Grocery
stores are great places to meet women – they gotta buy food, right?
And it offers a great opportunity for you to seem like a helpless
male who needs a little feminine wisdom to get him through.
Here’s the plan: Go up to a woman who’s browsing meat (or looking at
fruit or reading labels on laundry detergent or whatever). For
instance, if it’s meat, look over the meat, too, picking some up and
reading the labels then setting it back. Turn to her and say, “I’m
hopeless at this, I can never pick good steaks. It’s always too
tough or too fatty or just not fresh. Can you help me out?” Women
love giving advice, and you just gave her a golden opportunity she
can’t refuse. She’ll give some tips. Ask her questions, like what
color to look for, if you should buy leaner cuts, etc. When she’s
done and you’ve selected some steaks or a package of hamburger or
whatever, say, “Thanks so much, I really appreciate this. This may
be the first good meal I’ve had in ages. Let me repay you – let me
make you dinner. You already know I’ve got good steak.” She’ll be a
little taken by surprise, but very pleased with the attention. Say,
“By the way, I’m Doug. And what can I call you?” She may accept the
dinner invitation and if so, great, get the number and start
planning that menu! But since she doesn’t really know you well, she
may hesitate to go to your house for a meal.
So if she
seems a bit reluctant, say, “You know, I know you really don’t know
me and might be shy about coming to my place for dinner so soon. So
how about I take you out for a nice meal, and then you can see what
a harmless guy I am, and maybe later I’ll cook you that dinner. Come
on, you’ve got nothing to lose and you’ll gain a free dinner at the
restaurant of your choice. Besides, I owe you. Your advice has saved
me from a lifetime of eating bad cuts of meat. You’ve got to let me
pay you back.” She’ll be flattered and laughing at this point, and
most likely writing down those digits for you!
If you met talking over fruit or laundry detergent, you obviously
can’t offer to cook that up for her (well, you could, but you’ll
score crazy points instead of brownie points). But you can still
thank her and offer to pay her back by going for a cup of coffee or
dinner sometime. Play up how she’s saved you from wearing horribly
dingy clothes by helping with that detergent or saved you from
catching God knows what kind of rare tropical disease imparted by
eating squishy, bad fruit. Make a joke, get her laughing, and get
those digits! Supermarket scores are great, because women love it
when they think a man who was just minding his business, doing
shopping, saw her and was so taken that he couldn’t help but make a
move.
Female
vanity has its uses, fellas!
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