Ahh superheroes. They've got it made. There isn't a man alive who hasn't secretly longed for telepathic powers if only to understand what women want.
And
there's been more than one occasion when I've wished for the power
of invisibility -- particularly when seated in a nice restaurant
with my new date, only to find my ex and his new date at the table
nearby.
Maybe superheroes can teach us something meaningful about dating behavior. Stranger things have happened...
Spider-man
Peter Parker is bitten by a radioactive spider while watching a
demonstration on radiation technology, leaving him with superhuman
spider-like abilities.
Be a Super Date: Spider-man has superpowers of adhesion allowing him
to stick to almost any surface. Channel his arachnid abilities and
stick with your date even if they don't seem your type at first.
First dates can be fraught with anxiety, which will naturally settle
as your date becomes more at ease. Like Spider-man, developing your
sense of intuition is a dating superpower that helps you read a
situation and respond accordingly, which can help ensure the date
runs more smoothly.
The Incredible Hulk
Dr. David Banner is zapped by gamma radiation which alters his body
chemistry, transforming him into a seething, green monster whenever
he gets mad.
Be a Super Date: There's a lot to be learned from this not-so-jolly
green giant about dating and anger management. If you've had a
crappy day, do something constructive to decompress before meeting
up with your date. Dating is not a cheap alternative to professional
counseling, so don't use your date as a human stress ball. Tell them
-- in one sentence -- that you've had a nightmare day, and then let
them know your focus now is having a good time with them.
Daredevil
Blinded by radioactive waste while trying to save a blind man from
being hit by a truck, Matt Murdoch (aka Daredevil) develops a
heightened sense of hearing, smell and touch.
Be a Super Date: The ability to listen is one of the most important
characteristics of being a good date, so keep your sense of hearing
finely attuned when getting to know someone new. Be a Daredevil.
Give your date the impression you really care what they are saying,
by paraphrasing their comments and asking relevant questions.
There's nothing more flattering than having someone pay attention
and reallylisten to you.
Wonder Woman
Born on Paradise Island, Diane Prince is blessed with crime-fighting
powers -- and an ability to deflect slings and arrows with her
indestructible bracelets.
Be a Super Date: On first appearances, Wonder Woman's skimpy little
costume could be all the dating advice you'll ever need. What
hot-blooded man would not love you to turn up in hot-pants
accessorized with what looks like some sort of S&M prop? But it's
not adopting Wonder Woman's satin-clad attire that will make you a
super date; it's harnessing her ability to foil those who seek to
bring her down. Staying positive and upbeat, by deflecting
negativity with your own magical bracelets is a simple way to become
a really super date.
Magneto
Born a mutant, X-Men character Magento bides his time on Asteroid M
perfecting his ability to control magnetic fields, while waiting
(aren't we all?) for the day when mutants will rule the earth.
Be a Super Date: You don't need to be a mutant to control your own
personal magnetic field. Enlist the superpower of body language;
it's a simple way to alter your physical space and influence those
around you, particularly when dating. Keep your shoulders back and
your body facing your date and you'll create a sense of openness
that your date will find positively magnetic.
Batman
Orphaned after the murder of his parents, Bruce Wayne sets about
transforming himself into a super smart, super fit, kick-ass
avenger.
Be a Super Date: Kinky rubber fetish wear aside, there's a lot to be
learned about being a super date from our caped crusader.
Millionaire, entrepreneur, philanthropist, skilled martial artist,
Olympic gymnast, marksman and general all-round good guy, Batman
knows the value of having many and varied interests. Keep your life
in balance with interesting pastimes, a healthy lifestyle and an
active mind. Just ditch the Boy Wonder. Unless you want people to
wonder...
Superman
Born on Krypton, Clark Kent arrives on Earth after the destruction
of his home planet, where it soon becomes clear he has superpowers
behind those nerdy glasses.
Be a Super Date: Superman really is a super man -- and I'm betting he knows that being spontaneous makes you a super date. Undeterred by obstacles tall and small, this guy can change his outfit at lightning speed -- and in a phone box too. But kids, don't try this at home. And never wear your underpants on the outside.
Article written by Sarah Fielding. This work is copyrighted by the author. No unauthorized duplication or presentation allowed. Reprinted With Permission
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