Are
you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t have the magic and
romance that it once had? Scared this may affect or eventually end
your relationship?
You’re not alone. Living with the same partner for a long time can
become stable and comfortable, and, as a result, can also cause the
loss of the spark that made your relationship so special in the
first place. Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to
reignite that magic:
1. Send them a unique gift at work.
Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a bright childlike
picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add
labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I
Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal envelope. Place
your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your
partner's workplace, such as: “For the immediate and urgent
attention of: Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith Solicitors,
New York.” Mail it to your partner so they receive it in the middle
of a busy day.
2. Become kids again.
If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and give your partner
a ride. This will often bring back happy memories from their
childhood.
3. Fun with water.
On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols and take them to
the beach with you. Pull them out and throw one to your partner and
then have a huge water fight.
4. Bring back childhood memories.
Contact your partner's family and ask if there was anything she
always wanted when she was a little girl. For example, if she always
wanted a porcelain doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only
appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you were thoughtful
enough to find out what she always wanted. You can do this for your
man too.
5. Organize a backyard picnic on a warm summer’s night.
Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get together some snacks,
chocolates and champagne. Lie down on the blanket with your partner
and gaze up at the stars together.
6. Show you’re grateful for your partner.
Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find it, with a note
on it saying: "Thank you for coming into my life."
7. Spice up your lovemaking.
Surprise your partner with a little gift after you make love, try a
new position, learn to give your partner a sensual massage before or
after, or just spend some time staring into each other’s eyes and
caressing their bare skin before making love.
So there you have it 7 ways to add more passion and excitement to
your relationship starting right away.
Whether
you want to get your ex back or you’re just worried that he might
leave one day, getting the right advice is important. So how does
Michael Webb’s new “Getting Him Back” book compare to the rest?
Let’s find out…
The problem with most “get him back” books is that they usually say
things like, “just don’t pursue him and he may eventually come
back.” What kind of advice is that? What if he’s seeing other women?
What if he’s moved on? Then what do you do?
That kind of information sucks, especially when you pay money for
it! And worst of all, most of these books PROMISE they’ll get your
man back. How can they make claims like this when there are 1000’s
of possible scenarios you could experience?
Thankfully, “Getting Him Back” is different. It never tries to
sugarcoat or get your hopes up. It stays grounded in the real world
(where most of us live!)
And the content? Upon first glance I was very pleased with the
content. The book started off with the most important topic of all:
Do you REALLY REALLY want him back?
It covers this in great depth to ensure you don’t make the same
mistake over and over again, and it does a good job of this. It
covers 22 important questions on 3 topics including: How did you
contribute to the breakup? How did he? How will things be different
when you get back together? Questions you should ask yourself to
help you make the right decision.
Once you’re 100% sure you want him back, the book moves into the
breakup material. It begins with the breakup itself and covers
everything all the way up to catching up with him again, covering
each stage step-by-step.
I love that this book is FOR WOMEN ONLY. Most of these books are NOT
gender specific, which of course is ridiculous because most of us
would agree that men and women are completely different creatures.
So is the book perfect? No.
While using canned speeches could work against your efforts by
making your ex suspicious, it still would have been nice to see some
examples in this book to help paint the picture.
However, all in all, this is still the best “getting the love of
your
life back” book I’ve seen. I highly recommend it to any woman who
wants her sweetheart back, or is having relationship trouble, or is
just worried that her man may leave her one day.
For more info check out…
www.gettinghimback.com
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