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Double Your Dating eBookBridges: How To Go From One Step To The Next ... From The First Meeting To The Bedroom

This is an excerpt from the free ebook "Bridges: How To Go From One Step To The Next ... From The First Meeting To The Bedroom", it's included with your purchase (along with 2 other ebooks) of the Double Your Dating ebook.

When I first started learning about how to meet women, I realized that there were some major 'problem areas' that I had to deal with. After learning how to handle them myself, I realized that almost ALL men have these same stumbling blocks. Here I hope to help you see these areas and improve the ones that you need help with. To begin with, let me explain what I mean by a 'Critical Moment.' These are the moments in time where you have to do something to advance to the next level. For instance: If you're with a woman and you're having a great conversation, you might want to take the relationship to a physical level. Most men I know are not sure how to 'transition' into this next phase. Or let's say you see a woman that you'd like to meet, and you have to decided whether or not you're going to walk over and say hello. This is a critical moment. If you don't do it, you probably won't get another chance. I know one guy who meets a lot of women.

Women really seem to like him when they first meet him. He can get dates, and get them to come home with him. But every time he tries to get physical with a woman, she decides that it's time to leave.

I know another guy who meets women everywhere we go. Women just love him. They laugh and joke with him. But he never asks any of them for their phone number, so he doesn't date any of them. The problem with Critical Moments is that they almost ALWAYS require the man to take initiative and do something that can be REJECTED by the woman. For instance, walking up and saying hello, asking for a date, kissing her, etc.

In all of these situations, a man has to go through the possibility of rejection. This keeps most men from even trying. And most guys have at least one or two areas that they're not confident about. If you're not confident and know exactly where you're going and what you're doing, you're going to be likely to make a mistake, say something wrong, and cause the woman to reject you at one of these important turning points.

The danger, of course, is that if a man makes a mistake at one of these key times that offends the woman, she may decide to leave. Every new relationship is like a complex puzzle. You can make it through many steps, then make a mistake and have it all fall apart. Are you with me?

Here's my list of the Critical Moments:
1. Approach (Walking over and saying hello)
2. Digits (Getting a phone number, email address, etc.)
3. Date request (This can actually be done when you first meet)
4. Date (The actual time with her)
5. Hold hands (The first sustained physical contact)
6. Kiss (The first 'intimate' contact)
7. Alone in private (Trust)
8. Make out (Sexually aroused)
9. Clothes off (Very sexually aroused)
10. Sex (Very very very sexually aroused!)

As far as I'm concerned, if a person needs improvement in an area of life, they usually need to learn a new SKILL. Too many people make the mistake of thinking that something's wrong with them, and that they'll never be able to overcome their obstacle. Just remember, it's all about learning a new skill to overcome each obstacle.


Now, this is just the tip of the iceberg, so to speak.

It's also important to learn how to improve your self image, overcome FEAR, maintain your physical composure, and communicate using your body language... so that you're successful in each situation with women.

You'll learn step-by-step techniques and systems that you won't find ANYWHERE else. I guarantee it. If you REALLY want to learn some powerful techniques for controlling your emotions around women, then this is the way to learn them.

And if you haven't read my online eBook "Double Your Dating", then you need to do that right now. You can download it and be reading it in just a few minutes from right now. It's here: - just follow the 'ebook' link and download your copy. This book and the three bonuses that come with it are the FOUNDATION for success with women. Everything you read in these articles will make more sense once you have read the book. Free weekly advice newsletter
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