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[August
19 2008]
This week's topic: Change for the Better
There are two types of change: positive and negative.
Positive change are the things we have to work for: a positive outlook on life, a bubbly personality, a more hygienic person… these are things we have t work on and it can be a constant battle.
The other type of change, negative, takes no effort whatsoever. Just sit there, don't move, don't think about what will happen next, lose all control of your future. That is negative change. It happens all the time. And without any effort.
Positive change is what we are discussing this week. Creating the better life that we deserve does take effort but no one will say that the effort is wasted.
What I want you to do is write down a list of the things you want in life: better job, romantic relationship, more interesting friends, etc., and then decide how to make these dreams a reality.
Better job: requires more education, work conscientiousness at your current job;
Romantic relationship: requires an effort of personality change, working towards your ideal mate;
More interesting friends: requires more interests of your own to be realized, maybe different hobbies, social night classes (cooking anyone?), even taking a different route home from work or school, stopping at a new coffee shop, a new restaurant.
Change for the better is within your reach… so stretch out your arm and reach for your dreams, with some changes for the better they will be realized.
Have a great week!
[August 12 2008]
This Week's Topic: Are You Ready For What's Next?
There is a truth that is common for all of us: nothing stays the same. And there is a truth that is also true for all of us, love can surprise you. And on this note I want to help you to be prepared for what is next. You are already on the road to finding love. Reading plenty of advice articles? Check. Looking for great online dating services to join? Check.
Now that you've started it's time to fine-tune your game. And that means being prepared 100% of the time to meet that special someone.
Because life and love, will surprise you, so be ready to accept love when it comes a-calling.
[July 22 2008]
This Week's Topic: Rejection
The one aspect that often is a great huge stumbling block to many people dating is the fear of rejection.
"Hi, would you like to go with me to…" and she says "No."
Ouch, that hurts. It really stings. But there is a positive side to rejection in that it's a learning experience. It's just too bad that we can't later ask the person to complete a "Personality and Compatibility Survey" and try to understand what our actual mistake was for getting that big rejection and sunken stomach feeling. But maybe you can… if you have the person's email there is a possibility of getting a reply after a few days and the pain has subsided. Where do we go wring more often? We assume too much. Either that the person we are interested in has similar likes and dislikes (while they might be very compatible maybe it just wasn't the right time to ask them), or they don't. Maybe they like the clothes you wear, or they think you're 70's funk is just a tad much.
I hope that you have a friend or two that you can get an honest answer from about the rejections you've been suffering (yes, dating is a hurting game) and be able to move forward with your life and romantic/dating potential.
Don't get off the dating train, find the advice (which aLoveLinksPlus.com has
plenty of) to help you win at love.
I know you can do it, now get out there and prove me right!
[July 9 2008]
This Week's Topic: Success At Online Dating
Being successful using online dating services does not depend on how you are dressed, your education, your looks (somewhat), your income (depending on service), the food you eat or even if you haven't had a shower in days. While these values will make a difference on a real date, online dating has distinct advantages of helping you to find and meet interesting people that you would like to meet in person without worrying if you smell, if your makeup is perfect, etc.
Browsing and searching through hundreds (thousands) of personal ads may not seem a great way to spend an evening or a few minutes of downtime at work, but it sure beats watching TV reruns or playing the same video games and the rewards of your persistent searching and sending winks, hellos kisses and other introductory messages and emails is a fun way to meet people that you otherwise wouldn't meet in your day to day routine.
And you just might find "the One". I know I did and I know that if you take online dating seriously, if you put the proper amount of effort into your quest, you will find your "One" too.
[July 1 2008]
This Week's Topic: Stop Doubting Yourself
Self doubt is one of the most crippling thoughts that stop us from accomplishing the goals and getting the things that we want out of life. When you are interrupted by your inner voice saying that you can't do something, that you should have been dumped, passed over or ignored, simply because you are you – then it's time to get a new inner voice. And a new outlook of confidence that can be infectious throughout all aspects of your life. Self doubt needs to be conquered by self help and sometimes counseling. Now that we have reached the halfway mark of the year you should take stock of what you have accomplished over the last six months. Are you where you want to be in life? Can you identify where you could improve? Are your goals being realized or are they still far from coming to fruition? Help is only a click away. And no matter what you hear inside your head, you can do reach your goals because you are good enough!