A fast suggestion can lead to lots of fun with introductions...
I'm a good looking guy but quite shy around the ladies. Once the ice is broken I'm usually OK is talking, but getting up to the plate is my downfall. I just can't get started talking with girls. Getting an interesting conversation with women started is near impossible.
Can you help me? - MB
We've all been there. Until your confidence is up, you're always going to have these 'starting gate' doubts about yourself.
You need to remember two things:
1. Conversation is an art that needs to be practiced
2. She's likely just as nervous as you are
So don't be afraid to introduce yourself, don't be afraid to be told to 'buzz off' or worse.
It'll happen and really, it isn't personal. So don't fight it.
That being said, here are the best five introduction lines you'll ever need to know. Memorize them. Use them. Don't lose them.
- Hi, your girlfriend is cute, what's her name. Can you introduce me?
- Did you catch the end of (that show) last night?
- I just heard you're on the planning committee for the rest of my night. What's next?
- We're playing a game over there, can you name three things you can't do without? (If you're not on the list you're in!)
- Hi, what's your name?
recently discovered a great book called "Double Your Dating" by David
DeAngelo. In my opinion, it's the best place for a guy to start who wants
to become more successful with women and dating. I'm really excited about
it, because these days it's definitely not easy for a guy to find dating
advice that works.
So what makes this book different than everything else out there?
Well, mainly David DeAngelo himself.
You see, David D. is a smart, educated regular guy. A regular guy who for the longest time, like so many others, couldn't figure out why he didn't have the success with women he wanted.
Several years ago, he made the decision in his life to do whatever it takes to get this whole "dating" thing down, no matter what the cost.
David read everything he could find about women and dating, and was disappointed to discover that for the most part, there was no quality information available for guys like him who wanted to learn.
Frustrated but determined, David decided to go straight to the source. Not to the women themselves… After hearing so many women say they wanted a "nice guy", then turn around and complain about their jerk boyfriends (who they had obviously chosen over many nice guys like him), he was convinced that even women themselves weren't exactly sure of what they wanted in a man.
David sought out the few guys he knew who were unbelievably successful with women. You know, the guys in high school that you never stopped hearing about. He asked around and found more and more of these naturals, and sat down and picked their brains for every last piece of information he could dig up.
He was surprised to find that many of these guys weren't rich or handsome. In fact, several of them were down right broke and ugly! But they definitely had some kind of "power" that other guys didn't, and after hanging out with these guys for a while, David started to figure out exactly what it was.
It took some time, but before long David himself was getting women like
crazy. His friends begged him to let them in on his secret… And sure
enough… It worked for them too! David had put together a complete system
for meeting and dating women that any guy could use. They convinced him
that he had to write a book, and soon "Double Your Dating" was born.
In his book, David explains his step-by-step process for meeting and attracting women. Once you know it and master it, you can attract any woman you want, any time you want. And you don't have to be rich or handsome to do it.
David has finally unraveled the "bad boy" mystery and explains exactly why some guys "get all the chicks". More importantly, he explains how to develop the traits in yourself that drive women wild, and why you don't have to be a bad boy or a jerk to be successful with women.
There are simple things that you can do to separate yourself from 99% of the other guys out there, and David spells them out for you in plain English. He covers specific strategies and techniques for starting conversations with women, getting their phone numbers and email addresses, inexpensive and cheap date ideas, and how to take things to a "physical" level smoothly and easily.
The techniques in the book are practical and easy to use. There is nothing you will have to memorize or study. You can start using what you learn right away.
I really cannot recommend this book enough. "Double Your Dating" is an absolute must read for any man, no matter where you're at in the dating game.
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