Women don't like or enjoy sex as much as you do.
Is there anyone who still believes this? Read an issue of
Cosmopolitan or watch an episode of Sex and the City, and you'll
know what's up. When you're fighting hard for that tiny little bang
(which is supposed to be your orgasm) while your girl has just gone
off for the third time in a row, it makes you wonder who really
enjoys sex more, right?
Whenever you go out, keep this in mind: The girl you're talking to
wants to have sex every bit as much as you do. It's just that she
needs more time to relax and lose her inhibitions, because society
is likely to label a more sexually active girl a “whore.” Just
provide the circumstances in which she can feel comfortable in your
company, and the rest is guaranteed.
2. Women don't like porn and aren't turned on by visual triggers.
There's an urban legend that women don't like to watch porn — well,
my friend, it's time to blow that one out of the water. The fact is
they DO like to watch porn — it's just that they won't admit it.
According to my girlfriends and countless other women I've asked,
upon seeing a new men, a woman always looks at his ass first — and
even librarian types will sneak a second or third glance.
Although women tend to be more attuned to their other senses —
sounds and smells — than men, visual triggers are just as important
to them. Your girlfriend will occasionally watch a porn flick when
she's horny, although she won't spend an hour every day searching
for sex on Google.
3. Women like badass machos who are rough and don't show any
It's a common misconception in our society that men should be as
badass as Chuck Norris and never cry or show any emotion. If you
think this is the key to getting laid, then I hate to be the one to
break it to you, but being badass won't make you a man.
A man is confident and knows how to lead a woman and how to make
decisions. But a man should also be passionate and capable of
showing emotion toward a woman.
Would you prefer a teddy bear to a real, live girl? Just as you like
it when your girlfriend gives you a kiss or caresses your face, she
also likes to feel the same kindness from you.
4. Women need a lot of freedom, and they hate to be controlled.
Don't be afraid to show emotion and tenderness when you're with a
girl — but please be careful not to become a wimp and lose control.
A woman likes to be controlled by a strong man to a certain degree,
and to keep her, you must be prepared to give her your own special
brand of “tough love.”
A girl likes to feel secure and likes to have a guy who is able to
protect her. But how can she feel secure that you can provide for
her properly if you let her take control? Taking control might feel
nice to her the first time she does it. But after a while, she finds
it increasingly boring and tiresome.
A woman does need freedom to a certain degree, but at the same time,
she likes to be taken care of. Thus, a man who knows how to walk
that thin line between giving her enough space and making all her
decisions for her will be very attractive to a woman.
5. You need to become a player and develop serious game to
To attract women, you don't need any fancy techniques or skills.
What you DO need is to learn how to take care of yourself and dress
properly, to develop certain social skills, to live your life with
passion (note that passion doesn't have to mean bungee jumping; you
can be passionate about everyday things too) and to learn how to
loosen up and be yourself around women.
If you're starting from ZERO, there's a learning curve you'll have
to go through. Most important, you need to approach and talk to many
women before you can actually come out of your shell and be your
true self. Interacting with many women is also key to finding your
Manliness, which you may have been pressured to hide by society
and/or your upbringing. Your shortlist for success is:
a. Take care of yourself.
b. Go out and socialize.
c. Be passionate about your life, and feel good in your skin.
d. Let go of societal pressure to have a girlfriend, and you'll see
that she comes to you when you least expect her.
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