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The Right Humor Tonality

Your tonality accounts for over 50% of the total effect of any speech you make.

Including the jokes you tell.

Your tonality has to be upbeat and suggest funniness. Think for a moment how a host of a funny talk show or comedy night or those comedy stars and how a priest or politician speaks.

You have to vary your tonality too. Here’re a few main categories of tonalities you need to master.

The soothing

It’s the kind of breathy voice which couples often use. When two people like each other and stand in proximity, they also tend to speak in soothing tones.

You can practice by increase your exhaling while speaking. Lower your volume as if you want to express you affection through your tone. You speak with soothing tonality when no threat is present, which is the main reason why many people tend to speak to a child using this type of voice.

The baritone

The typical voice of a Hollywood action movie. Baritone voice or tone is perceived as masculine, calm and being in control. Lower the pitch of your voice (but make sure you’re comfortable) and speak slowly. Make frequent pause during speech and add in cadence whenever possible.

You can practice this though singing. If you have sung in or listened to choir practice before, you’d have a clue on how they practice varying the whole gamut of pitches at will.

The energetic

The typical Anthony Robbins voice. Speak with enthusiasm and at a speech rate that is faster than average.

The energetic voice is also breathy but the opposite of soothing. You speak with an energetic tonality as though you’re deliberately suppressing your emotion, which, on the contrary, effectively magnify the impact.

It is the type of voice you tell small kids a story. Reduce the exaggeration appropriately and you’re good to go.

The dramatic

If you’ve ever watched a Shakespeare play, you know what I’m talking about. There’s a lot of variation in the voice quality and a strong exhibition of different emotions.

The dramatic tonality is not suitable for general conversation. It is used to add humor or dynamism to the conversation occasionally. Don’t over do it otherwise you may annoy or scare the woman you’re talking to.

Practice by acting any hyper-drama you see on stage or television. You can also try out any of the play scripts as an alternative form of entertainment.

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About the author:
Martin Merrill is the author of the popular eBook “Make Women Laugh – How To Make Any Woman Laugh At Any Time, And Place, Any Way You Want As They Fall In Love With You”. He also offers a free course on the topic of “Attracting Women Through Humor And Laughter” at



Article by Martin Merrill
Author of “Make Women Laugh – How To Make Any Woman Laugh At Any Time, And Place, Any Way You Want As They Fall In Love With You”.

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