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Men’s Killer Dating
Mistake - and how to avoid it!
Once you are good at meeting women online, or anywhere for that
matter… The next step is to be able to qualify the lady quickly. By
qualify I mean to decide whether to see her again and allow her into
your life. This is a very important skill for many reasons.
Here is the killer mistake a lot of men make:
They spend too much time with a woman they should have
"disqualified" 20 minutes after they met her. Mainly because they're
glad to meet any woman who shows an interest in them.
What's the best way to avoid the pain and hassle of a bad partner?
To be able to disqualify a future partner!
Not easy I know.
See, the men that are good with women, don’t waste their time and
energy on someone they instinctively know is going to be trouble.
These guys have good qualifying skills, being able to move on
quickly from un-responsive or unsuitable women. Then spending their
time with only highly qualified dates.
This is ‘effective time management’ for producing the best results!
So how do you qualify you ask?
Mmmmhhh, good question and a skill not practiced by many.
Let’s look at it and give an example:
What men good with women do is to have clearly defined criteria and
as soon as they identify a trait that is outside of their criteria,
they politely discontinue interest and move on. You need to know
what your desired outcome is.
Whether it is finding one lady for a permanent one on one committed
relationship. Or you may want adventure and good times without too
much commitment. If you don't decide your desired outcome, you can't
define your ideal dating partner. Once you do know your outcome,
however, the next step is to define the criteria of the "ideal
dating partner."
Once you have that criteria defined, you want to as Quickly as
possible find out if a woman fits that criteria. If she doesn’t,
then you need to spend your time identifying those who do. This is
where most men make the ‘Killer mistake.’
They stick with a woman they should "disqualify," hoping she'll
develop the traits they're looking for. If she doesn't fit your
criteria, decide and move on quickly. Then spend your valuable time
and energy finding one who does. |
About the Author
Mick Jones
www.howtomeetwomenontheinternet.com
Mick Jones has cut his teeth at the front lines of the internet dating
fields. After many wounds and battle scars Mick now has consistent
success. Mick is convinced any man can too. To subscribe to his FREE
weekly newsletter, click on the link above now.
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Here's a common example:
If you're looking to be married, and you're dating a woman who says, "I
just want to have some fun and meet people, and if it goes further,
we'll see what happens," then you need to disqualify her.
She's looking for fun and adventure, not marriage, so she’ll be hard
work to change to the traits you are looking for. And waste your
valuable time…
Fair enough? So you’ll need to find and spend time with the type of
women that suits your criteria. Write your criteria down and look at it
BEFORE you send kisses, winks and emails at online dating sites.
If you just want to date and meet as many women as possible, which I did
when I first went online to get experience, Your criteria can be small.
However this gets frustrating and disappointing as you are not spending
quality time with quality women. Then a Year has gone by and you’ve had
a lot of fun, but still not a really special, high quality woman in your
life, that I’m sure you desire…
So the key to avoid the ‘killer mistake’ with online dating or any
dating, is to define what YOU WANT. Then put as much time and energy as
you can with women who fit that criteria, quickly moving on from women
who don't. As hard and harsh as that may be, your success with women
will be a direct result of how you manage your time! This will lead you
to finding the type of woman who you want and look forward to spending
time with.
This leads to a feeling of well being, success and contentment.
Good luck, I hope you’ve got value from this article.
Regards
Mick Jones
www.howtomeetwomenontheinternet.com
About the Author
Mick Jones
www.howtomeetwomenontheinternet.com
Mick Jones has cut his teeth at the front lines of the internet dating
fields. After many wounds and battle scars Mick now has consistent
success. Mick is convinced any man can too. To subscribe to his FREE
weekly newsletter, visit his website now.
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unauthorized duplication or presentation allowed. Copyright © 2005 Mick
Jones All Rights Reserved Reprinted With Permission
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