 Smile,
Eye Contact and More Body Language Tips
Body language is VERY important.
According to studies carried out over 50% of your communication
comes from your body language – what you DON’T say and less then 8%
of your communication comes from what you DO say.
What does this mean to you?
It is MORE important to pay careful attention to HOW you say things,
and HOW you stand and HOW you act than it is to WHAT you say (at
least initially).
You see, you could have the BEST game in the world and be able to
really get any woman to like you loads, for example online, but if
you used those same successful techniques in the real world and
lacked obvious confidence, lacked eye contact etc – You would simply
CRASH and BURN.
Honestly, body language is SOOOO important in attracting women.
Later in the course we’ll go into how you can use the female’s body
language to READ her mind and know what she’s thinking. This article
is about YOUR body language.
Ok… So, I’ll cover the basics as the advanced stuff is beyond the
scope of this article (if you want more advanced detail concerning
body language you can check out my site:
GuyGetsGirl).
Body language basics:
1. Smile
You have to make the female feel at ease and comfortable that you
are a friendly and fun guy and you are not a psycho as quick as
possible. Especially when talking to her for the first time. You
also need to let her know that you are confident and comfortable
around women. A big and genuine smile is the best way to do this. It
works. In fact, if you ever get an Ice Queen that you can tell is
about to give you the “dead eye”, give her a big smile. Practice
smiling at random people. You’ll be surprised by how many people
smile back and at how many doors open to you. Smiling WORKS. Just
don’t make it a cheesy, fake smile ;)
2. Eye contact
As you know there’s nothing worse than staring at a woman’s chest –
or even looking. It makes you just like all the other guys who drool
over her. If anything you should use all your skill to NOT look at
her chest – she’ll wonder why her womanly powers don’t work with you
and she’ll seek your attention and subconsciously TRY to get you to
look!
When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much
because it can be intimidating, but if you aim to have eye contact
with her around 70% of the time you are talking, this should be
comfortable for most women. Don’t stare like a crazy man, just be
natural but if you naturally look away or are slightly shy when it
comes to eye contact, make a conscious effort to have a little more.
Eye contact can make serious connections within people. They say the
eyes are a window to the soul and I think there may be some truth to
that. There are even speed dating type events being run that involve
just staring into each others eyes – and from what I hear, they are
pretty successful.
Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of conversation time.
Be natural.
3. Upright posture
Guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women really do prefer
men with straight, upright postures. Look at all the big film actors
like Pitt, Cruise etc. They all have good posture. It says to a
woman you are confident, healthy, and strong (at least in mind).
It’s just generally more attractive and says lots about who you are.
Plus it’s good for your back and will help strengthen your back
muscles making it easier to maintain.
Get into the HABIT of having an upright posture.
4. Gesticulate with open palms
You will not hear this tip anywhere else (or if you do, it was
almost certainly copied from this course).
I’ve gone into in depth studies of body language and this one is a
good one to use in MANY circumstances – I’ve adapted it here after
solid testing to picking up women – however, some people suggest
that when combined with a few other verbal and non-verbal techniques
it can even give you a 50/50 chance of getting out of speeding
fines!
Anyway, basically, when you are talking to a woman and trying to
make a point (that puts you in a positive light) or defend yourself
(for example, a girl suggests you might be a player) you talk and
using your hands you have open palms facing upwards. Keep your arms
in front of your body with your palms facing the sky and smile as
you talk.
It works VERY well on a subconscious level to suggest you are being
honest and telling the truth. And if you want a woman to begin to
trust you, making her think you are being straight with her, is
important.
This open palm gesticulation MUST be combined with a smile to work
effectively.
Those are the basics of body language. If you'd like to learn more
visit Tiffany Taylor's site
click here...
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Tiffany Taylor is the female author of
GuyGetsGirl, a
special guide that reveals for the first time what goes on the minds of
women and, most importantly, how men can turn the tables on women by
using special psychological techniques to attract and seduce them,
anywhere, anytime…effortlessly.
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