 Bridges: How To Go
From One Step To The Next ... From The First Meeting To The Bedroom
This is an
excerpt from the free ebook "Bridges: How To Go From One Step To The Next
... From The First Meeting To The Bedroom", it's included with your purchase
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Double Your Dating ebook.
When I first started learning about how to meet women, I realized that there
were some major 'problem areas' that I had to deal with. After learning how
to handle them myself, I realized that almost ALL men have these same
stumbling blocks. Here I hope to help you see these areas and improve the
ones that you need help with. To begin with, let me explain what I mean by a
'Critical Moment.' These are the moments in time where you have to do
something to advance to the next level. For instance: If you're with a woman
and you're having a great conversation, you might want to take the
relationship to a physical level. Most men I know are not sure how to
'transition' into this next phase. Or let's say you see a woman that you'd
like to meet, and you have to decided whether or not you're going to walk
over and say hello. This is a critical moment. If you don't do it, you
probably won't get another chance. I know one guy who meets a lot of women.
Women really
seem to like him when they first meet him. He can get dates, and get them to
come home with him. But every time he tries to get physical with a woman,
she decides that it's time to leave.
I know
another guy who meets women everywhere we go. Women just love him. They
laugh and joke with him. But he never asks any of them for their phone
number, so he doesn't date any of them. The problem with Critical Moments is
that they almost ALWAYS require the man to take initiative and do something
that can be REJECTED by the woman. For instance, walking up and saying
hello, asking for a date, kissing her, etc.
In all of these situations, a man has to go through the possibility of
rejection. This keeps most men from even trying. And most guys have at least
one or two areas that they're not confident about. If you're not confident
and know exactly where you're going and what you're doing, you're going to
be likely to make a mistake, say something wrong, and cause the woman to
reject you at one of these important turning points.
The danger,
of course, is that if a man makes a mistake at one of these key times that
offends the woman, she may decide to leave. Every new relationship is like a
complex puzzle. You can make it through many steps, then make a mistake and
have it all fall apart. Are you with me?
Here's my
list of the Critical Moments:
1. Approach (Walking over and saying hello)
2. Digits (Getting a phone number, email address, etc.)
3. Date request (This can actually be done when you first meet)
4. Date (The actual time with her)
5. Hold hands (The first sustained physical contact)
6. Kiss (The first 'intimate' contact)
7. Alone in private (Trust)
8. Make out (Sexually aroused)
9. Clothes off (Very sexually aroused)
10. Sex (Very very very sexually aroused!)
As far as I'm
concerned, if a person needs improvement in an area of life, they usually
need to learn a new SKILL. Too many people make the mistake of thinking that
something's wrong with them, and that they'll never be able to overcome
their obstacle. Just remember, it's all about learning a new skill to
overcome each obstacle.
END EXCERPT
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