 When it comes to the topic of looks with women, most guys are
usually clueless and confused. They tend to think in extremities:
you either need to look like Brad Pitt to pick up decent looking
women, or you can look like a homeless and still get laid.
The truth is in-between.
I'm sure you have seen model-looking guys with hot women and thought
she must have only been with him because of his looks. On the
contrary, you might have also seen butt-ugly guys with the hottest
girls, which left you wondering. To understand the situation better,
let's talk about the details of your first interaction with a girl.
As psychologists say, people will have formed a firm opinion about
you within the first 30 seconds or 1 minute of meeting you. This is
especially true for women. How can you make a good impression on
people? With your looks and with your attitude. (body language,
eye-contact, words)
And here comes the most protected dirty little secret of seduction
gurus:
When a woman checks you out, she will not look at your face. She
will look at your shoes and check whether they are polished or not.
She will look at your nails and see if they are long or dirty. She
will look at your clothes to see whether they are clean or not, how
they go together with your image/personality and what they
communicate. Having a style that is also consistent with your
personality is one of the most important things.
You are a man and you will look at a girl's breasts, check out her
ass and see if she has a baby face. But women always look at the big
picture and the way you come off from the first second of meeting
you. She will picture herself in her head with you together and
think what people would say about her if she went out with you.
Women are self-validation junkies, they are constantly looking for
the approval of other people and you will be another piece of this
puzzle as well. Girls don't want a man on their side who doesn't
know how to look or behave.
Thus the first step towards improving your success is fixing your
looks.
You might say that your looks is something you can't change. This is
dead wrong. You don't need plastic surgery to improve your looks by
at least 2 points on a scale from 1 to 10. All you need is to be
neat, tidy and to have some style.
If you have big red acne on your face, get proper treatment. If your
hair is greasy and long, wash it and get a stylish haircut. If you
dress like a nerd, go to the local shopping center and get some new
clothes. You don't have to spend a million bucks on clothes; style
doesn't mean dressing expensively, it means dressing fashionably. If
you are too thin, put on some muscle. If you are fat, get on a diet.
Do you catch what I'm saying? Just by taking care of yourself a
little bit, you can leave a much better impression on people and the
women you interact with.
To summarize it, your looks matter as long as you don't care about
it. As soon as you get that handled, girls won't care whether you
look like Brad Pitt or not. As long as you have the proper attitude
of course. And that is what I'll talk about in my next article.
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What
separates you from the guys who attract the most beautiful women? It's
NOT your looks or money.
Giuseppe Notte is the author of an amazing new e-book, "All About Women"
that will teach you the secrets of dating and mating with the most
beautiful women - whether you are ugly, fat, young, bald or broke!
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Article by Giuseppe Notte
Author Giuseppe Notte has created "All About Women",
the *ultimate* guide on turning YOU, the average guy into
a sex-magnet who gets the most beautiful girls
- whether you are fat, ugly, bald, young or broke!
Visit ======> www.seduction-and-dating.com
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