The Magic of Making Up

How To Get My Boyfriend Back When He's Moved On

Follow your heart but use your brain to discover other steps which could be effective in your particular situation.

by T Dub

Couple making up

7 Basic Strategies You Need To Follow

Have you lost your boyfriend, and are now asking for help on "how to get my ex back when he's moved on" with his life?

Don't bother moping around, because what you are without right now does not mean you have lost it forever.

Here are some quick and simple tips and strategies for learning how to get your ex-boyfriend back even if he has moved on to another woman and no longer appears to be interested in dealing with you.


 - The first step to getting your dream guy back is finding a way to convince him that he still wants you. Unless he really, really does not want anything to do with you, then there are a number of options that you can employ from this point on. And you should behave as if you want him back but you're Ok with his decision to split up. This is giving him time to understand his own desires for you.


 - One of the most advantageous things that you can do is simply to be his friend. Make a really good friend to him, showing him that you understand him and that you can be around him without creating any drama from your past relationship and new friends. Show him that you can joke around with him and have a healthy friendship with him. When the drama and stress of the relationship and breakup have subsided, he may realize that he wants you again. This often happens because he has wrapped up a lot of his future dreams with you in them, but now just can't think of them anymore. Being his friend, with all this inside info of how he wants to live his life, is a great way to teach you how to behave around him to get him back.


 - When you communicate with your ex boyfriend, be sweet and kind to him but don't be afraid to have a little bit of attitude. Don't be a slave to the one goal of getting him back. You are going to want him to want you, but you're also going to want to give him the feeling that he cannot return to a relationship with you just yet. While playing these standoffish games is not the best way to go, you do not want to give an air of being hard to get and then not making him more interested in the way you are feeling.


 - You should be playing a little bit hard to get, but you also want to make sure that he knows you are available. You shouldn't completely rule out the concept of flirting and hanging out with friends, because drumming up a little bit of jealousy never hurt anyone. But it is important that you play this jealousy game safely because if he doesn't think you are available, he probably will not find the inner motivation to pursue you again.


 - Avoid acting desperate around him and his friends at all costs. If you act desperate, your ex boyfriend will under estimate your value to him as a person that he wants to b with. Don't be an easy catch with unresolved issues surrounding the breakup. You are going to want to play things cool, letting him know that you are okay with everything that has happened, and that you are willing to move on, away from him, if he is. If you act desperate, needy and clingy, then things won't work out the way you are intending them to, so don't behave like this at all costs.


 - Any time that you know he is looking at you, or if you feel like he is looking at you, look at him out of the corner of your eye, slyly. This sidelong glance will let him know that you are paying attention to him, but in a mysterious "you can't have me" kind of way. This draws attention to the fact that you can be without him, and still make him want you across a room. It's a great strategy to getting him to want you back when you are at the same places at the same time.


 - If you find yourself in a conversation with him, casually remind him of some of the best times that you have had together. These fun memories will help him to remember how good the two of you used to be together. Don't bring up any bad events, because it will only hurt on his bad ("I want to stay broken up with you") side, which will not help to get him back.

As you can tell these are simple and down to earth, real life suggestions which provide a few of the steps for learning "how to get my ex back when he's moved on".

Once again, follow your heart but use your brain to discover other steps which could be effective in your particular situation.

The Magic of Making Up by T Dub will help you put into motion the plan to get them back!

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