This begs question: What sort of KNOWLEDGE
am I talking about? I am talking about knowing how to MAKE women see you
as the PRIZE. In my book I talk about several different ways of making
women see you as the PRIZE, one of which is the heart of what I want to
talk about in this newsletter: Cold reading.
Cold reading is telling a woman about herself without having ANY prior
knowledge about her. Do you have to be endowed with psychic powers to
cold read women? Heck no! If people needed to have psychic powers to
cold read, the psychic network would have gone out of business long ago.
The trick is to say something that is true about her, the situation, or
something she is doing; and then follow it up with something that could
be true about her.
Let’s look at an example. Imagine you are chatting with a woman who is
talking about living an exciting life but whose body language is
standoffish – she is, for example, leaning back and has her arms
crossed. You could say to her: “There are two types of people in this
world: actors and observers. Actors are people who are in the moment;
observers are people who are dissociated from the moment. You have your
arms crossed and you are leaning back, so, you are an observer. But I
bet there is a very adventurous side to you; a part of you that is
totally in the moment. And it is only when you are able to let go and be
in the moment completely that you are truly happy. I am adventurous and
like that you have an adventurous side too. But I am not sure the two of
us can hang out because I don’t know if you are adventurous enough for
me.”
On more than one occasion I have transformed the iciest women into warm
giggly little girls using something similar to the above. I have even
had a few situations where the woman reached over and started kissing
me.
There are many reasons why this type of cold reading builds PRIZABILITY,
three of which are:
1) When done successfully women will be brimming with intrigue about how
you were able to figure them out so quickly. They will anticipate other
things you know about them.
2) It creates rapport by making them feel that you know and understand
them (Those of you who own my book know that I consider “rapport” to be
a subset of PRIZABILITY).
3) It can be used as a meaning or attraction coup ( For those of you who
did not have a chance to read my last article, Turning Barriers Into
Benefits, meaning or attraction coups are when you do something to take
back control of the underlying meaning of the interaction. Women often
times view men who are able to “take back control” of the underlying
meaning of the interaction as having a lot of PRIZABILITY). So, for
example, when a woman is acting a bit cold or aloof towards you, she
might be conveying that she is not interested in you and that she is the
PRIZE. When you use a cold reading similar to the example I gave above
it acts as an attraction coup by redefining the underlying meaning as
her being the one who is trying to win you over – that you are the one
who is the PRIZE. This is a great way of segueing from demonstrating
PRIZABILITY to PRIZING her – making her chase you.
Well, my fingers are getting tired, so that’s it for now. If you are
interested in gaining power with women through cold reading, pick up a
copy of my book. My book is the only product currently available that
breaks down how to use cold reading to get women chasing you. My book,
also, is chock full of other methods – such as, story telling, frame
setting, attitude projection, Challenging & Qualifying, and Pushing &
Pulling to name a few – that will give you PRIZABILITY and power with
women. This is the most cutting edge dating advice available, so come
check it out:
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