there's one month that's great for hitting on beautiful babes, it's
December. Think about it: cold weather designed for snuggling and
intimacy, the festive holiday season, the romance involved in
sharing Christmas and New Year's together. What woman WOULDN'T want
to have a guy by her side during the holidays?!? It's the "Love
Actually" lesson--everyone wants to be with someone come the
So it's up to you to take advantage of this special time. Use the
following 5 techniques to find your dream girl NOW. You may just
have a Merry Christmas...AND a happy New Year...
1. Throw a Holiday Party.
This is a great way of attracting women. If there's one
thing that gets women emotionally and physically excited during the
season of good cheer, it's a man who surrounds himself with people
during a festive time. It gives them the security that this man will
show them a good time, and surround her with people so that she's
never alone. An important lesson to remember with women: They need
to have a man for special times like Christmas. No woman wants to be
alone, so by asserting yourself as the man who has lots of people
around him, you automatically establish yourself as a desirable
candidate. They automatically associate the positive vibes from the
holiday season with YOU, and from there anything can happen.
So invite everyone you can think of--your friends, family,
co-workers, acquaintances--to a holiday get-together. Play some
festive holiday music, have some holiday treats ready (cookies,
eggnog, candy canes, etc.), and even dress up as Santa. Have a
"Naughty" and "Nice" list, and promise the girls a good spanking if
they're naughty. Women LOVE this. If things go well, you may even
have the girls in "Santa's Private Sleigh."
2. Ask Her If She's Been Naughty or Nice (and Other Teases).
Continuing from the previous tip, make the most of the
whole "naughty or nice" gimmick. Women LOVE a man who will excite
them emotionally, who won't slave over them but present HIMSELF as
the judge of whether she's suitable. Make it a big game: If she's
too nice, she's boring and can't have you--unless she "tones up" her
act. If she's too naughty, then she needs to be meted out
punishment--and you'll be the one to give it to her (subtly
excluding all the other guys as the party, and making THEM look too
nice). Either way, you come out a winner. This is my favorite
technique for finding love, and it works because teasing is a
technique that is great for attracting women--a lesson I go into
heavy detail in in my online course.
3. Spread Some Holiday Cheer on the Dance Floor.
Teasing is a great way to show you don't take girls too
seriously. Dancing is a great way of showing you don't take life too
seriously. Even if you suck at dancing, the fact that you go out
there and have a good time will impress women big-time. They love a
man who can have fun and enjoy the holiday season. Going out there
and having the time of your life dancing shows a woman that you will
show her a good time during the cheery season. And in the end,
that's what they really want. So have fun, loosen up, and ask a
woman to dance. If she sees you're having a good time, believe me,
she'll want to join you--in more ways than one. Seriously!
4. Talk to Miss Lonely.
While at any party--your own, a work party, a club-hosted
holiday party, whatever--be sure to take advantage of my old "Love
Actually" lesson: NOBODY wants to be alone during the holidays! So
if you see a girl standing/sitting by herself or looking miserable
at a holiday party, be the "knight in shining armor" who goes up to
her and cheers her up. Tell her a joke, comment on the party, even
tease her with "C'mon, it's the Christmas season, you can't possibly
be sitting here all by yourself!" Women love a man who cheers them
up, and if you can take her from a negative state of mind to a
positive one, believe me, she won't forget that. Just be the man who
lifts her mood, and you'll be sure to see her again.
5. Use the Mistletoe/Midnight!
Finally, never underestimate the power of the mistletoe
and the strike of midnight on New Year's. Both are amazing props for
setting up a first kiss; nothing compares. They work especially well
with women you've had at least a few minutes of quality chat with.
You won't want to use it right away--build up the suspense for an
especially good kiss--but once you sense things are going well,
"conveniently" position yourselves under the Mistletoe. Don't even
hide the fact that it's an obvious ploy; play it up: "WOW, we've
somehow managed to land ourselves under the mistletoe. How did THAT
happen?" Believe me, if you add enough humor and charm--and you
don't need a lot--then women will be glad to comply.
The same goes with the strike of midnight on New Year's Eve. I met
my present girlfriend two years ago on New Year's Eve, using this
very technique. We had talked for hours that day, but once 11 pm
hit, I unabashedly told her, "Can I tell you a secret?" As women
LOVE secrets, she enthusiastically responded "Yes!" So I told her,
"It's only one hour til midnight, and I have no one to kiss. I'm
thinking you can help me out..." This of course made her laugh, but
more importantly gave her an "excuse" to want to kiss me on New
Year's. By playing sly and making it KNOWN that I wanted to kiss
her, I gained her respect and, even better, her assent to a great
New Year's Kiss. You can do the same, just by presenting your find
with your "problem" and asking HER to be a part of the solution. As
long as you keep your cool and say it with a grin, she'll be more
than happy to help you with your "problem." And hopefully give you a
VERY happy New Year!
Congratulations! You're on your way to a great holiday season.
Remember these five tips:
Throw a holiday party
Ask her if she's been naughty or nice (and other teasing)
Spread Holiday Cheer on the Dance Floor
Talk to Miss Lonely
Take advantage of the Mistletoe and New Year's Midnight
and you're bound to have a great holiday season. Have fun, and good
And don't forget, if you want to learn more about making yourself
unforgettable to women during the holidays or the rest of the year,
visit my website at
"How to Be Irresistible to Women."
Now it's YOUR turn!
Author of "How to Be Irresistible to Women"