We see these interactions every day
but we seldom initiate a behavior to indirectly get what we want, we
directly behave a certain way to get the answer/response we want.
This "Relationship Balance" happens in business,
friendship, family and romantic relationships.
and answer. Push forward and pull away.
Think back over your day so far
and find the acts of "Cause and Effect" that happened to you today.
We you in control or being led?
Which do you prefer?
Could you have made this incident any different by changing what you
Sure you could have.
We are directed not only by our own actions but how we
react to other people's reactions.
This "decisive reaction" is solely under our control
66% of the time, the remaining percentage being impulsive reaction.
Women are naturally more mature than men. It's this
maturity level that allows women, along with understanding "Cause and
Effect" to lead men to understanding the bigger picture in relationships,
Whether you're looking for more of a commitment, a proposal leading to
marriage, as long as you understand "Relationship Balance" you can keep the
man you want to catch.
Let's say that you are dating a guy and you really
want the relationship to move forward. You want more of a commitment
from him. Do you speak loudly and confrontationally about being
"exclusive"? Do you harangue him until he agrees to whatever you say
just so he can go?
There is no balance in
the above examples. You need a different approach, one that isn't
demanding, one that isn't confrontational.
there should be some leading examples, another couple's
happiness, a planned trip together in the future, that takes a man
into a future that does include you, and excludes other women
Showing a committed future
through examples is the best, least resistance creating method.
Cause and Effect in a Balanced Relationship.
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