to see what changes, if any, they’ve made since my last really good look at the service.
I have to admit, with one exception, I do like what I see there.
The drawback I find is that they actually don’t have a headline to lead off your dating profile. In the thousands of online dating services that I have visited (some removed, many just avoided speaking ill of) I can’t ever think of one that didn’t put your headline front and center.
At Perfectmatch.com your headline is hidden on a tab called “In my own words”, so if you’re looking for a place to write in one of my headline suggestions, then that’s the place.
My dating profile headline suggestion for you, in my own words, is this:
” I’ll be here, will you be joining me? “
Have a great day!
Do You Believe In Magic?: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Wednesday
Do you believe in magic?
Not the witches and warlocks type, but the very entertaining stage type of music?
I think that when we can enjoy something that seems unbelievable, when we can suspend logic for a few moments and be enjoyed with a man walking through walls, a woman being cut in half and all the other astonishing magic tricks, that we have truly comfortable moments inside our ow skins.
Magic gives us pause from the ordinary and introduces us to the extraordinary, where we are a part of the magic but not it’s center of attention.
We can turn to the people around us and wonder how the trick was done, we can share something within our seatmates and not be subject to personal appearance or personality rules because those have been suspended along with our logic, at least temporarily.
It’s this state of freedom you need to have when talking with new people you meet. Freedom from what would normally hold you back from speaking, freedom from your usual inhibitions and self-consciousness.
When you introduce yourself to new people today, ask them what their favorite magic trick is and find that common ground to be a part of within the small group you find yourself within.
For your headline today I suggest:
“Do you believe in magic?”
Have a great day!
Love Will Come Again: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Wednesday
There is this thing that we chase. It is not catchable and yet so many people talk about finding it, having it and understanding it.
Even the understanding part is not truthful because any two people that say they do understand it will have completely different “understandings” of this thing (and usually they have written or book, or many books, all describing it differently).
The thing, of course, is love. Most people don’t even know they have it until it’s gone, but that’s ok, life is a learning experience. No matter your stage in life, love can be found again.
And this brings us to today’s dating profile headline, my very special promise to you:
“Love will come again, are you knocking?”
Have a great day!
Life: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Wednesday
As a writer I sometimes feel constricted by the curse of the blinking cursor. It’s waiting to be transformed into letters and sentences. Cohesive thoughts evade the cursor but become sentences as if to evade the blankness of the continued blinking.
Then I walk away and see what’s on television or rising the popularity charts of youtube and other video sites.
Everyone needs a break sometimes.
Sometimes we decide when the break is taken and other times the break time is decided for us. It’s called life, right?
It is life that we struggle to make into a documented event, so that we are remembered later in life. The break you take in the life you have should be with the intention of planning your successful next step.
Don’t waste your breaks.
For your personal ad headline today this is what I suggest for you:
“Can we find out if our life’s priorities match?”
Have a great day!
For Something Good: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

I love writing love notes
We’re all looking to have a few extra dollars in our pockets.
There are two real ways to make more money appear in your pocket:
- get another job
- spend less
Of course the moment you tell someone you’d like to make more money all the weasels appear touting the latest and greatest money making schemes. Avoid those people like a tsunami.
You need to plan your own future, no one is going to make you richer or more successful (unless they’re called ‘mommy or ‘daddy’), this is your life to live and no one else’s.
It’s also your life to fail at, and you know what they say, “Those that fail to plan, plan to fail”.
We will all make our mark on this world and on those around us, your singular aim is to be remembered (today, tomorrow, in 25 years) and to be worthy of being remembered.
For something good.
If you need a push in the right direction feel free to ask me.
What I’d really like to do though, is to help you find someone that will want to be more involved in your life than I ever will be. Your online dating profile is a step in the right direction. Using today’s recommended headline is another step, so post this:
“I love writing love notes, will you love receiving them?”
Have a great day!
It’s Up To Fate: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Wednesday
Do you believe that the “vibes” someone sends out can be an attractive or negative part of the primal communication we still have from our ancestors (usually called body language)?
Sure you do, it’s a basic instinct that’s very hard to override or ignore.
Online dating doesn’t have that obstacle with our communications, other than “reading between the lines” and deciding that someone is likely lying about themselves in their profile.
How often do you read a profile and automatically decide that person isn’t for you?
I suggest to you that you give these types of people the benefit of the doubt and offer at least a short “Hello” letter to get a better feeling if they are really not for you.
Sometimes it is true that “opposites attract” and if you’re quickly saying no to someone without regard of even a short note, how will you know if you’re right?
Online dating services all use a variety of ways to connect you with the “right match” but it’s true that if the right person is found on one service you’re likley to not find them on a second service that they also belong to. There are different variables at work, just like in real life, and making that connection isn’t always up to you, it’s more up to fate but you can give fate a nudge easily with just one message.
I’m going to boldly say that you are in the right place, it is the right time, so give fate a nudge.
You’re dating headline for today is this (many thanks to Elvis Costello!):
“My aim is true.”
Have a great day!
This video is the song “Alison” by Elvis Costello, live. If you get the opportunity add this song to your collection of love ballads. (You do have such a collection, don’t you?)
Actively Single: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Wednesday
When you wake and look forward to your day ahead do you let the little, possibly bad, things affect your mood for the entire day?
We all have challenges that present themselves and it’s how we handle the “bumps in the road” that form a part of our defining personality.
When you’re at work, managing through your day (even if unemployed) how different is your work personality, in front of your “work family”, from what your personality, and words/actions, than when at home, with your real family?
If you can see how differently we interact with people through our work day than at home, do you believe that if you reveresed these “personalities” your home life would be significantly imptroved?
As you continue your online dating adventure, now would your profile chnage if you exerted your work personality more into your profile? Would there be an improvement?
Today, for your headline, I’d like you to search for someone like you at your favorite online dating service. The same age, sex and general location.
What do these profile search results tell you about people that are your age, in your area, that are single and looking?
Carefully review those resultys and decide how that would change my killer/awesome headline suggestion for you today:
“Today is when all good people should meet.”




