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 The perfect kiss will
help lock you in with the man or woman of your dreams and will put
you down in his / her memory banks forever! But, how do you achieve
the perfect kiss? Each person has different feelings about the way
they like to be kissed. A general rule for the first kiss is to be
soft and brush his / her lips gently, without thrusting your tongue
into your partner’s mouth as if you were playing tonsil hockey.
Once you are in a relationship, go outside your comfort zone and ask
your partner what he / she thinks would be the perfect kiss. For
many women and men as well, it's important to set the mood for the
perfect kiss. While rushing your loved one into a heated kiss when
you first walk in the door after work can be very stimulating and
arousing, using this method every time may cause your partner to
withdraw.
Have you ever noticed your partner starting to avoid kissing you in
little ways? Maybe, you reach for a kiss and he / she turns her
cheek. Or when you move in for the kiss, your partner ducks under
you and makes up some excuse, like he / she hears someone at the
door. Or perhaps when you are both in bed, your partner pretends to
be asleep before your goodnight kiss.
If you find yourself in any one of these types of situations, here
are a few tips to help you: First, you need to set the mood. Whether
that means taking your arms, wrapping them around your partner and
gazing into his / her eyes for even a brief time, putting on music
that you both love and cuddling on the couch or dancing in the
living room, just do it. Once the mood is set, gently take your
partner’s face into your hands, using one of them to gently run your
fingers through his / her hair lovingly then softly kiss the surface
of his / her lips, not seeking anything deeper.
Once you have reached that moment, gently pull away to gaze into
your partner’s eyes again for a brief moment, before you venture to
the lips again. Next, gently rest your lips again on your partner’s,
slowly taking them between yours in a soft sucking motion. Do this
for a short of time before you proceed to the next step. Remember,
whatever you do, don't just thrust your tongue into your partner’s
mouth upon first touch. Once you have achieved a massaging of his /
her lips for a few minutes, gently glide your tongue into your
partner’s mouth, letting it play with his/ her tongue as if the two
were dancing together.
Every so often (but not overdoing it), thrust your tongue deep into
your partner’s mouth and then gently pull away to again mingle with
his / her tongue. This move can be a very sexy and intoxicating move
when used correctly and during the right moment in the kiss. Don't
keep your tongue in your partner’s mouth for the entire time. Keep
changing positions in the way your hold him / her, caressing your
partner’s backside without making it a sexual overture and moving
back and forth from dancing with his / her tongue to massaging his /
her lips.
Caress your partner’s hair again, cradle him / her in your arms
while you are gazing into your partner’s eyes and then begin the
kiss again. Once you get the hang of this, again ask your partner
what he / she likes and doesn't like. Kissing is an art and each
individual person has different preferences. |
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Jaci Rae author of:
Winning Points with the Woman in Your Life One Touchdown at a Time
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