SHHHHHH, don't tell
anybody, but, I know the secret.
It all started with a simple shopping spree. I had decided to surprise my wife
with a new purchase of special clothing essentials from every man's dreamiest
of feminine wardrobe stores.
Yes, it was Victoria's Secret.
After spending a few hours there, I mean, a few minutes, something became very
apparent to me. It was very obvious to anyone with a trained eye and the gift
of observance. It became very apparent that I was the only man in a store
mainly comprised of women who was shopping alone.
At that moment, I could sense it. Obviously, I was Ted Bundy, Osama Bin Ladin
and Sadam Hussein, all rolled into one.
Now, I'm being humorous, but every man who has embarked upon a shopping
mission such as this can empathize with me.
Should I get cotton? Should I get satin? Should I get silk? What about lace?
Of course, you have to touch the cloth and check the size to find just the
right purchase, which causes even more feelings of suspicion as you lift each
garment from the table it is displayed on. "I sure hope they don't think I'm
some kind of pervert", I remember thinking.
After several, seemingly unapproachable moments, a young lady decided she
would close the chasm that existed between us and, sheepishly I might add, ask
if I needed some help. In this store where every piece of clothing is
practically of an intimate nature, she assisted me in finding the sizes I
needed.
Through all my humorous discomfort something began to dawn on me. While I
didn't go in on a mission of finding out what Victoria's Secret "secret" is, I
think this experience may have disclosed it.
Stay with me a few minutes and I will share with you what I think.
It is something that seems to have been misplaced in our desensitized sexually
liberated culture.
THE SECRET
Let's say that someone walks up to you and hands you the keys to two
different cars. One of those cars is an old Subaru Justy and the other a
brand new Ferrari. Do you think you might handle the Ferrari a little
different than you would the Justy?
Of course you would, we all would.
We would probably wash the Ferrari a lot more. We would probably make
sure the Ferrari was garage kept. While we may let just anybody drive
the Justy, the Ferrari would be virtually unattainable for anyone to
drive.
What's the difference?
VALUE!
We always treat differently what we value.
That, I believe is Victoria's Secret, "secret". For years this franchise
has made a living by placing high value on the female anatomy. You can't
experience a shopping escapade like the one mentioned above, see all the
colors and the different fabrics designed to help a woman feel special,
without seeing it.
THE APPLICATION
I wonder, have we cheapened the human sexual experience and personally
lost the proper placement of value our creator has given our bodies?
When we show little concern about how we place our bodies on display.
When we could care less about leaving anything to the imagination. When
our mentors are the people showing the most skin.
Have we lost the issue of VALUE?
When program after program on TV reports teenagers engaging in sexual
conduct with multiple partners on the back of a school bus. When
high-school age kids are admitting to sexual encounters in the double
digits before they graduate. When human sexuality is considered little
different than an amusement park scream machine that anyone and everyone
can ride if they wish.
Have we lost the issue of VALUE?
Remember, we always treat differently what we value.
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