Over the past 20
years the face of dating has gone through some noticeable changes.
Traditional methods of finding a date would be to rely on friends to
play matchmaker or to attend bars, various different social events
and parties. We now rely on internet service providers to open the
doors for romance. Whether we like it or not, the internet has
changed our lives especially in the way we date and meet people.
Men and women have moved their search for love to the internet
simply because it is the most convenient in terms of time and money.
However, along with this convenience also comes risk. Sure it takes
the pressure off witty meaningful conversation, but how fun is that?
And how do you know if the person who you are speaking with via
“text messaging” actually looks like their picture or has all the
great characteristics that they say they do? You can’t read their
body language to determine if they are genuine, dull or most
importantly how they flirt, which is primarily the most important
interaction you share with someone you are interested in.
This is why in our striving to make things better; there is now a
combination of the traditional meets cutting edge. It’s called Speed
Dating; this concept takes the demand of our fast paced society and
still gives you the opportunity to meet someone face to face. It’s a
very good way of meeting a large number of people in a fun
environment and in a condensed period of time. Speed dating may be
the new way to meet but after the first date, you must use
traditional dating methods to make sure that your relationship
grows.
Attending Singles parties in the past was deemed as an act of
disparity but now they are becoming less and less unconventional.
These parties are growing in popularity simply because we like to
connect with people. Nothing beats a cheerful conversation and there
is no better way of learning about someone than looking them in the
eye and asking them a question.
The one mistake people make is that they want perfect…and they want
it fast. The only way to find your perfect fit is to take the time
and put your self out there as much as possible. Many people will go
to a bar and stand around waiting to be approached, or take in
enough liquid courage so that they can do the approaching…. bit of a
hint…no one finds drunken people attractive.
Singles parties and speed dating events are for those people who are
sick of standing around bars getting no where and for people who
want to get to know a person face to face. Every person who comes
out to a Single in the City.ca event is there for the same reason,
to meet new people for friendship or perhaps a future relationship.
At these events you have eliminated 3 potential risks: Are they
single? Are they looking to have a conversation? And Are they open
to meeting me? It is not to say that you NEED to come to these
events to meet someone, it is just simply the smartest way of doing
so.
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Author Info:
Singleinthecity.ca is a leading Singles Organization that provides
Speed dating, Singles Events and Matchmaking to singles in Toronto and
neighbouring cities in Southern Ontario. Visit
www.singleinthecity.ca
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Author Info:
Singleinthecity.ca is a leading Singles Organization that
provides Speed dating, Singles Events and Matchmaking to singles in
Toronto and neighbouring cities in Southern Ontario. Visit
www.singleinthecity.ca
This work is copyrighted by the author. No
unauthorized duplication or presentation allowed. Copyright © 2004
Melissa SeifertAll Rights Reserved Reprinted With Permission
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