Karma and Love: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Karma and Love
Today is a “new romance for you” day. I want you to be prepared because someone you meet today, or “spy with your little eye” is going to be the next major love of your life.
You will see him or her and say to them “I really like that ***(outfit, shirt, shoes, something they did), can we go out and have a coffee later (after work, at break, at a specific time)?”
It is that simple to meet the next major love of your life. Taking matters in your own hands, karma brought the person near you, it’s up to you to take these nexr steps I’ve just told you about.
Do it!
The thing about love is that very rarely is it “scripted” into our lives. We have to go and get love, not wait for love to drop into our lives with a big “love” sign attached to their foreheads.
For today’s headline I offer this to you:
“If it feels like love, then it is! Your turn to take the next step!”
Have a great day!
Love in Your Life: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Wednesday
Do you wander through life waiting for an angel to drop on your shoulder and make life more exciting for you?
Or do you seek adventure do you make things happen in your life that gives your existence meaning?
Will you walk off this old soil and enter Valhalla knowing you have lived a life of enrichment and be rewarded for your service to those around you and those you love?
Do you have love in your life?
These are tough questions that we all will face at one point in our lives, whether at a time of inward reflection or a time of crisis. I can’t help you with any of the answers but I can help to point you in the direction of the knowledge you seek; you can only make this discovery on your own, no one can make it for you.
Do you rely too much on the advice of others for the direction your life takes? Can others be trusted to be looking out for your own best interests?
When you begin to answer the questions above you begin to take stock of the importance of direction and people in your life. Many people reading this blog will not answer the questions because they are not yet ready to admit to themselves that they will not live forever. It is often hard to admit that are lifetimes are finite.
Do you have love in your life that will sustain you?
At times of personal reflection I believe that my 12 years of this website have been put to good use. I am certain that there have been many thousands of people that have made dramatic chnages to their lives because of their use of the information I have written over the years. Will you also take a part of the knowledge here with you to improve your lot in life? I believe that you will, if only a very small part.
For your dating ad headline today let’s not be too hard on those that will cross it, but let’s be plain in our language of attraction:
“There is just one thing missing from my happy life: You.”
Have a great day!
Funny Headline: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
They do what to parrots?
“Because I like it!”
How often have you used that excuse for a behavior of your’s that someone points out to you? I’m betting not as often as it’s assumed by the people that show write funny movies. But I bet that if you popped that sentence in every once in a while your conversations are going to seem to have a lot more fun in them. Go ahead, try it today and let me know how it works out for you.
Funny is always attractive but it has to be entertaining funny not malicious funny. How to tell the two apart? If it’s only funny to you, it’s likely to be malicious funny.
Funny headlines always help your dating profile to stand out. You can only read so many “Moonlit walk on the beach” style headlines before you realize that it’s just not possible for so many people to live on the beach. Someone’s lying.
For your funny headline today this is what I suggest (feel free to modify it if you prefer):
“Why do they circumsize parrots in zoos?”
Let me know how your responses turn out. Have a great day!
Stuck in an Elevator: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Elevator conversations
Online dating: 1 in 5 relationships start with an online introduction. This statstistic is provided by Match.com and I believe that it’s true because I did a quick poll of my friends and they admit using online sites to meet people to date.
Now, if you’ve started online dating already hopefully uoui’ve figured out how to make it work best for you.
If this is the time that you’ve decided to start with online dating, well, congratulations on entering the computer world, LOL.
The secret to making online dating an effective way to meet people isn’t to just jump in and hope for the best, it’s about taking slow positive steps to make sure your personal goals (as online dating is concerned) are met.
Let’s start with your profile: Talk about yourself in the first person and only write what you are comfortable with sharing information about yourself that you’d say to someone if you were stuck in an elevator with an attractive stranger for an hour or so.
Now, your profile picture: Many people think that it’s Ok to use just any picture that’s handy, that was taken from an event of happiness. Often they overlook the fact that there are others in the picture (or even other people’s arms, heads, etc.) or that the situation of the picture may not well explain your personality. Be sure to select an enviroment-neutral picture and if this is going to be your main profile picture use cropping tools to cut the picture to being just a head and shoulders image of yourself. A picture that has too much going on in it is great for your photo gallery where you can caption and describe the events in the photo but it’s not suitable for the first picture someone will see of you. Keep that in mind.
Your personal ad headline: This should reflect your personality, or more immediately the emotion you have for the moment you write your headline. Keep it fresh and make it attention getting because often this headline, combined with your main profile picture, is the first impression you’re going to make with these strangers you want to meet.
I offer you a fresh headline to use every day but you should only chnage your headline maybe a couple of times a week. Some dating services put your profile under review each time you make changes so you don’t want to be out of the browse/search results too often. Check the FAQ for the dating service you use for the particulars of their profile and picture review system.
Today I suggest this headline for you:
“If we were stuck in an elevator what would we talk about?”
Have a great day!
Changes: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Time for changes to your strategies?
Tell me honestly, does all this “fat people” controversy reach you? I mean, with so many heavy people in our part of the world has this news made you change the way you eat? Do you opt for smaller portions when you go out to eat or do you get as much on your plate, or in the takeout bag, as you possibly can?
Personally, I’m fighting the middle-age-spread. All of a sudden my waist has swollen up but when I look back my eating habits haven’t really changed. I’ve just been working at a new job for the last 18 months where I sit all day, rather than my previous retail job that had me on my feet for 8 hours.
Does this mean I need a diet (no more food-truck foods) or just more exercise. Or both? Obviously I need to talk to a professional first. I’ll make a doctor’s appointment and let him guide me into the first steps, before I change my diet. And I’m sure that once the weather warms up going for a walk wouldn’t be such a bad idea either.
I think the point I’m trying to make is that you should seek professional opinion before you make major changes to your life.
In the dating arena I have two great people ready to offer you very sound advice for the time when you decide that a change has to be made to your dating and relationship strategies.
For men, please meet David Deangelo.
For women, please meet Christian Carter.
These two men are quite well known for offering sage advice about dating and relationships and if you find yourself unsure, then lean on one of them for professional help.
Today’s headline for your online dating profile is this:
“The first step is always the most nervous one.”
Have a great day!
Traction: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Today is important!
Traction is what we need in life.
A good grip on the ground around us and the power to consistently move forward.
Anyone can give you a push but you alone have the power to continue through life and love; to pursue and enjoy; to achieve and celebrate.
If for nothing else this second month of the year, when new Year resolutions are cast aside, you should prepare yourself for reaching the real goals that may be holding you back from enjoying the life you feel you deserve.
Write down your top three goals and tape them to your bathroom mirror and every morning read them and decide which will be the number one goal for your day. And run towards tat goal, towards the light at then end of the tunnel.
Decide today, decide now, what is most important to you. And go!
Today’s headline suggestion is this:
“I’d like you to be part of what is most important to me.”
Have a great day!
Physical Love: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Changing the physicalness
Is someone’s facial imperfection (wart, mole, scar) enough to make you not want to date them?
And what if you met them through an online dating service first and shared that “instant connection” before meeting them in person?
Does that change anything or do you still run?
One of the real advantages of online dating (and the one that eharmony promotes above all others) is that you can make that connection before the physical appearance get’s in the way of real love. We’ve all suffered through physical love, the lust and desire and eventual loss, and keep looking for the spiritual and soulful love that separates us from the monkeys that we hope to find just once in our lives.
Just thinking…
Today’s headline for you is:
“I’ve never been in that area, tell me about it.”
Have a great day!
PS. Craig Ferguson says “CBS stands for ‘Coke, booze and sluts’… hehe, you gotta like a guy that can keep slamming the people that sign his paycheck. Maybe the Teamsters negotiated his contract.
PPS. Mark Zuckerberg’s Facebook page hacked… seriously. I guess a few billion doesn’t buy the same security it used to. See image of hacked page at Techcrunch.
Hump Day’s Motivational Picture
There is something about a beautiful woman soaking up the sun poolside, that takes me to a different place, away from the cold, snow and slush. So I introduce to you Kate Beckinsale, beauty by the pool.
Blue Monday: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Wednesday
If I had a million dollars… well, I’d be writing this from a much warmer and sunnier place. (Yes, I know it’s Wednesday and it says Monday in the above title. Just so you know.)
Next Monday is “Blue Monday”, supposedly the most depressing day of the year. I can’t believe it’s not today but I guess it’s just the slide downwards to Monday. Blue Monday.
The cheerful side of January is online dating, of course.
Meeting new people, seeing new faces. the new Year is very good for those that are active with their chosen dating service and completed profiles.
No one wants to click into a profile and see pretty much nothing written down. So, before you criticize someone else, make sure that you’ve completed as much of your own profile as you’re comfortable with.
And don’t criticize too much, everyone has a different level of comfort when it comes to revealing personal details to people you haven’t met yet and may never meet.
Get a head start on happiness and use this suggestion as your headline:
“Nobody deserves sadness… Let’s share some happiness.”
Have a great day!
Hope and Love: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Hope and Love
“You have every right to your emotions and how you feel. You do not have the right to force me to share these things.” – Have you had this fight with a previous partner?
We all have “depth of perception” differences that takes us from being a committed partner to a scapegoat and beating bag for another person’s emotional ride.
Running from danger is something we are all taught at an early age. Running from danger beset upon us by someone we love is not.
I have hope for love, that the person you seek (yes, even meeting someone using an online dating service) will not only fulfill the need you (and all of us) have to be loved but will love you without making you a crutch to support their anger at their own mistakes made far before you met.
Every day brings us a new journey into the unknown. A new day has all the promise, and little of the hangover, that we bring into it.
Take a chance with me and ride into today with a song in your heart and a smile on your face. Hope is eternal.
Share your love of life and it that happiness provides by using this headline today:
“Hope and love is eternal. You might even meet me today!”
Have a great day!
Baby Steps: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Wednesday
Have you lost the hope you thought you had about being single, finding love and being loved?
While hope may be eternal, the loneliness feels as though it will never go away. A stone on your heart, so to speak.
It is time to break the stone and lift the veil that hides your heart. We will start today at bringing light, and happiness, into your life. No matter what your past issues were, we can start again anew. There is always hope.
You have the power to make the changes needed to bring real change to your life, all it takes is a baby step today and another baby step tomorrow, and repeat until your goal is met.
Today you will join a popular online dating service and start moving forward with your life. A baby step. Read over the dating service’s questions, you don’t have to answer all of them, or any of them, yet. A baby step.
Tomorrow, you can answer the questions you’re comfortable with and use one of the hundreds of profile headlines I have posted over the years to this blog. A baby step.
Of course, should you feel the inspiration and get farther along today than expected, feel free to use this headline with your online dating profile:
“I prefer to go slowly, taking baby steps.”
Have a great day!
Fun Dates: Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Pasta dinner for two.
Fun is defined by the person that is having it.
For instance, if you’re with someone and you know that a roller-coaster is fun, so you convince the other person to go on the roller-coaster too, but they don’t have fun, right there we have two differing ideas of what fun it. The person that had fun on the ride is certainly in a different place after the ride and the person that didn’t think the roller-coaster ride was fun, well, there in an entirely different place too, aren’t they?
Fun is simply a word that is associated with what YOU like and not necessarily someone else. This is a straight fact that can make your “date location decision” a whole lot harder.
The basics of a fun first date are:
- You must communicate with each other as a natural part of the date (the opposite would be being at a movie theater watching a movie, in the dark, where talking if frowned upon).
- Should be interactive between the two of you. Examples would be bowling, cooking class, mini-golf, etc. Going to a Red Cross CPR class is not a good first date, but maybe an activity 6 weeks down the road of the dating relationship.
Remember: communication and activity.
For today’s fun dating ad headline suggestion I suggest this:
“I would love to learn to cook Italian food. Are you with me?”
Have a great day!
Zoosk.com Commercial Banned in Europe for being “Too violent”.
