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 So,
you've decided to change yourself for the better. You've read
countless dating advice books, and you've tried numerous techniques
and "magic bullets" to become more successful with women. Now, upon
meeting a girl, you carefully watch her reactions to every word you
say. You calibrate your "game" to how she behaves, and every muscle
of your body homes in on seducing that girl.
My friend, this is BULLSHIT - in all caps. You know what separates
successful guys from chumps who are never successful with women?
Attitude. The attitude of: "Who cares?"
You've no doubt had times in your life when you worked hard to learn
a certain ability or skill. You had small successes, but the "big
breakthrough" seemed far away and unreachable. Then at some point,
you got fed up with your failures, decided "not to give a SHIT" and
went on with your life with an attitude of "Who cares?" Suddenly,
within a few weeks or months, you found yourself reaching your
desired goal.
With me, the same thing happened when I started learning how to
attract women. For months and years of my life, I piled up failure
after failure. Then when I was really scraping the bottom, I decided
to throw everything out the window. I just went on with my life and
started doing what I wanted to do. Then suddenly, I found that I had
more and more women around who were into me, and I found myself
achieving the success I'd always desired.
You know what most people are looking for? They aren't looking for a
bigger car, a hotter girlfriend or more power. Deep inside, they're
looking for MORE FREEDOM - they just don't know it yet. Freedom
means not being influenced by your external circumstances - when
shit happens, you shake yourself off and move on with a "who cares?"
attitude ... because shit always happens, but FREEDOM is something
no one can take away from you.
Take the nerd and the player. Both are dependent on women: The nerd
is unhappy because he's alone; the player needs the constant
validation he gets from girls who are into him.
Then there's the guy who's FREE. He's learned to live the life he
enjoys; thus, he's happy whether he's alone or with a girl. Let's
say our guy meets a hot girl, and instead of working to please her,
he simply gives what he is (himself). If she likes it, she can take
it and be a part of his life. If she doesn't like it, she can move
on - it's her decision. But still, our guy is FREE and thus, he is
happy - whatever she decides. He isn't influenced by her decision.
Whether you admit it or not, it's widely known that it's the girl
who chooses. She can reject you when you approach her; she can
reject you when you go in for a kiss; she can reject you when you're
about to have sex. The only thing you can control is YOUR OWN
REACTION. You can react with anger - you can react with fear (how am
I ever going to find another girl like her?) - or you can simply
react with: Who cares?
Now I'll let you in on the "secret of the ages ;)": There is nothing
more attractive to a woman than a man who is FREE. A man who does
what pleases him, a man who goes after what he wants and lives out
his deepest desires and the life he craves. Such a man might not be
able to bed 100 percent of the women out there, but he will always
have a lot of girls around him - coming back for more.
Finally, a word of warning: "Who cares?" is not about carelessness
and depression. It's possible to reach a state in your life when you
stop caring about anything - but that's simply self-destructive.
What I'm talking about is real FREEDOM. And freedom can only come
when you learn to control your emotions and walk on the road of
happiness and self-discovery - which is a journey toward living an
authentic life and being your own man - a Real Man - the Real YOU.
If you are looking for a helping hand, I suggest you check out my
e-book, All About Women. It will teach you how to get from saying
"Hi!" to having sex, but it will also guide you on your journey to
be FREE - to find what really works for you and to find balance in
your life - and with women as well.
Visit ======> www.seduction-and-dating.com |
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What
separates you from the guys who attract the most beautiful women? It's
NOT your looks or money.
Giuseppe Notte is the author of an amazing new e-book, "All About Women"
that will teach you the secrets of dating and mating with the most
beautiful women - whether you are ugly, fat, young, bald or broke!
Visit
www.seduction-and-dating.com
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