WHAT WE FOUND: We like xlonely, the fast signup, the comprehensive profile questionnaire to successfully match you and the features that add a lot to the online dating scene including video messages and the ability to have messages and alerts sent to your mobile phone for free (check your mobile phone plan for possible charges before you add this feature to your profile). Free members can complete their profile, receive SMS messages to their phone, search and browse other members and send cards to let other members know you’re interested. The Xlonely.com search and match systems are actually 6 different profile questionnaires you need to fill out: SelectMatch, SoulMatch, SensualMatch, StarSignMatch and SuperMatch. Yopu’ll have fun filling out these areas of your profile and seeing the different possible matches there are. With millions of members xlonely.com provides a lot of satisfactory member matches with each of the questionnaire and profile search areas. We really like the “MyCrowd” page layout that gives you all the info on how you’ve been using your profile and who has come top read your profile, listen to your audio messages, who has seen your video messages and more. The “Chatterbox” chat room is always active but available to upgraded (gold and platinum) members as is contacting other members and replying to messages. It is free to send simple introduction cards and messages so there is a lot of fun things to do here. Overall, this is one of the best online dating sites we’ve reviewed in a while that includes so many ways to connect and even help for you personally (see premium access to psychologist feature).

WHAT YOU'LL FIND: Join for free and send cards and messages for free, become an upgraded member to reply and send full messages. Free to browse, several methods of matching members, SMS text message option. The service is available in 5 languages, English, Italian, German, Spanish and Chinese. Message options include video, voice, chatroom has webcam and voice options. Free trial period lasts as long as you want, upgrade for full membership capabilities. Straight members only.